Let’s admit that life isn’t always fun when you're packing some extra down there, so let’s find out the common challenges when you're bigger than most and the solutions for them!
Got a Johnson that’s a little on the larger side?
Sure, being gifted down there can sound like it's a big plus and may even boost your ego. But having extra inches can bring some surprising challenges, too, and that goes both for you and your partner.
But no worries, because there are tips here that you can use to handle these issues. So you can enjoy better comfort and pleasure, and feel more confident during your sexy sessions.
Let’s dive into the common problems and practical fixes for those blessed with a bigger package.
What Problems Can a Big Penis Cause for Vulva Owners During Sex?
Sometimes, bigger isn’t always better, especially when it comes to your private part.
Usually, the depths of the vulva are about 3 to 4 inches deep, and the average penis is about 5 or 6 inches long. So, that means if it’s too big, then it's gonna be a tight squeeze!
Even though vagina's can stretch a lot, like when a baby is born, a really big penis can sometimes still hurt or make someone feel uncomfortable.
It's also possible to hit a sensitive area and cause the receiving partner some pain. And if the dick's very thick, then it might hurt the vaginal or anal walls as well.
If you get a little rip or tear, don’t worry! You can take care of it at home, according to Sian Ferguson of Healthline, by doing these things:
- Wash the hurt spot really well to keep it clean
- Sit in a warm water bath called a sitz bath to feel better
- Put some special cream on the area to help it heal
- Wear loose, comfy underwear so it doesn’t get itchy
- You can also put an ice pack on it
- If it still hurts a lot, you can take medicine like ibuprofen
What Makes the Size Different for Everyone?
Penises not only vary in size but also in how they look. And these factors can influence their unique appearances.
Hormones
Penis owners have special stuff in their bodies called hormones. When they get older, their brain tells their bodies to make more testosterone. So, this makes their private parts, like their penis and testicles, grow bigger.
Before babies are born, the mom’s body also helps by making some hormones as well. Sometimes, if the mom doesn’t make enough of these, the baby’s private parts might grow a little differently.
So, most of the growing happens before birth. And when boys get older and go through changes called puberty, then that's the time the penis stays the same size.
Environment
Some bad stuff in the environment (pesticides and plastics) can also mess with penis growth. These things can confuse the body’s helpers, called hormones, which tell the body how to grow and change.
If penis owners get good nutrition while growing, their bodies grow how they're supposed to. So, this can also make their penises bigger than average.
Other Factors
Genes mostly decide how big a penis will be. But other things, like the body fat someone has or if they have pubic hair, can make the penis look bigger or smaller than it really is.
For example, if someone is very overweight, fat can cover the major parts of the penis. As a result, this can make it look smaller, even though it’s actually a normal size.
Also, when the environment is warm, the blood vessels in the penis get wider, so the penis looks big for a little while. And this is normal, but just a temporary thing.
Common Problems When You or Your Partner Have a Big Penis
Let’s talk about the most common problems and how you can take care of your “big guy.”
Blowjobs Can Be a Hassle
Some people say they love big penises because they probably never tried deepthroating.
Deepthroating means putting the whole penis deep into the mouth and throat. And there are many wrong ideas about blowjobs, and usually, when things get exciting, there isn’t time to learn about them.
One wrong idea is that when a person gives a blowjob, it always means they must deepthroat the penis, and take all of it down their throat.
Deepthroating is just one way to give a blowjob, but it's not always a necessity. Especially if the penis is bigger than normal, trying to deepthroat it can make the person hit the back of their throat and make their gag reflex start.
And the last thing you wanna happen is to throw up all over when you’re trying to have fun.
Solution
Big penises can touch the back of the throat easily because they are long, so it’s easy for the gag reflex to happen during a blowjob.
To prevent this from happening, you can use the help of sex toys. For example, BeYourLover's M2 and Pulse can help make things easier and more fun for everyone.
This male stroker and pocket pussy is your weapon of choice to bring your fantasies to life. Aside from being made from high-quality materials, they mimic that same, human-like feel of a mouth and vagina to please, whether on your own or with a partner.
Most Condoms Can’t Fit
Imagine you’re out one night and meet a really pretty vulva owner. Things get exciting fast. They invite you to their place, and you ride there together, kissing and feeling close in the car.
