Bathtub sex seems only possible in movies, but in reality, you can’t imagine the best positions to do without having to slip or feel awkward. The truth is, it can be as steamy as bedroom sex if you know the right positions and with the right knowledge and expectations.
Let us guide you on which bathtub sex positions will lead you to heaven, what you should expect, and how you should prepare, so everything will go well without getting into any accidents.
Key Takeaways
- A bathtub sex position is commonly done in a limited and slippery space, where partners often find themselves being mindful of their comfort and safety.
- Positions involved in bathroom sex can be penetrative, oral, or mutual stimulation.
- The main stimulation points, such as the genitals, clitoris, G-spot, prostate, nipple, or touch in other erogenous zones, depending on the position.
- Partners can use toys and water temperature for added stimulation.
- Who takes the initiative depends on the bathroom sex position.
What Is a Bathtub Sex Position
A bathtub sex position can be any sexual setup that is done in a limited space with a bathtub filled with water. These positions are the most perfect for intimacy in slippery floors and walls, closed spaces, while also considering comfort and pleasure.
The aim is to “make it work” while also setting the bathroom as a playground of pleasure, connection, and intimacy.
Position Type
When we say bathtub sex positions, it can be penetrative, oral, or mutual stimulation. It can be slow, which is perfect for soaking in the moment, or it can be fast and intense, depending on how a couple decides on it.
Main Stimulation
The stimulation can be on the genitals, clitoris, G-spot, prostate, nipples, or other erogenous zones, depending on the position. Water can heighten sensitivity, making even just a small touch feel electrifying.
Auxiliary Stimulation
Partners can choose toys or anything in their surroundings to enhance their sexual experience. They can use water, soap, and massage oils to connect or level up the “main course” through foreplay.
Who Takes the Initiative
Who takes control depends on the position. Some naturally place the receiver to do nothing, while the giver takes the reins. But there are bathtub sex positions where the receiver takes control of the pace and depth.
The fun is experimenting, and who knows? You might find you love switching roles halfway through.
How to Prepare for a Hot Bathtub Sex
Any couple can have bathtub sex, no matter what your age or size is. But of course, you want to keep it safe, comfortable, and pleasurable. The following tips will help you glide past the common pitfalls (literally and figuratively) and keep every touch and movement as hot as it should.
Keep the Water Warm, Not Too Hot or Cold
A steamy soak feels luxurious, but water that’s too hot can leave you lightheaded or even dizzy. Too cold will make you feel uncomfortable. Aim for a comfortable, warm, and spa-like temp, not a lobster pot, so you can stay in the moment without any distraction.
Use a Silicone-Based Lube
Here’s the downside of lovemaking in a tub or even a pool: water can wash away your body’s natural lubrication, so make sure to use a silicone-based lube. It’s gonna be your best friend.
A silicone-based lube can last longer in wet environments like the tub, and keeps sex smooth and friction-free for a long time.
Use Non-Slip Mats or Towels
Romance and porcelain can be a slippery combination. When having bathtub sex, you should lie down on a non-slip bath mat or fold a towel under your knees or hips for grip and stability. It’s also to free your mind from worrying about sudden slips.
Don’t Overfill the Tub
Yes, splashes are sexy, but flooding your bathroom or getting water up to your nose mid-thrust is not. So, keep the water level just high enough to cover your bodies, not to cause any tidal waves.
Don’t Do It for Long Hours
Aside from becoming as wrinkled as a prune, many health magazines and news outlets, like Healthline, note that prolonged soaking can cause dryness to your genitals. So, if you think you’re soaking in for too long, it’s time to continue the action in a dry, cozy spot like your bedroom.
Pros and Cons of Bathroom Sex
Pros:
- Enhances physical intimacy and sensuality
- Warm water relaxes muscles and heightens sensitivity
- Perfect for foreplay or full play without rushing
Cons:
- Water can reduce natural lubrication
- Limited movement space
- Can be risky if the surfaces are too slippery
What the Receiver Does
Most of the time, the receiver is mindful of their positioning and balance to ensure their comfort and safety.
