Balanced, playful and intimate. The triceratops position might be your next bedroom favorite.
What is the Triceratops Position?
What’s up? You’ve heard lots and lots of intimate positions that spice up your bedroom. Maybe some of them make your eyebrows rise or make you giggle. Some names are pretty wild huh? Here’s one for you.
Triceratops. Nope. You don’t need some prehistoric knowledge here. But yeah, this one’s inspired by a dinosaur from that wild period.
What’s the triceratops position? This position will have you standing, kneeling, bent over. Or on all fours. Let’s say you’re the receiver here. You can stand, kneel, arch your back or be on all fours on top of a steady, comfy surface.
While your partner as a giver takes a stable stance. Then entering you from behind. Triceratops will emphasize balance, closeness, connection for you. Think of how dinosaurs have this sturdy, grounded and a little bit of playful swagger about them.
Might look complicated for you at first. But when you try it, ooh wee. It’s gonna be easy for you to adjust. Part of the fun is you experimenting together. Finding those sweet angles.
The rhythm. Some nice tweaks that make it work for both of ya. Let’s keep exploring shall we? Alrighty then. Let’s go!
Why is Triceratops Worth Trying?
Are you wondering why you should even bother with a new position? When you’re already enjoying a treasure trove of them. Well, adding a new one won't hurt. Because…
We all have our preferred and go-to intimate positions. But you know, trying something new brings that little spark of adventure in our bedrooms.
Maybe even living rooms (when no one’s home except for you and your partner).This position will encourage you to get closer. The physical engagement here makes touching, whispering and connecting emotionally super easy.
A mix of tenderness and energy can make your experience even sexier. Playful? Yeah. But it can also be slow and very intimate as well. Bursts of passion and gentle moments will go hand in hand here.
Another thing. It gives you a very nice boost of confidence. Its novelty also prevents your intimate life from getting monotonous. Exploring this together helps both of you in solidifying the things you’ve built in your connection.
Trust. Communication.That sense of mutual adventure. Making you and your partner have confidence in yourselves and each other. Look at it as your adult mini adventure. Not performance-based.
It’s you sharing enjoyment and discovering new things with the person you love or fancy. Getting excited to try this one out in your bedroom? Here we go.
How to do the Triceratops Position?
Let’s get practical. Here’s how you can approach the triceratops position.
Prepare your space
Make sure you’ve got enough room to move for this. Without knocking over your stuff. Lamps, furniture or even your pet. Have a soft surface like your bed, yoga mat or a carpeted area in your place for comfort.
Keep some pillows nearby. You can count on them to support your knees, elbows, hips. Your pillows are excellent when things get a little tricky.
Set the mood
Think about your lighting before you go wild with the triceratops position. Dim those lights. Maybe some candles too! Making your space feel cozy right away. Music can be your secret weapon here.
Play cool background sounds. Something slow and rhythmic that helps you both relax. And find your flow. Take a moment to connect, set that awesome tone with gentle kisses, whispers and light touches/strokes.
Get in position
Rub your palms in anticipation. You’re about to get in position. If you’re the receiver, get on all fours. Keep that sexy back straight and comfortable. Think of yourself as a sturdy, stable tabletop.
Maybe even as the dinosaur where the name came from for some giggles. Your giving partner stands or leans behind you. Finding that stable stance. You can adjust your angles to make penetration feel good and natural.
Adjust for comfort
You can expect small shifts while you’re at it. Take your time to find those sweet, sweet spots. Check in with your wonderful partner. Awkward? Be open to do some tweaks here and there.
Let pillows support you. Place them under your knees, elbows or torso. Keep your wrists, knees, lower back supported to enjoy the action fully. Avoiding strain too.
Be adventurous and try out slight variations. Standing and slightly bent/angled. While your giving partner supports you by holding your hands/wrists. You can also do this one on all fours.
Movement and rhythm
Start slow, focus on your connection and awareness of each other’s reactions. Do some gentle rocking, small shifts, controlled thrusts. These will help you find a good rhythm.
Talk about depth, pressure and speed of thrusting. We all have preferences so check in often about what feels good/comfortable.