When you get to their place, you can’t keep your hands off each other. You’re making out, taking off clothes, and heading to bed. Then they stop you and ask, “Do you have a condom?”
You don’t. Usually, you carry one in your wallet, but you read that keeping one there for too long can ruin it, and you forgot to get a new one.
Then they say, “I have one,” and pull it from the small table near them. You say, “No problem,” and unwrap it. But it feels tight, like too tight. You feel like it’s cutting off blood to your penis, and your erection starts to go down.
Solution
If your penis is big, you might need a bigger condom. Some condoms say they’re for big penises, but some just say that to make people feel better.
So fix this problem by testing a few condom brands and sizes, and always carry one in your pocket when you go out. Don’t keep condoms in your wallet for months because it's not safe. It’s easier to pull one out from your pocket when things start getting hot.
Your Thing Can’t Fit In
If you have a penis, you can either be a shower or a grower. If you’re a shower, your big friend is always ready and hanging out. This can make it hard for you to choose underwear or pants because your private parts show a lot.
Many guys with big penises find it hard to wear skinny jeans or boxers without everyone seeing what’s underneath. Where’s the mystery? It’s not just embarrassing; it can also be uncomfortable.
Solution
So, how do you hide it better down there? Here’s the answer: Buy bigger clothes!
Some may need an underwear one size bigger than normal. And some can change from boxers to briefs to keep everything in place better.
Another idea is to go to a tailor and have your pants made a little bigger in the legs or crotch. It may sound like it's extra work, but it can help save you some money and trouble later.
If you use the right clothes and have some patience, you can be proud of your big package!
The Size Can Be Incompatible
Some people may think that when it comes to sex, the bigger penis means more fun. But that’s not true. Actually, smaller can be better.
People talk a lot about how long a penis is, but not about how deep a vagina is. Vaginas don’t go very far inside, and when not excited, they're only about 3 inches long. When excited, it can grow to almost 5 inches long.
Solution
So, only put about 3 out of 4 parts of your penis in the vagina. Leave some outside.
Also, make sure to lube up, like generously. Put it on both your penis and your partner to make sure everything slides in easily.
Lastly, don’t rush! Take your time and be patient. That’s how things work best, especially if you have a big penis.
Positions That Work Great With a Larger Penis
Sometimes having a big penis can make sex a little tricky. But don’t worry! Good sex isn’t always about penetration.
Spooning
Spooning is a cozy and sweet way to be close to someone. It’s nice and gentle, and it doesn’t go very deep inside.
To do spooning, both people lie on their sides, while they face the same way. The person with the bigger penis lies behind and hugs the other person from behind like two spoons fitting together.
Vulva On Top
This way is good because the vulva owner is the one who can choose how deep things should go. But still, they have to be gentle when inserting.
To do it, the person with the penis lies on their back. Next, the person with the vagina sits on top and uses their hands and legs to move and control things.
Standing Doggy
Doggy style can be rough for the receiver if the penis is huge. Or if your partner goes too hard immediately.
But standing doggy style is your solution if you want to make things easier. And also, prevent the penis from getting too deep.
To do it, the receiver can stand facing a wall they can hold on to. Next, the partner comes from behind. You might need to squat or go on your toes to get the right angle.
How to Have Smooth Anal Sex With a Large Member
If you want to try anal sex, but your partner's thing is huge, then it’s important to take note of these tips:
- You can try using your fingers or toys to help your body relax. And you can always say what feels good and what doesn’t.
- Always use lots and lots of lube, and put it on the penis and on your bottom so everything slides in easily.
- Go slow! You should be the one to decide how fast and how deep it goes.
- Breathe deeply upon insertion and try to stay relaxed. If it hurts, you can always ask your partner to stop and take a break.
- Please use condoms, and change them if you switch to other kinds of sex.
And do you know that, other than preventing pregnancies and infections, condoms can help with premature ejaculation as well?
According to Matt Coward of Medical News Today, condoms can contain ingredients such as benzocaine or lidocaine, which help desensitize those penile nerves to last longer.
Big Penises Can Have Fun Too!
Having a big penis can be tricky sometimes, but it doesn’t have to make things hard.
Talking with your partner, going slow, and using lots of body-safe lube can help a lot.
You can also try the different positions featured to be close but keeping the action comfy.
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