You’ve taken a crash course on great lesbian sex positions to apply in your intimate bonding moments. They’re already fun and satisfying by themselves. But what if you take those positions to a spicier level by making it kinkier? How? By including props, toys and roleplaying into the mix. Read on to find out how you and your partner can experience more exciting and more pleasurable sex with a kinkier twist.
Blindfolded Missionary
The classic missionary. If you are the giver in this position, put a blindfold to cover the eyes of your partner (the receiver or the sub). You can also tie her hands up above her head or to the bed frame. Your partner’s lack of access to visuals would create a sense of anticipation. Not knowing when or where the pleasure attack would come from, adds a dose of excitement. Some sweet caresses before your crotches touch will make the experience even more fun. A build-up if you will.
If both of you are willing, get a sex toy too to double or even triple the pleasure. How about adding a roleplay twist into it? You can try playing the seductive doctor who’s making her innocent patient undergo a procedure. But not just any medical procedure. An erotic one. You can aslo switch roles once the other reaches that lovely climax. This kink-enhanced position would help both of you build vulnerability and trust.
Feel free to wear costumes and add props to show your commitment to the roles. In sex acts that involve restraints and blindfolds, consent is very important. Make sure that no one is getting their boundaries crossed. Trust and respect are vital here dear friends. Having safe words would also make sure that you're communicating and are both on the same page.
Kinked-Up 69
The elixir of oral sex. The famous and powerful 69. So how can you add a naughtier twist to this already naughty position? Get a pair of blindfolds out and experience mutual cunnilingus and other great sensations while not seeing a thing. Get in position first before wearing those blindfolds. So you can avoid bumps or falls. Once you and your partner are in position, get yourselves blindfolded.
For some role playing action, One of you can play the part of a mischievous captive. If you’re the sub or the captive, you’ll be the one blindfolded and restrained. You’re only allowed to respond to your captor by pleasing her orally. Your dominant captor won’t need a blindfold here. Your partner would have to ‘punish’ the captive with some toys, fingering or cunnilingus.
Incorporating elements of BDSM will surely raise the level of kinkiness in your intimate life. Before trying this out, decide who’s going to be the dom and the sub. Or you can switch roles after. Whether there’s role play elements or not. The presence of blindfolds and toys can already level up the 68 position for both of you! Again, communication is key. You can also use feathers and ice to tease each other.
Cuffed Tribbing/Scissoring
You’re stoked about rubbing genitals with your loving partner. But how can you make this passionate position kinky? Get those ankle cuffs with short chains ready. This would add a dash of challenge and excitement to your sexual adventure. Get in position. Let the controlled movements from the cuffs and chains while rubbing genitals get both of you off. Adding blindfold into the mix can make the sensation of friction more intense.
Here’s a role play idea, Imagine you’re forbidden lovers who are on your way to a secret encounter. You can try wearing accessories that look like you’re in an x-rated noir film for a unique touch. Both of you are desperate for the warmth of each other’s bodies. Every grinding motion feels dangerous but arousing. Rub each other out hands-free with kinked-up tribbing!
Restrained Queening/Facesitting
Time for some royalty-inspired position. If you’re going to be the giver, allow yourself to be blindfolded and restrained to the bed. Your partner can act like a queen who’s taking control of her own sexual kingdom. She’s going to sit on your face and your mouth will be the pleasure-giving throne.
Give your partner a mind-blowing cunnilingus that a queen’s been craving all day. Once your partner is done, you can switch roles and tie her up to be your servant and throne. Get those fancy clothes ready for some role playing. So you can complete the royal feel and look if you’re super committed to the part.
Tied Cowgirl
Whoa! The cowgirl in you is going wild with your sex drive. How to kink this one up? By adding a dash of BDSM to it. If you’re the receiver, the cowgirl in this encounter, your partner’s going to be tied to the bed. Blindfolds are optional here. But having them on can make the experience more interesting. Ride your partner while you’re grinding your vulva against her body. Making the giver wear a strap-on dildo is also a great idea. A phallic stuff you can insert inside while you’re riding wildly.
Aside from the wild west role play fantasy, you can also try the strip club setting. Giving your partner a lap dance with this position would be awesome! Doing that sexy dance while she’s restrained is a very interesting visual and feeling. Once you’ve had your fill and reached O-town, switch places if she’s also interested in playing the part of a cowgirl and strip-club dancer. Go wild!
