No, it is not ejaculation. No, it is not gay. But yes it can feel amazing.
Many people ask if male squirting is real. And I do understand why you ask the question. If you have searched for male squirting, you won’t probably find lots of answers. The results you’d find are porn videos and forums.
Not a lot of blogs talk about this. But to answer your question, yes, male squirting is very real. So, let's have an honest take on what it really is, so you can decide if it’s worth trying.
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What Is Male Squirting?
First of all, let’s make sure we’re on the same page. Let’s have a unified definition of what it is.
Male squirting is when a man releases a clear, thin fluid during intense arousal or orgasm. It often happens with prostate play. The fluid usually looks like water, and it can come out in a larger amount than pre-cum.
The prostate is a small gland about the size of a walnut. It sits just below the bladder. You can reach it through the front wall of the rectum, a few inches inside. WebMD and many urologists describe it as a spot that holds many nerve endings. Some men find that touch there feels very stimulating.
Male Squirting vs. Ejaculation
One of the most common misconceptions about male squirting is that it’s the same as ejaculation. No, these two are not the same thing, though they can happen at the same time. Here is how they differ:
- Color and feel: Squirting fluid is usually clear and thin. Semen is white or gray and thicker.
- Contents: Semen holds sperm and fluid from several glands. Vanguard states that squirting fluid does not carry sperm, though some may be left in the urethra from before.
- Amount: Semen is often about a teaspoon. Squirting can be less or more, depending on the person.
- Trigger: Ejaculation comes from penis play in most men. Squirting is most often linked to prostate play.
- Orgasm link: Ejaculation almost always comes with orgasm. Squirting can come with orgasm, before, or after it.
For more on how orgasms work and how to make them feel better, read our guide on better male orgasms.
How to Explore Male Squirting Safely
Note that male squirting is uncommon and only a few individuals have reported experiencing it. So, if it doesn’t happen, don’t force it. What’s important is the sensation and the enjoyment you feel during the experience.
To try it, here are the three simple steps. Go slow, and do not rush any of them.
Step 1: Learn Your Body
Start by learning what is going on down there. The prostate sits behind the pubic bone. The pelvic floor muscles wrap around the base of the penis and the rectum. When these muscles tighten and let go in waves, you get orgasm.
When they stay tight from stress, it is harder to feel anything.
A good habit is to do Kegel exercises before a solo play. To find the right muscle, stop your pee mid-stream once. That muscle is the one you want. Squeeze it for a few seconds, then let go fully. Letting go matters just as much as the squeeze.
Step 2: Prepare Your Mind and Body
Pick a time with no rush. Pee first. Take a warm shower and wash well. Trim your nails if you use your fingers. Breathe slowly. Stress makes the pelvic floor tight, and tight muscles make this harder.
Arousal matters a lot. Many men find that prostate play feels better once they are already very turned on. Use your usual solo routine for a while first. If you want ideas, our masturbation tips for a better solo session can help you build up slowly.
Step 3: Try the Technique
Use plenty of water-based lube. Start with one lubed finger or a toy made for the job. Go in slowly, a little at a time, and stop if it hurts. Feel toward your belly button side. The prostate feels like a small, slightly firm bump.
Try a gentle, motion, or light, steady pressure. For more tips, you can learn more about sensual touch here. Do not press hard. Pair this by stimulating the penis by stroking it or by using a masturbator.
Many men say the feeling grows in waves over ten to thirty minutes. Keep your breath slow. Some men squirt at that point. Many do not on the first try, and that is okay.
To learn more about prostate stimulation, watch this video from Dr. Tanginika S. Cuascud:
Safety Basics
- Never push through pain. Pain means stop.
- Use only body-safe toys, like a prostate massager with a flared base so nothing slips inside.
- Wash toys after each use.
- Talk to a urologist if you see blood, feel ongoing pain, or have trouble peeing after.
Common Myths About Male Squirting
We’ve indirectly uncovered one of the myths about male squirting above, and here are some more of them.
It is just pee.
Some of the time, a small amount of urine may mix in. But many men and doctors describe the fluid as different from urine. It is mainly prostatic fluid that comes from the prostate.
Only gay men can enjoy it.
Not true. The prostate is part of the body of any man, no matter who he is attracted to. Enjoying prostate play says nothing about your sexual identity.
Every man can squirt.
Also not true. Some men will, and some will not. Bodies differ. You can still enjoy strong orgasms either way, and no one is stopping you from trying.
It is unsafe.
When you go slow, use lube, and pick body-safe tools, risk is low for most healthy men. The danger comes from force, rushing, or using the wrong items.
It is a fake thing made up by porn.
Porn might fake it, yes. But men have reported this for years.
Related: Next Level Solo Play: 5 Male Masturbators You Should Try
Frequently Asked Questions on Male Squirting
Is male squirting the same as pre-cum?
Not quite. Pre-cum is a small amount of clear fluid from the Cowper's glands. Squirting is usually more fluid and tends to come with strong arousal or orgasm through prostate play.
Does it hurt?
It should not. Mild pressure is normal. Sharp or lasting pain is not. Stop if it hurts, and see a doctor if pain does not go away.
How long does it take to learn?
It varies. Some men feel something in their first try. Many need several weeks of practice. Some never squirt, and that is also normal.
Do I need a toy?
You don’t need a toy, as you can just use your trusted fingers, but toys can make it easier and better because they can help you stay relaxed and keep a consistent rhythm.
Can it affect fertility?
There is no proof that gentle prostate play harms fertility. If you have worries about that, ask a urologist.
Is it okay to try it alone?
Yes. Many men prefer to learn alone first. It gives you time to find what feels good for you without any pressure.
When should I see a doctor?
See one if you notice blood, ongoing pain, trouble peeing, fever, or any sign of infection after prostate play.
Special Thanks To:
WebMD Editorial Team - WebMD
Milo Loza - Vanguard Portland State University
Dr. Tanginika S. Cuascud - Sexologist - The Sex Doctor
Want to learn more? Read our guides on better male orgasms, masturbation tips for a better solo experience, and sensual touch.
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