Do you wonder what it feels like to reach a vaginal orgasm with penetration?
“I just want to experience an orgasm with him inside!”
Many women think like this.
However, it’s quite challenging to experience orgasm through penetration, and many women have no idea how to do it properly.
We’ll introduce tips to climax while he's inside, the recommended sex positions for couples, and the best adult toys that can do the job.
The Problem Is That I’ve Never Had a Vaginal Orgasm Through Penetration Once in My Life...
To begin with, there are probably many people who have never experienced a single orgasm through penetration in their lives.
A Surprisingly Large Number of Women Have Never Experienced Orgasm Through Penetration
According to a survey conducted on an adult website, the percentage of women who have experienced climaxing–while their partner is still inside–is around 30%.
In other words, 70% of women have never experienced orgasm while penetrating their vagina.
While some women can have clitoral or other external orgasms, achieving a vaginal orgasm alone may not be a common experience for most women.
Don’t Get Depressed if You Can’t Have an Orgasm Through Internal Stimulation
If you’re suffering from the problem of not being able to reach an orgasm through penetration, there’s no need to be so worried about it!
Remember, as mentioned above, most women in the world have never experienced this.
Of course, some women wish they could orgasm and finish inside with their partner. But if you appear too obsessed with it, there’s a chance that you’ll not be able to enjoy the sex itself.
Therefore, try to think about relaxing thoughts rather than this matter, to enjoy sex with your partner first.
There Is a Trick to Achieve an Orgasm While He’s Inside!
Although there is no exact formula to accurately do this, many people still would like to experience it–at least once.
However, some people are just unable to reach vaginal orgasm via penetration, and some tricks are necessary to help them achieve this.
So, from here, we’ll explain the tips and the recommended positions so you'll overcome this challenge.
Tips and Recommended Positions to Finish Through Penetration
To have an internal orgasm, we’ll first teach you the types and positions that are easy to do.
Factors That Can Help You Have a Vaginal Orgasm
There are important factors that can help you achieve orgasm through penetration.
- G-spot stimulation (area in the front wall of the vagina)
- A-spot stimulation (cervix’s internal opening)
- Brain orgasm (pleasure without physical stimulation)
The most common stimulation to achieve orgasm through penetration is to touch the G-spot.
The second most common is achieved by stimulating the A-spot–a part that’s located even deeper than the G-spot.
Finally, some women can have an orgasm without touching their genitals and only depend on their imagination, but we consider this as an advanced skill.
Sex Positions to Easily Achieve an Internal Orgasm
Positions that are easy to come inside are the doggy style and the cowgirl position, which allow a deeper penetration of the vagina.
These two positions can help freely stimulate the G-spot and A-spot, so it’ll be easier to climax.
In particular, the cowgirl position is recommended for women who prefer to reach an internal orgasm, while being in control–because she can move at her own pace.
Also, if you can constantly keep the pace of your movements, you’ll have a higher chance of climaxing together with your partner.
First, Experience the Pleasure From Having an Orgasm Externally
If you want to have a vaginal orgasm internally, we advise that you should experience achieving a climax from an external stimulation first.
This is because it’s much easier to reach an orgasm by stimulating the clitoris, and women who are used to climax from external stimulation have an easier time finishing through penetration.
Use Adult Toys to Develop the Sexual Zone
The next method is to use an adult toy to help yourself reach a vaginal orgasm.
Adult toys have constant movements and adjustable vibrations, so you can experience a climax that matches your pace.
We recommend you try using a female toy to make yourself get an orgasm internally–to give yourself some sort of training.
Reasons Why Women Can’t Orgasm Through Penetration
Unlike men, women can have a hard time getting an orgasm because of differences in body structure. Another reason is because of the compatibility of their bodies with their partners.
Below are some of the most common causes that prevent most women, when it comes to achieving a vaginal orgasm.
Women Can Take Longer to Get an Orgasm
Women's bodies are more complex than men's and don’t have the same straightforward sexual mechanisms as men's.
It’s also generally accepted that women take longer than men to mentally experience pleasure from sex.
Therefore, it’s normal for most women to orgasm way longer during penetration, because it’s much more common for women to experience orgasms over time.
Inability to Orgasm Inside Can Be Due to Incompatibility or Inexperience
The inability to orgasm inside may be due to a partner's physical compatibility or inexperience.
However, if your partner is inexperienced, you can still improve the chemistry naturally by telling your partner, “I want to do this more,” or “I want you to do this more”.
Sex is something that should be nurtured by both of you, so always try to communicate with your partner, while sharing the experiences that can feel good with them.
Adult Toys Recommended for Women Who Have Trouble Getting a Vaginal Orgasm Using Internal Stimulation
Here are a few adult toys we can recommend for women who are having trouble obtaining a vaginal orgasm.
They’re all easy to use–even for beginners, so please take a look.
SVAKOM-Eria – Recommended for Women Seeking Supreme Pleasure
SVAKOM-Eria is a vibrator that comes with a white body and a suction function–recommended for women seeking to fulfill their deepest pleasure.
