Your approach and preferences when it comes to sex say a lot about your personality. Your likes and dislikes are not confined within the walls of physicality. There are psychological and emotional elements that come into play. Whether you like playing alone or with a partner, the acts and toys involved are guided by your personal choices. Let’s explore this topic to find out what your preferences mean.
Sexual Preference and Personality
You might like the intense sex acts. Or you’re the type that likes the gentle approach. Your preferences serve as guides to your personality type. But people are very complex and you might not fit into a single box. Whatever your personality is, your sex life can still be connected to your pleasure preferences. Here are a few examples of that.
Dominance and Submission
Do you enjoy having full control in your sexual encounters? Playing the role of a Dom is the way to go. With props and toys, you can bring those wild fantasies of a master to life. What if you find more pleasure in submission? Having a dominant partner will complete the dynamic.
BDSM is a perfect sexual setting for the dominant/submissive kink.
So what kind of personality do you have if you enjoy this rough kind of sex? You are very adventurous, creative but very grounded. You have a high level of trust and a low level of anxiety. Since this pleasure preference requires a lot of physicality, picking this one shows how confident you are with yourself and with your partner. It also shows how much you love exploring and creating intense scenarios.
Whichever role you pick in this dynamic, it’s a display of confidence and willingness to challenge yourself. The rush you get from rough kind of sex shows that you have that expressive side. A bold spirit who treats every experience as an adventure and opportunity to grow. So let your strong personality shine with the pleasure you get from being dominant or a submissive. As long as there's respect for consent and safety measures, you’ll be grand.
Sensuality and Emotional Connection
Are you getting a lot of pleasure from the gentle type of sex acts? Aside from the physical aspects, you also focus on your emotions. Whether you're alone or having a delightful time with a partner. The feelings coming from your heart also play a big role in your sex life. Massages and kisses excite you. And you might look at intercourse as icing on cake because the foreplay is usually the main course.
If each gentle stroke or thrust is your cup of tea, you have the personality of a thoughtful and attentive partner. This preference tells you that you are a romantic, loyal and emotionally inclined person. You see vulnerability as strength and you have a gentle confidence. Your body is in tune with your heart and mind. So each movement or sex act means something to you. It’s not just about the thrill, but your feelings as well.
Instead of finding pleasure through control or submission, your calm confidence shines. With this pleasure preference, you find joy and meaning in simple moments. You’re not limited to the physicality of a sex act. You have emotional depth. That calm confidence? It allows you to be vulnerable and invites a partner to feel secure. Secure enough to open up and be vulnerable too. Some people enjoy the dopamine rush of intensity. You’re the type who finds pleasure in simplicity and emotional connection.
Vanilla and Routine
You don’t mind sticking to a schedule or a system that works for you right? You don’t feel like you’re missing out if you’re not pushing the envelope. You might even strongly believe that there’s no point in trying to fix what is not broken. This mindset can also play a role in your sex life. If you enjoy your sexual encounters that don’t involve much experimentation, you probably have a vanilla and routine pleasure preference. So what does this preference say about you?
This type means you are security-oriented. You find comfort in familiarity. Both physically and emotionally. Taking unnecessary risks is not really your thing. Sticking to tried and tested methods when it comes to your sex life. This is also a sign that you are traditional. You’re not deviating from established ideas about love and intimacy. That doesn’t make you boring. Just a little different from the adventurous ones.
Preferring a vanilla and routine sex life could also mean you are practical, reserved and emotionally steady. You may not be the life of the party. But deep inside, you don’t mind not being in the spotlight. You’re feeling pretty secure about what you want and how to get them. And when it comes to sex, you know what works. If you have a partner, they won’t have a hard time figuring out how to give you a good time. That quiet and steady preference helps you build a strong connection with yourself and other people.
Spontaneous and Experimental
The other side of the coin. If you are into spontaneous and experimental sexual practices, you have a vibrant, curious personality. You are someone who’s willing to push the boundaries to discover more things about sex. By not sticking to routines, adventures and new experiences tickle your fancy. Aside from sexual adventures, you’re inclined to dive into new exciting hobbies and traveling to unfamiliar places. The curiosity that you possess is driven by your confidence and boldness.
Exploration is the name of the game for you dear. That makes you super open-minded and non-judgemental so that’s really great. Your confidence helps you experience different sexual settings and sensations. New environments and intense sex acts make you feel alive and motivated. Your openness also makes you a fluid character who can try different roles in your intimate life. Even when you’re alone, your presence is hard to ignore. Though you’re not sticking to the usual stuff, you’re not judging the people who prefer the vanilla settings. In fact, you’d like to experience the things they like once in a while. You love people and understand what makes them tick.
You are a free-spirited person by preferring spontaneity and experimentation. Freedom of expression is so important to you. And that makes you less judgemental. Because you understand very well that people are different. You might find the downside of this preference is it can sometimes make you impulsive. But in the grand scheme of things, your fear of stagnancy is driven by the belief that you must live life to its fullest. A partner and the people you meet would be fascinated by your fearlessness.
Toys You Might Need That Will Match Your Preference
To enhance the experience while enjoying your pleasure preference, the presence of sex toys will help. Whether you like intense or gentle acts, there’s a toy that would cater to that. Let’s find some stuff that you might fancy.
For Sensual, Emotional, Routine and Vanilla
Everything’s going well in your bedroom. You can be alone or with a partner. Excited by the gentle side of a sexual encounter, you want to spice things up. But not too much. You remember that there are toys you could use. What you might need? You’re going to enjoy the sensations coming from vibrators that emulate foreplay and smooth penetrations. Suction and tongue vibrators can stimulate your erogenous zones. You can select the vibration and suction modes that you are comfortable with. Since you are more inclined to have fun with gentleness, you can choose the slow, less intense modes that these toys offer. Want to try them out? Give our store a visit.
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For Dominant, Submissive, Spontaneous and Experimental
Since you’re one of those who love intensity and exploration, there are toys out there that would drive you wild. Of course you can have fun with the usual toys by selecting the fast and intense modes. But you’re looking for more. Well, don’t worry, let BeYourLover take care of that. Your preference is open to play the role of a dominant and submissive. BDSM props and toys will give you so much fun. The items at your disposal will bring satisfaction to your spontaneous, experimental and curious side. Gonna have a sexual adventure indeed. If you’re looking for some anal action, there’s a toy for that too. Knock yourself out with BDSM and anal magic with these.
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Celebrate Who You Are
Whatever preference you have when it comes to sex, you should not be ashamed. Remember that people are different. The world would be a bland and boring place if we’re all the same right? This is not putting you in a box. It’s only a guide. You have the freedom to try other stuff out whatever your personality or preference is. If you’re content with the tried and tested stuff, be proud. If you’re the adventurous type you should be proud as well. And if you cross paths with someone with a different preference, confidence and respect are things that will bring harmony. They will help you navigate the sexual landscape without judging or the fear of being judged. Celebrate and accept who you are and do the same for other folks. The world will surely be a sexier, happier place. Enjoy your awesome playtime!
