The Different Types of Orgasm Explained: How They Feel and How to Reach Them

You think that every orgasm is universal? Surprise, surprise. Because not everything feels the same.

When we talk about orgasm, it’s the feeling that just makes you feel oh-so-good, and sometimes, super good enough to lose your senses.

And orgasms don't happen to be the same, because they can be triggered by using different methods and playing with different yummy spots.

Next up, we’ll break down the most common types of orgasms and let us share some easy peasy tips to help you explore them with confidence.

What is an Orgasm?

Also known as the Big O, climaxing, or cumming, an orgasm is the point where you’ve reached the peak of sexual pleasure. By giving pressure, rhythm, or friction to your genitals, there’ll be some delicious build-up happening that needs to be released.

​The good feeling can stick around for a few seconds, and you can also bring the other spot to the mix, like your balls, nipples, or anus, to beef it up. 

What does an orgasm feel like? Well, you can experience it differently from someone else (totally normal), because some have it easy, while others have to work for it.

Some people can ejaculate a lot, and some can’t, or they can experience it for a shorter or longer time, intensely or gently. 

Psychology Today also mentioned that for vulva owners, 70% of them said that they experienced orgasm during sexual encounters, while it’s 95% for penis owners, which means biology can play a role in this.

How Can Having Regular Orgasms Benefit Your Health?

If you already consider yourself a pro when it comes to orgasms by using your partner, hands, or toys, you may find that it helps you sleep better. If so, then what’s stopping you from doing it tonight to get some quality shut-eye?

Another thing: having an orgasm can boost oxytocin, which can help with anxiety by making you feel calmer, and even support heart health. 

There’s also this one Healthline-cited study where penis owners who ejaculated 21 times a month can lower their risk of getting prostate cancer by roughly 20%.

Getting Curious About How Many Types of Orgasms Are There?

To give yourself or your SO an orgasm, there are a lot of ways and body parts where you can do it.

Vaginal Orgasm If You Want Something Deep

A vaginal orgasm is something a vulva owner can achieve by penetrating their lady bits using fingers, a penis, or a vibrating toy like Angela.

There’s also this general fact that only one in five vulva owners reach an orgasm through penetration, so if you have a partner with a vulva, it’s best to stimulate both parts for them. The clitoris is also quite close to the vaginal canal, so you can stimulate it by changing angles and asking what they like.

Clitoral Orgasm is the Frontrow Fireworks

The clitoris is packed with nerves, like the penis, and is the source of pleasure for most vulva owners once played with.

You can stimulate this part externally, or you can also lift the hood of the skin of the clitoral glans to lick or touch it.

But if you find that your hands are already tired from “double-clicking your mouse,” you can always go for clitoral stimulators like this Magic Suitcase Sleep Beauty to do the clicking, sucking, and vibrating for you.

The majority of vulva owners achieve orgasms with their clit, so don’t forget to play with it. 

Blended Orgasm is the Perfect Balance

To get blended orgasm, you can hit the clitoris and vagina together, because for people with vulvas, this combo can feel so insanely good. 

And because penetration can touch the inner and outer parts of the clit, you can play both areas of it, but if you’re a penis owner who loves to add another layer of vibe, you might wanna wear a cock ring like this Redmii Rosalia to please you and your partner more.

The Charming Cervical Orgasm 

The cervix (the tissue connecting the uterus and vagina) is another body part that can give vulva owners that delicious, full-body orgasm. 

And once you try inserting a finger, you might be able to feel that tiny bump inside. It’s rounded, and the shape resembles the tip of our noses.

It may also need some deeper penetration to reach it, so it’s a plus if you’re a penis owner who leans more on the longer or larger side, but if it’s hard for you to reach it, you can always go for a handheld dildo to give your partner that slow and heavy orgasm.

Having a hard time finding it? You can also do it a few days before menstruation so it's easier to locate, when the cervix is at its lowest. 

G-Spot Orgasm is Like Hitting a Jackpot

The G-spot is the area that you can find in the front of the vaginal wall, so inserting a couple of fingers is needed when playing with it, and do the come-hither motion to locate it.

This spongy part is also close to the clit and urethra, so it blends so well with clitoral stimulation.

Before giving yourself a G-spot orgasm, go to the bathroom and pee first before the deed, so there’s less inhibition when you climax.

Or, you can also opt for an angled toy like this BeYourLover Wavey and insert it just right at your belly button, then rub it to excite that creased spot.

Anal Orgasm is Like Plugging in for Surprises

For people with vulvas, the anterior wall of the rectum shares some of their sensitive nerves with the vagina, while penis owners can go for the prostate (P-spot) if they’d like to reach an orgasm through penetration.