We recommend this adult toy to orgasm internally because it can stimulate the clitoris and vagina at the same time.
High-grade silicone material is also gentle on the skin which gives women a realistic feeling.
Toycod Tara – Offers Three-Point Stimulation at the Same Time
ToyCod Tara is a highly functional adult toy that can stimulate three sexual zones at the same time.
By stimulating the clitoris, G-spot, and A-spot simultaneously–even women who have never experienced vaginal orgasm, through penetration can help themselves achieve it.
It also has a heating function, so you can experience a much more realistic pleasure.
Final Thoughts
After we've discussed how to reach an orgasm through penetration, along with other techniques and toys to enrich the experience, you're now ready to apply these to your love-making sessions.
I also believe that many people would like to experience orgasm through penetration at least once in their lives.
Through your partner’s compatibility, using the right love toys, and practicing to climax externally first–these can help you achieve this great experience that will guarantee to blow your mind!
FAQs
What’s the difference between internal and external penetration?
External and internal penetration can be similar, it just depends on how to do it. While internal penetration gives pleasure by stimulating the A-spot near the mouth of the uterus, external penetration can give women orgasms by stimulating the G-spot.
What's the feeling of having an orgasm internally? I’ve never experienced it, so I'm interested to know.
Having orgasms through penetration can always vary from person to person, but you can imagine a feeling like a jerking sensation–or when your whole body relaxes from your legs. Also, you can keep in mind that this is a different kind of pleasure once you compare it with an external stimulation.
I’m looking for the G-spot to have an orgasm, but where can I find this spot?
You can find the G-spot in the place where you bend your finger toward your stomach and insert it. Then, you’ll feel a strange urge to urinate.
Even if you don’t feel sure about it at first, it will eventually feel good for you–as long as you continue to stimulate it using your fingertips.
I can't reach an orgasm when doing it with my boyfriend, no matter how many times I try. Is it because we are not compatible?
In many cases, if you focus only on achieving orgasm while he’s penetrating you, it will not work. A woman's mentality always has an impact during sex, so take your time and enjoy the experience with him, rather than being too conscious about it.
It will also become easier for you to reach an orgasm internally once you’re used to external stimulation and having sex by yourself, so please try to develop it little by little–at your own pace.
Are there any adult toys that will allow me to experience an internal orgasm–by myself?
The SVAKOM-Eria” is designed to stimulate the vagina and clitoris through sucking and vibrating, so it will be much easier for you to achieve an orgasm.
You can try it a few times first, to get a feel for it, and teach your body how to climax while penetrating your genitalia.
Are there any positions that can help me have an orgasm through penetration?
Once you try a normal position and it doesn't work, try doing it at the back (Doggy Style) or the Cowgirl position. Some people find that the change in sexual position makes it easier to hit the G-spot and A-spot, and makes it easier to climax through penetration.
I heard that my boyfriend has experience in making a woman orgasm while he’s inside, but I never had one. Is it my fault that I can't do this through penetration?
Each woman's genitalia is very different, so you need to carefully explore your needs to find the most pleasurable part–and keep stimulating them so you’ll have a vaginal orgasm while he’s still inside.
For him to understand that the position and angle can differ from woman to woman, you should either tell him the positions you prefer or try to change the sexual position by moving yourself.
When I’m near to achieving an orgasm, I have a hard time concentrating because I have to urinate.
The urethra and bladder are both located close to where a woman feels comfortable, so it’s natural to feel this way sometimes.
Furthermore, you can always try to go to the bathroom before sex. It’s also recommended that you try having sex by yourself until the very last minute–to check that even if you have the urge to pee, you will not leak.
After I gave birth, it became difficult for me to get an orgasm through penetration. Is it because my vagina has loosened up?
A woman's body can change, especially during or after pregnancy. It’s possible that your gluteus maximus has become loose–due to lack of exercise or muscle weakness–usually caused by aging.
If you feel worried about this or made you self-conscious in some way, you can always hit up the gym or opt for workouts meant to strengthen the concerned muscles.
You can also do some exercises while doing the housework, and try to be consistent with your routine so you’ll feel your best once again.
I was able to orgasm through penetration before, but why can't I climax while my partner is inside me anymore?
When both the body and mind are tired, the body is less responsive, which makes it harder to reach an orgasm. Once your hormonal imbalance occurs, it can also cause difficulty in feeling pleasure, so it’s important to make sure that your body is healthy and in good condition before your love-making session.
It can also happen because of your menstrual cycle or stress, so don’t worry about it too much.
What’s the ideal environment for a woman to achieve orgasm through penetration?
A delicate woman needs to be in a place where she feels safe and comfortable. In addition, since the temperature also influences the sensitive orgasm, it’s also important to consider the room temperature.
If it’s too cold, her blood circulation will be poor and it’ll be difficult for her to achieve an orgasm, so try to adjust the room temperature well.