Add playful variations
You can tilt your hips or arch slightly. Move side to side for a different kind of feel or sensation. Your giving partner can use hands on hips, hands on waist or lower back. To guide movement and support.
Slight rotations or changes in pace will keep the action fun. With a twist of unpredictability. Speaking of playfulness, how about letting toys join you and take your fun to a higher level?
Get your sexy playthings here!
Triceratops Pro-Tips
Getting hot in here huh? Great! Here are some friendly reminders and tips for you to enjoy this position.
- Talk/Communicate - Ask each other. Does this feel good for you? That will go a long way.
- Use pillows - Look at them as comfort tools. Not props.
- Start slow - Check out different angles before speeding your movements up
- Play with touch - Whisper, kiss, gently stroke their back, shoulders or neck. It’s more than mechanics right?
- Laugh and giggle together - You can encounter awkward moments. But they keep things light and fun. So embrace those endearing moments.
- Try eye contact - Even a quick glance can deepen your experience in connecting.
Enhancing your experience
Lubrication. Always a reliable tool in your intimate life. Lube will give you smooth movements, less friction, more comfort. That’s a win! Include sensory play and massage.
By using scented oils, candles, soft fabric and giving/getting a relaxing massage. Making you anticipate those erotic sensations even more. Use some verbal encouragement as well. Give compliments, playful remarks.
Positive feedback makes it a super unforgettable experience for you both. Try switching roles for a little bit of variety. Another enhancement you say? Don’t forget about toys and make your adventure a wild one.
Make your orgasms even more earth-shaking!
Comfort and safety
Yeah. It’s a playful and safe position. But a little bit of caution would still be hot. Please avoid overstretching. Your comfort is key here. Stay hydrated too. Triceratops can be surprisingly physical for you.
To avoid slipping, especially when you’re using lube, get some towels, mats or other clean-up materials. So you can avoid those gnarly accidents. What if injuries happen? How to deal with them? You can give this one a read.
Do You Need to Be Flexible for Triceratops?
No, triceratops position is not asking you to be this world-class gymnast. You don’t need to bend like a pro here to make it work. It’s actually an adaptable position for you. You can adjust your angle, knee and arm placement.
Tweak the height and stance if you’re the giver. Again, pillows are your secret weapon on this one. Let the triceratops give you options to adjust. Not limitations.
What About Awkwardness?
We’ve had those awkward moments. Pretty normal when you’re trying something new. Don’t pressure yourself or your partner to be this automatically smooth or flawless. We’re talking about intimacy here.
Not perfect performance. You’re both giggling about your awkward goofs? Good sign. Means you’re relaxed and enjoying each other’s company. You’re not actors. You’re connecting authentically and affectionately.
Joint, Back, Body Image Issues?
They’re normal concerns. Triceratops is not about pushing your bodies to the limit. How to try this one while being mindful of your joints and your backs? As a receiver, support your knees, your elbows with some nice pillows.
Your wrists get tired. Lower down a little. Rest on your forearms instead. If you’re kinda worried about your back, flatten your spine a bit. Spread your legs, knees so you can have more stability. Without strain.
If you’re the giver, penetrating from behind, lower your stance a bit. Squatting slightly. Try to place your hands on your partner’s hips. More stability, less strain.
You’re feeling self-conscious. Alright, a very human concern. You’re probably thinking that you look ridiculous. But please remember, your partner is not hyperfocused on things you’re insecure about.
Just like you’re not zooming in on their flaws. You’re focused on each other’s presence, energy, and closeness. Reassurance is gonna be important here. Slow down, ground each other with a touch, a hug or a kiss.
Trying the triceratops is not a photoshoot. Or an acting audition. Remember that you’re both beautiful humans with loving souls. Your comfort, not negotiable. So communication and respect play a very important role.
As We Wrap It Up
The triceratops position shows us that we can bring out our playful sides. Keeping the connection in our intimate lives. Adding a fun kind of spice to it. Explore, laugh together during awkward but adorable, giggle-inducing spots.
This position ain’t asking you for a perfect form. Be your silly selves here and communicate openly. Find that wonderful rhythm. With some toys and pillows at hand, keep your flame alive. Embrace that curious, adorable dinosaur in you!
Special Thanks To:
- Sian Ferguson - healthline author
