Oral sex games feeling a bit repetitive? Here are positions that will surely get you there.
Let’s be real, oral sex sometimes can feel… predictable. Same spot. Same rhythm. Same ending (or even lack thereof).
And if you feel like your go-to move has lost its magic, and you’re craving for something that will get the job done fast, you’re not alone.
Blowjob boredom is legit, and other than techniques, you’ll also need physics to solve this, and changing position is everything.
We’ll feature the best positions for a blowjob below to help you get some better throat access and an awesome finish. And no marathon sessions required here. Let’s get into it.
Same Old Suck? How Switching Positions Can Change Everything for a Blowjob
First, let’s clear something up, because if you learned about blowjobs from porn, where one person stands and the other kneels, and you might think that there’s only one way to do it, it isn’t.
Guys, real life isn’t porn, and it only limits your imagination (or even your flexibility), and changing positions doesn’t only look different, but it feels different, for both people, so position can play a huge part in the vibe.
And while kneeling can feel submissive, and being on top can feel powerful, changing the position can help change the dynamic, but blowjobs aren’t about power, though; a new angle can mean a different access, less strain, and a faster trip to the finish line.
And as per Delight Your Marriage, receiving a blowjob can make penis owners feel more valued, cater more to their emotional needs, and open more ways for discovery.
Bored with the Same Ol’ Oral Routine? These Blowjob Positions Will Help You Finish Faster Than Ever
If your usual move is just kneeling between someone’s legs, doing it the entire session until your jaw hurts, then it’s time to switch things up.
Rainmaker
Doing blowjobs in the shower can be super hot and steamy, and they often mean that one person should be kneeling while the water sprays everywhere. Also, this blowjob variation can put the person who stands in control of the water and the mood.
How to:
The partner who receives it can sit or kneel on the floor of the tub, while the other stands to face them, and the standing partner can also run their hands through the other’s hair to make things feel more connected, warm, and intentional, rather than a rushed shower quickie.
Protips:
If water splashes into your eyes, try to position yourself away from the spray or tilt the shower head a little bit. This position is also great for period sex because the water keeps everything clean.
To add more hotness, the receiver can sneak in a multi-use waterproof vibrator, like this Green Fatima, to pleasure themselves as well as they suck.
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Seated 69
69 becoming boring? Then, you can try this seated version, where the fun stays mutual but adds more stability for both partners and a much better view.
How to:
First, one partner can sit on a sturdy chair, bed, or floor, while the other can flip themselves upside down, so they can place each other’s crotch on each other’s face, and both partners can use their hands to support the position by hugging each other or holding onto some furniture.
Protips:
You can mirror the movements of each other here, like when your partner flicks their tongue, you can also flick your tongue. Sync your rhythm because it keeps things playful, and if you wanna add an extra licking vibe, you can use this BeYourLover Devil Tongue for extra stimulation during oral.
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Throne
For this next position, the power dynamics enter the game, because there’s worship and intense intimacy here, and perfect if the sitting partner wants to feel completely in control.
How to:
The penis owner can sit on a chair with their legs spread, and the other can kneel in front of or underneath them, looking up.
It’s a classic position with a “worship” setup to give deeper access and constant eye contact.
Protips:
If worship isn’t your thing, this position still works as a straightforward blowjob that’s seriously effective, and for an extra, intense finish, you can use a penis stroker like this BeYourLover M2 to add intense vibrations that a real mouth can never give.
After you’re done, the sitting partner can return the favor, so everybody wins.
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Mermaid
Sure, pool sex can sound like a fantasy turned reality, but the thing is, it can also be awkward and slippery, so this position uses the pool ledge to give you stability, control, and a sexy change of scenery without fighting the floating.
How to:
Have the penis owner sit on the ledge or edge of your private pool, then the other partner can stand between their legs, while the water supports them, and it can be super intimate, unique, and feel like a private little getaway.
Protips:
Please make sure that you’re doing this in a private area, and doing this in public, especially around kids, can have serious and legal consequences.
And as per Justia, being naked in public can count as indecent exposure, and you can even be charged with child molestation or even sexual assault.
You can also try using a silicone-based lube, because it won’t wash off in the water, but can keep things slippery and smooth, or you might also wanna use a waterproof Fleshlight, if you’re a penis owner, like this BeYourLover Pulse, or angle your vulva into a water jet for an extra pleasure boost.
