You’re in a happy and loving relationship. And of course, sex would always be a fascinating and exciting part of it. Exploring intimacy with a partner can help make your connection stronger. You can experiment with different positions and play around with toys to enhance your intimate moments. If you’re in a lesbian relationship, these awesome sex positions are going to give both of you an orgasmic blast.
Missionary
The most popular, tried and tested position out there. The Missionary. This is not exclusive to male and female sex. This is also a pleasurable way for lesbian couples to have a great intimate time. You can do it with your partner by making one of you lie down. The other will be on top. By positioning your pubic areas and genitals in front of each other, you can feel pleasure with rubbing movements.
Using your hands during the act can also make reaching orgasm easier. Try switching positions so both of you can feel some clitoral stimulation. If you enjoy penetration to get some G-spot action, a toy is going to come in handy. One of you will play the role of the giver. And the other is going to be the receiver.
What toy will you need? A vibrator or a strap-on will definitely do the job. A strap-on is easy to wear and you can emulate the penetrating motions. How about a vibrator? The giver must place it on their crotch, make the receiver spread their legs, turn the vibe on and put it inside the receiver’s vagina. The giver can emulate thrusting motions while your preferred toy is doing its job.
69
Are you a fan of oral sex? Got some great news for you! Does the number 69 ring any bells? It’s another popular sex position that you can try to spice up your lesbian intimate session. Get those lips and tongues ready for a mind-blowing encounter. You and your partner can simultaneously please each other with this sex position.
One of you will lie down and the other will get on all fours facing the opposite side. Pretty much facing each other’s genitals so both of you can get some oral sex. Just like how the number 69 looks like. Once you’re both in position, you can start licking and sucking on each other’s vulva and clit to experience some great sensations.
Feel free to use your fingers as well to give the vaginal canal some love. Toys are also welcome here so don’t hesitate. Want to give each other’s butt some attention? You can also give pleasure to the anal area while you’re in this position. Enjoy oral sex like there’s no tomorrow with 69.
Tribbing
Also known as scissoring, tribbing is a position you can try to get some friction going. It’s called scissoring because this position makes your legs look like two pairs of scissors with their blades facing each other. By rubbing your sweet bits down there against your partner’s, simultaneous stimulation would be on its way. To do this, one must lay on their side and spread their legs. The other would also spread their legs while being on top or do the same position on the other side.
The main objective here is to get both of your genitals in front of each other. So some rubbing can happen. With forward, backward motions, the friction created will give both of you warmth and pleasure. Tribbing or scissoring can make the two of you reach orgasm without insertion. If you’re a fan of getting your vulva rubbed by another, this is definitely a great position to try.
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Facesitting
Here’s another sex position you can try if you want to give oral sex some time to shine. Also known as queening, this one would absolutely make one of you feel like a queen. If you’re going to be the giver, you’re going to lie on your back. Your partner would sit on your face. So their genitals can receive some oral stimulation. Lick, kiss, suck their pleasure zones to bring those royal-like sensations.
Think of yourself as a sexy, irresistible throne that brings your partner to erotic bliss. Your partner can also do some back and forth motions for added friction. After bringing your partner to climax, you can switch roles or positions. Be the receiver so that you could also get some royal orgasms too. Be the queens and rule your sexual kingdom and add facesitting to your intimate arsenal.
Cowgirl
The cowgirl position. Get some rodeo-like action with this one. Simultaneous pleasure for you and your partner. In cowgirl, one would lie on their back and the other would sit on top. Your crotch and theirs would need to be positioned next to each other. This would allow one to straddle and grind back and forth. Grinding your vulva against theirs will cause friction. Friction that gives way to stimulation.
You can go fast or slow. Add some fingers into the action if you want. Both of you can also use your hands to caress each other's breasts. Play with the nipples too. Though switching positions would be fun, it’s not always necessary. Because both of you can already experience pleasure without the switch. Let the grinding motions bring you to a town of ecstasy. With this cowgirl position, you’ll be able to add an element of wild west into the bedroom.
Wedge
Here’s a very nice sex position for you. The wedge. To do this one, you’ll need a firm but comfortable pillow where you or your partner can be propped up. A wedge between the bed or floor and the body if you will. One would lie on their back or on their stomach to be the receiver. This is to open up their genitals and anus to get some pleasure. The giver is free to give cunnilingus or use hands and toys. This position gives both of you a chance to experiment with different stimulating methods.
While the giver is steadily laying on their back or tummy, the receiver will move around to try a lot of techniques. You can switch positions so both of you can experience the thrill. The wedge allows vaginal, clitoral and anal stimulation. Twist and turn to your hearts’ desire. It’s amazing that a humble pillow can open the gates of sexual exploration and paradise. So go ahead and try this one out. And if you’re looking for some toys to enhance the experience…
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Simultaneous Masturbation
How about something different? Get each other off without touching your partner with simultaneous masturbation. It might sound weird but it’s a very interesting position to try out. You can do this by lying opposite to each other while masturbating at the same time. Give your partner seductive looks. Let each other see that even from a distance, the arousal you’re feeling doesn’t easily change or go away.
But there are no strict rules here. Close your eyes if that’s more satisfying to you. You can also do this while both of you are sitting in front of each other. Intimacy is not always about getting physical with each other during sex. Your emotional and mental bond can play a great role as well. Think of it as a very sensual version of telepathy. This approach helps you and your partner care for each other while also practicing self love. Add some toys if you want to.
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Sideways 69
It’s just a slight variation of the 69 position. And you can say, it’s a more comfortable one. Instead of having one of you crouch, you and your partner would be laying on your sides. Let the bed support your bodies and explore each other’s genitals with your mouth and hands. Don’t be shy and have your mind blown by the intense pleasure you’ll get with the more laid-back version of the 69 sex position.
Spooning
Another sex position for you that offers comfort and closeness. Spooning. Here, you’re going to be laying on your sides. The giver would be positioned at the back of their partner. And if you're the receiver, you can enjoy kisses and caresses on your back. Your clit and vaginal walls can also get some pleasure with fingers or toys.
The breasts can also get some love while you're being intimate with this position. If you like penetrative sex, the giver can wear a strap-on dildo. Other vibrators can also add more twist into your bedroom action. But if you're fine with just some touching and rubbing, a non-penetrative act would be awesome as well.
Reverse Cowgirl
A variation of the cowgirl position. One of you would be lying on their back with legs close together. The one who's on top to do the riding or straddling would be facing the other way instead. Like the regular cowgirl position, the one at the top will open their legs and do back and forth grinding motions. So the friction can bring warmth and arousing sensations. Even if this is your first rodeo, you'll definitely have a wild and wonderful time!
Let Pleasure Bloom
Now that you see different positions that you can try to spice up your sex life, make sure that consent and respect are still present. Bring these awesome stuff into the bedroom and communicate clearly. Even if you're in an ongoing relationship or you're just hooking up, make sure that everyone involved is more than happy to experiment with these positions with you. So, let pleasure bloom like the flowers in your beautiful and sexy garden! See ya!