Positioning
If you’re the receiver, find a position that feels stable and safe. Try reclining against the back of the tub, straddling your partner’s lap, or kneeling with your hands on the tub or your partner.
For support, use the tub’s edges or your partner’s body for balance, especially when the surface is slippery. Most of all, always ensure that your head is above water.
Even when you engage in BDSM and are playing the submissive, you should not trade good sex with your life. Make sure that you are breathing freely.
Control and Power
In positions like the Reverse Cowgirl, the receiver takes the reins. They control the pace, angle, and depth, allowing them to have control over the sensation to what they prefer. If they engage in more passive positions, they let go of control while focusing on being relaxed and responsive, allowing the giver to take the lead.
What the Giver Does
The giver's role requires both attentiveness and passion. Aside from being attentive to their surroundings, they should also be attentive to their partner.
Positioning
The giver should ensure that they are on a stable surface, no matter if they are standing, kneeling, or sitting. They use their hips, thighs, or arms, which will allow connection while also ensuring that they don’t strain their muscles or have steady balance.
Control and Power
In positions like the Doggy, the giver takes the reins by setting the pace and rhythm. They also need to ensure that the receiver has their support to maintain balance, and they also need to make sure that their partner feels safe and aroused.
Tips on How to Have Better Bathtub Sex in Different Positions
For your bathtub sex to be a success, aim to make your session like a playground. This mindset helps prepare your bodies, knowing what you’re signing up for.
Start Outside the Tub
Build anticipation before you even touch the water. A massage, a teasing carress, or mutual lube application outside the tub warms up your bodies and minds. And by the time you slide in, you’re already relaxed, aroused, and in-tune with each other.
Use Waterproof Toys
IPX-rated waterproof toys can enhance your bathtub sex experience. Toys can add to the stimulation of your senses, which will help you experience unforgettable and mind-blowing moments.
Prevent Fatigue
No matter how good sex is, it will turn dry eventually when your muscles start aching. Switch positions when either of the partners gets tired. This will also help maintain the energy up.
Focus on Sensation
Turn the bath into a slow, immersive experience. Try touching your partner gently, tracing your fingertips on their wet skin, and being mindful of each other’s breathing. Try to savor the moment that you are together.
8 Bathtub Sex Positions to Try
With the right bathroom sex positions, your moments of intimacy can feel luxurious, sensual, or even unforgettable. These eight positions are selected to be the safest and pleasurable, preventing any accidents as much as possible.
Reclining Missionary
How to Do It:
- The receiver reclines in the tub, legs slightly apart, using the tub’s curve as a backrest.
- The giver kneels or sits between the receiver’s legs for direct, deep penetration.
- Maintain eye contact for better intimacy and connection.
Pro Tips:
Place a folded towel or bath cushion behind the receiver’s back for long-lasting comfort. Keep the water level low to avoid splashes in the face during kisses.
Toy Suggestion:
The Usagi Penis Ring provides stimulation to the penis and clitoris with its small rabbit ears.
Lotus
How to Do It:
- The giver sits cross-legged or with legs straight in the tub.
- The receiver climbs into their lap, wrapping their legs around the giver’s waist.
- Keep your bodies close and rock gently for deep, connected movements.
Pro Tips:
Move at a slow pace. Focus on what’s going on at the moment. Focus on your partner’s breathing and indulge in kissing, whispering, or touching.
Toy Suggestion:
The Rosey Vibrator Wand is versatile enough to multiple erogenous zones, making it a perfect toy for a sensual and mindful sex position like the Lotus.
Drenching Doggy
How to Do It:
- The receiver kneels in the tub, hands braced on the opposite edge.
- The giver kneels behind, holding the partner’s hips for balance and to control the thrusts.