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Benchwarmer
Yes, shower blowjobs can be a classic, but if you like it less cramped with less watery mess, you can use this version, where you use a shower bench to make things more comfy, stable, and enjoyable.
How to:
To start, one partner can kneel right in the shower so the water won’t hit their face, and the other partner can sit on a water bench to give them a steady base. Also, this position can make your hands free, and the cleanup is a breeze.
Protips:
For extra water play, the bottom partner can also let some water flow into their mouth during the blowjob, and this extra sensation can be a surprise turn-on for the other.
And since sitting on the bench is much more comfortable, the top partner can let their hands roam the other person’s body for some lovely squeezes. Or better yet, the person at the bottom can use a waterproof and wearable vibrator, like this BeYourLover Squeeze Me, to use on themselves while they focus on their partner.
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Sweet 16
If you’re the type who gets shy about being watched when giving a blowjob, then this position is your solution. It helps block the view, so it reduces the pressure, while giving you total control, which is also really helpful when doing it with a larger partner.
How to:
First, the penis owner can lie flat on their back, and after that, the other partner can straddle their chest while facing their feet. They can bend down next to give the lying partner an upside-down blowjob, and because their back is against the other’s face, they can’t see exactly what the sucking partner is doing.
Protips:
No eye contact? No problem. You can still stay connected by talking dirty and giving each other sex whispers or questions, and rimming works great for this position, too, so if the lying partner is also into anal play, you can use anal toys like this VIREO ROSE P-spot massager, which is easy to use and great for beginners.
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But if you have a partner who has a large Johnson, you can try to put lube on your hands to use them and create an extension of your mouth, to give your partner a fuller and enveloping feel around it.
Sideways Oral
This next position can give a twist when giving head because it just changes the angles and frees your hands up, and it can also work for both blowjobs and cunnilingus.
How to:
Have the penis owner sit up or lie down, and let the other person kneel at their side instead of between their legs, so it’s like their body’s angled across them, and then the partner on the side can use their mouth and hands as usual, but they might need to put more effort than normal to keep things sensational.
Protips:
The angle gives more freedom for your hands to roam, so you can kiss each other’s delicate spots and turn to give each other some flirty looks.
The partner on the side can also cup or play with the penis owner’s balls, or they can opt for a thruster like this BeYourLover Fantasy Cup whenever their mouth or hands need a break.
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Sidecar
The sidecar position is a comfortable and great position to give head if the person who gives the blowjobs wanna feel more relaxed. And it's also perfect for mornings in bed or just being cozy.
How to:
The person who will give the blowjob can lie at the edge of the bed first, with their head turned toward their partner, who is standing next to the bed, to align the genitals and mouth.
Also, the penis owner can use one of their hands to guide the action, and they can put the other to their hips or butt to keep things steady as they thrust.
Protips:
Because this position is super relaxed, this is great for someone with limited mobility or plus-sized, or when you just don’t wanna leave the sheets.
To give the right height, the penis owner can do some squats, or the person on the bed can put some pillows underneath their head, and you can also make things hotter by letting the penis owner wear a cock ring like this TOYCOD BARZIALLAI, to add wilder sensations while having head at the same time.
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Duck and Cover
The duck and cover position is your bet if swallowing was never your thing, because it can help you deflect cum while keeping things more intimate and controlled.
This last position on the list also lets the penis owner be in a more relaxed state while the partner on top does all the work.
How to:
To begin, the penis owner can lie on their back comfortably, while the other person can straddle their legs or kneel between their legs, and it’s also best to pay attention to their breathing and look for any bodily cues to see if they’re near the finish, and communicate about how or where you want them to release.
Protips:
If you're not into swallowing, you can place a container to spit into in case of emergencies, or you can have some water nearby to give your mouth some quick rinses if needed.
If it’s your thing, you can also allow the penis owner to finish on your boobs, stomach, or thighs instead to flip the energy.
Don’t Let Your Blowjob Boredom Win
By changing the angle, swapping the position, and adding one tiny toy, it can really change how you feel about your sessions, and you might even turn it into something electrifying.
And yet, if you wanna make those rounds much easier, you can check BeYourLover and get those toys made for penis owners, to give you orgasms that don’t feel like a routine.
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