But here’s the thing: the rectum doesn’t self-lubricate like a coochie, so don’t forget to put lots of lube, even when just inserting one finger.

How to have a prostate orgasm? Just like the G-spot, inside a penis owner’s backside, you can find this walnut-sized gland that can feel so good for them when pressed. You can also use the come-hither technique for this.

And also, don’t just penetrate your partner anally like a caveman, because it can cause tears or even mild injuries if their body is not yet ready, so you can try inserting one to a few fingers first, then use your cock or an anal plug, and work your way in gently.

If you’re the giver and doing it for someone with a vulva, you can also hit toward their belly button once you're inside, so you can stimulate the central nerve area.

Nipple Orgasm If You’re Much Into Boobs

Sure, everyone knows where the nipple is located, but are you aware that there are people who attain the Big O just by touching and pinching their nipples?

But once the genitals are involved, then it’s not counted. A nipple orgasm is a pleasurable release that happens with nipples alone, and why?

Because the nipples have a lot of nerve endings that send messages to the brain, in the same way as when a genital stimulation is happening, and if you or your partner wants solid bedroom fun, then you can add nipple clamps, just like this BeYourLover Camera Alberta to give you those gentle pinches that will surely make your back arch.

Coregasm Will Make Those Muscles Work

You might have never encountered the term coregasm before, but it happens during workouts, when you’re busy doing the crunches, lifting, and all.

It’s like you’re getting off while exercising, but unintentionally, and also more spontaneous, so it’s not something that you can train your body for. Coregasms usually happen more to vulva owners too.

Another example is running; when you run, your thighs can rub together and can unintentionally stimulate the clit, while some people report that they can get it from doing yoga. You can try the bridge pose tonight if you’re curious.

Energy and Breath Orgasms, the Tantric Pathways

Orgasms from breathing and energy often come from slow, gauged movement and breathwork, used by people who practice tantra.

To do this, you can find a really quiet spot first, then you can lie down comfortably and place your hand on your tummy, then breathe deeply and exhale, as you observe your hand rise and fall on your belly.

Scan your body. You can also adjust your breathing, whether you prefer it shallow or deep, then arouse yourself by imagining naughty scenarios.

Spontaneous and Sleep Orgasms are the Surprise Arrivals

Spontaneous orgasm can pop up when you least expect it, like when getting a tattoo, breastfeeding, or even just by traveling on a bus, and it stuns you by making you feel some wetness down there.

While sleep orgasms, also known as “wet dreams,” can likely happen to people who just had sex-related dreams that are hot enough to make them get off, and this can happen to all genders.

Dry Orgasm, the One Without the Splash

When one reaches climax and produces so little or no ejaculate, then that’s a dry orgasm.

The causes could be a certain medical issue or stress, but some people do it intentionally (semen-retention practices).

Yet, it still can feel pleasurable and satisfying, and the only difference is the lack of fluid; but if you’re trying to get pregnant, better consult your doc to address if there are any fertility issues. 

FAQs

Can some orgasm types be safer than others?

Most of the types on this list are perfectly safe, but go low and always be mindful; some types might need special care (deep cervical play or anal penetration), and if there’s pain, stop in an instant. 

Can pelvic floor exercises really boost orgasms?

Yes, they can, and strengthening and learning how to relax your pelvic floor can increase the intensity and control of your orgasms; yet, overdoing things can still backfire, so keep things balanced. 

Are squirting and female ejaculation the same thing?

There are times when people use both terms interchangeably, but squirting may refer more to a larger volume of fluid, while female ejaculation can mean a smaller amount; both are normal and can happen to anyone, and not experiencing one or both, doesn’t mean something’s wrong. 

Can penis owners have multiple orgasms as well?

Yes, for some penis owners, that’s possible, especially if they always practice edging. As they practice to shorten the refractory period, they can enjoy more orgasms over time.

Can orgasms cause symptoms like fainting or even pelvic pain?

It’s rare, but it can happen. Having intense orgasms can trigger dizziness, a vasovagal response, or even fainting in some people. If you feel faint during an orgasm, or have chest pain, or any unusual symptoms after sex, see your doc.

Your Pleasure, Your Rules

Indeed, orgasms can come in so many flavors and calling one of them “normal” would really do some disservice to your body’s creativity.

So, if you like intense fireworks, or just wanna go slow, you can choose to use an angled toy and a little patience; the point will always be the same—you have to explore safely, consensually, and as always, communicate.

Wanna try something new? Shop smart and play safer using our list of toys and accessories to make every experiment easier and way more fun!

Special Thanks:

Michael Castleman - Writer - Psychology Today

Susan York Morris - Writer - Healthline

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