Sex is not just a physical act for us. There are psychological and emotional aspects to it. Is there a certain act, object, role or body part that makes your heart race (in a naughty way)? Then that’s probably a kink. What makes you feel kinky? Let’s look at some kinks that might add more interesting layers to your sex life.
What is a Kink?
A sexual kink is something you fantasize about. Something that really turns you on. It could be an act, object, situation or body part. Put in a sexual context, those things get you excited and bring out very pleasurable sensations. There are so many kink types out there. But here are 11 types that you can try to explore your sexuality. And enhance your intimate life.
Blindfold Sex
Let’s kick off the list of kinks with blindfold sex. In this kink, a willing participant would be blindfolded to deprive them of their vision while having a passionate moment. This one will not require any fancy stuff aside from a blindfold that will cover the eyes. If you are a very imaginative person, this kink would enhance the sensations for you.
If you’re a little self-conscious, blindfold sex might help you calm down. Visuals could sometimes cause sensory overload and trigger light or vision related anxieties. Covering your eyes helps you focus on the sensations. Instead of getting distracted by what you see around you. Try blindfold sex for a change or if you’re overwhelmed by the things you see.
BDSM
Do you like role playing and being dominant/submissive during sex? This kink type will blow your mind. BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism) involves the use of ropes, blindfold, gag and paddle/whip. If you feel aroused by giving orders and being rough, the role of a dom (dominant) would be perfect for you.
What if you’re turned on by obeying orders and getting roughed out? Of course, in a consensual way.You must have a set of safe words for this kink to avoid any boo boos. The role of a sub (submissive) is a nice way to express your sexuality. This is among the kink types that trigger something primal. You want to try this one out?
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Foot Fetish
You’re watching a movie, and saw your Hollywood crush’s bare feet. You felt hot all of a sudden. What is this? Don’t worry, it’s a kink type. It’s called foot fetish. That’s why you’ll find foot pictures all over the internet. This sexual kink puts more focus on a person’s feet.
Whether the feet are covered by socks or just bare, it’ll trigger something sexual. Foot fetish gets the spotlight by receiving kisses, massage or licks. But if you want to add this twist into your sex life, make sure you’re on the same page with your partner.
Exhibitionism
Getting a kick or should we say…a kink from having an audience? It’s called exhibitionism. This one is tricky because you might get in legal trouble if not done properly. Or done in the right place or setting. If you want to try, see to it that you are in at least an environment that can tolerate this kink.
An environment where nudity is allowed. Can’t just disrobe in public and expect no consequences. Attending sexy beach parties might be the way to go. If you like kissing, caressing and flashing your bits, this sexual kink is for you.
Mommy Kink
Are you looking for a motherly figure in a sexual context? You might be having a mommy kink. If you enjoy being treated like a baby, this sexual kink might be for you. Here, the caring and gentle nature of someone makes you feel aroused.
Unlike the rough nature of BDSM, mommy kink is more focused on gentleness. Though the one playing the role of mommy has authority, it’s more about the nurturing elements. The sex act is slower and comforting. It involves a lot of touching, kissing and suckling on breasts. You like being cared for by a maternal figure? This kink type for you!
Daddy Kink
On the other side of the coin, there is daddy kink. This one is about enjoying the presence of a paternal figure. This sexual kink makes you attracted to the strong and sturdy qualities of a male figure. Being cared for by a daddy makes your heart melt if you have this kink.
By adding a sexual element into it, the experience becomes hotter. Do you find comfort in a daddy’s masculine strengths? You can give this sexual kink a shot. Enjoy the security it provides and let the daddy-induced sensations take over.
Humiliation
The next item on our list of kinks, humiliation. If you feel aroused by degrading, humiliating remarks, you have a humiliation kink. Like BDSM, it’s about a rough approach to sex. You can add ropes or a gag. But hearing nasty names or words would usually be enough.
A little bit of hair pulling can also be used. It’s about you enjoying the fantasy of being so weak and powerless in a sexual setting. If you want to try this kink, make sure it’s consensual. In any type of kink, don’t forget about respect. No matter how rough the sex is, it’s important to acknowledge you or your partner’s wishes.
Group Sex
Are you a social butterfly? And you don’t mind being one in a sexual setting? The group sex kink might be your cup of tea. Also known as orgy. This kink allows you to enjoy having sex with multiple people. The more the merrier right?
If you like getting kinky with more people participating, this is definitely for you. Let your social and sexual side shine. You can also add sex toys to make the sex party even more exciting. Are you ready to spice things up with this sexual kink?
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Voyeurism
Let’s move on to the next one. This type of kink is on the other side of exhibitionism. Voyeurism is a kink you have if you’re aroused by watching someone do some sexy deed. It makes you a perfect match for an exhibitionist.
This kink can get you into trouble if the person you’re watching is not aware. So make sure that there is consent while you’re at it. Wanna get your naughty side go wild by watching or peeping? Try this out with someone who enjoys showing off their sexual side. Again, consent is key.
Wax Play
A hot kink. Yes, a literally hot type of kink. You’ll need a lit candle for this one. Are you turned on by the slight burning sensation on your skin? Wax play could make your sexy time even hotter. This kink involves dropping molten wax on your body. Your back, your chest, tummy and so on.
Wax play can also be a part of BDSM fetish. Like other kinks, consent is key. One more thing! Since there’s a lit candle involved, you must practice safety. This is to avoid injuries or a fire. Set your sexual world on fire but not your bedroom alright?
Electrostimulation
Let’s wrap up this short list of kinks with Electrostimulation. It’s another one that turns on your masochistic side. With the use of an electrically charged device, this kink puts you in an aroused state. The said device has a safe level of voltage to prevent you from getting totally electrocuted.
You or a partner can put electric pads on your genitals or other sensitive areas. The mild shocks will turn you on. Being restrained adds another layer of thrill. If wax play is hot, this kink type is electrifying! If you want to check this out, keep safety in mind.
Before You Go
Those are only a few from the vast landscape of sexual kinks. You can try them or mix them up. Add other kinky elements that turn you on. Toys can always help you in maximizing pleasure along with your kinks. Here at BeYourLover, your sex life is always our priority. So if you’re looking for kinky items to enhance your experience…
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