- Adjust the knee placement to match the water depth and comfort.
Pro Tips:
Cushion knees with a folded towel or bath pillow to protect joints. Move at a controlled pace, because the water can make the thrusts more intense.
Toy Suggestion:
The Redmii Rosalia is a penis ring that provides strong vibrations to the penis. It also has a suction feature that can be great for anal stimulation in this sex position.
Reverse Cowgirl (Tub Edition)
How to Do It:
- The giver sits or leans back against the tub wall.
- The receiver straddles the partner facing away, planting feet or knees for stability.
- The receiver controls the rhythm, depth, and grind.
Pro Tips:
Hold the tub edge for balance. Lean slightly forward or back to change the stimulation angles.
Toy Suggestion:
The Abe Vibrating Penis Ring adds clitoral or perineum buzz as the receiver rides.
Lap Dance
How to Do It:
- The giver sits with knees bent, feet planted, leaning slightly back.
- The receiver straddles the partner, facing away from the partner and their knees bent.
- Use small but deep movements for pleasure and sensuality.
Pro Tips:
This bathtub sex position provides plenty of opportunities for hands-on stimulation. Both partners can use their free hands for added pleasure or stability.
Toy Suggestion:
The Jecca is a breast massager that enhances arousal with nipple and breast play.
Solo Cruising
How to Do It:
- Recline or sit comfortably in the tub.
- Engage in your preferred solo masturbation techniques.
Pro Tip:
Place a towel behind your head for better support.
Toy Suggestion:
The Devil Tongue provides a double stimulation mimicking real tongues for clit and G-spot play. For those with a penis, try Pulse, a pocket pussy that feels like real skin.
Tub Python
How to Do It:
- Both partners take a missionary-like position, with the receiver’s arms wrapping tightly around the giver.
- Keep the receiver’s head slightly elevated so they can breathe comfortably.
- Adjust the water depth for comfort and safety.
Pro Tips:
This sex position is ideal for slow, romantic movements. Pair it with sensual talk or music for a steamy atmosphere.
Toy Suggestion:
The Toycod Brazillai is a multi-feature penis double ring for simultaneous penis, clitoris, and anus stimulation.
Waterfall Worship
How to Do It:
- The Receiver sits near the tub’s edge for stability.
- The giver kneels in front, keeping their face above water for comfort.
- Use hands to steady the receiver’s hips or thighs.
Pro Tips:
Warm your hands before touching intimate areas. Cold fingers can break the mood. Also, try placing a towel or bath mat under the knees for cushion.
Toy Suggestion:
The Magic Cane is perfect for G-spot stimulation while lavishing attention on your partner.
3 Common Myths About Bathtub Sex Positions
Bathtub sex seems intimate in the movies and pop culture. But there are also some misconceptions surrounding it. So, let’s clear the air (and the water), so you can fully enjoy your bath sex experience.
Myth: The Water Is a Natural Lube.
No, it’s not. Water actually washes away your body’s natural lubrication. It dilutes water-based lubes, causing friction and microtears to your skin. So to ensure a smooth experience, use a silicone-based lube.
Myth: How Tubs Boost Fertility.
According to Psychreg, high water temperatures can temporarily reduce sperm mobility and even disturb egg position, so keep your soak times moderate if baby-making is on your mind.
Myth: Water Kills Yeasts
Water sex, such as sex in a bathtub, won’t prevent yeast infections. If anything, it can prolong or transfer the infection to others. So, if one of the partners has symptoms, skip the tub until they’re treated.
Final Thoughts
Bathtub sex can level up your bedtime sessions. However, make sure to talk about it with your partner and prepare, so that both of you will have safe and pleasurable sex. To enhance your experience, you can make use of the water or use waterproof toys.
If you’re looking to upgrade your sexual experience in the bedroom or in the bathroom, make sure that you have the right toy. Choose the one that’s best for you at BeYourLover.
Special Thanks To:
Psychreg
Healthline