BDSM-Inspired Wedge
In wedge position, your partner or yourself would need to be propped up. Depending on who’s going to play the role of the receiver. A sturdy, comfortable pillow makes access to your private areas easier. So how can you add BDSM elements while doing this position? By adding items like cuffs, gag, collar and blindfolds. This creates a power dynamic in your intimacy. The one tied up is in a submissive and vulnerable role. And if you’re the giver, that puts you in a position of control.
Looking for a thrilling way to role play using this position? Here’s one for you. If you want to be a spy that’s been caught, you’re going to be the receiver or sub. Get ready for being propped up and exposed to your interrogator (the dom/giver). This position and the presence of BDSM items are ideal for this spy-interrogator dynamic. If you’re looking for kinky items for restraint…
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Blindfolded Simultaneous Masturbation
Let your imagination go wild on this one. What if you’re both blindfolded and also a few feet away from each other? It might sound strange but hear us out. Now that you can’t count on your eyes to watch each other rubbing your own vulvas, your other senses come into play. To make you both come. How to intensify the erotic energy? Try listening to each other’s moans while you’re pleasuring yourselves with fingers or toys.
If you want some role playing here, one of you would need to remove the blindfold. This opens up a chance to play roles of exhibitionist and voyeur. The blindfolded party is the exhibitionist who masturbates in front of a voyeur. If you’re the voyeur, you have the privilege to masturbate while watching your exhibitionist, blindfolded partner play with herself. Make the experience more intense with sex toys.
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Sideways 69 with Collar and Leash
A sideways variation of the classic, pleasurable 69 position. To make this kinkier, get that collar and leash handy. One of you would wear those and the other would take control. Like a conductor of a sexual orchestra. Pleasure each other orally while the dominant one would pull at the leash to make reaching the crotch a challenge to the sub. Blindfold her to add a sexy, exciting element of sensory deprivation.
Make sure that you as lovebirds are in a safe and comfortable space before heating things up. And both of you have consented to this act that involves some pulling and rough movements. As far as role playing is concerned, imagine you're in an intense, semi-violent sleepover where one of you is taking the lead. While the other would respond to each leash pull by eating the Dom out. Even a sub can still receive pleasure from the Dom in this scenario. So both parties are satisfied in this rough sleepover fantasy.
Tied-Up Reverse Cowgirl
In this position, you’re going to face the other side as a rider. Imagine being a submissive cowgirl instead of the one leading your erotic ranch. Let your partner attach a leash and a collar on your neck. Or a rope around your waist. While you’re riding, she’ll tug the rope or leash to control your grinding pace. Insert a butt plug for some extra kink. Be the naughty cowgirl who’s getting punished for misbehaving. For a nice touch of role play.
As a rider, you must grind until you’re allowed to finish. You’ll go faster or slower based on your partner’s tugs. Let her watch you enjoy the ‘punishment’ for being super naughty. Get your cowboy hat on to complete the look. Showing your dedication to the cowgirl role. Grind and moan until you’re allowed to come. After finishing, your partner can also experience orgasmic punishment from you by switching roles.
Restrained Spooning
Spooning is a great option for lesbian sex. Spice things up by making this one kinkier. As a giver, restrain your partner’s hands with cuffs. Blindfold and gag the receiver. Some sensory deprivation intensifies the spooning position. Use your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate her erotic spots. You’re in full control of the pace and intensity. Go slow or stop once in a while to make the receiver beg for more.
If your partner wants a slower, gentler form of stimulation, play the role of a cuddly caretaker. She had a very exhausting day and wanted some warmth and comfort from you. Get the props and toys ready. You’re the one providing comfort but you’re still the one taking the lead. As your partner relies on you to give her pleasure while her hands are cuffed, mouth is gagged and eyes are blindfolded. Be the receiver if it tickles your fancy. Looking for toys and cuffs?
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Some Kinky Tips
Get kinkier with your partner while trying out the positions mentioned above. You’re probably a newbie when it comes to the bondage or BDSM. But you are eager to learn about it to spice your sex positions up with the intensity of this kink. Discover a new world and open up orgasm-inducing possibilities by taking some notes from the interwebs. Here’s a video that would give you a few tips for beginners.
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Before exploring a new world and going wild in the bedroom, see to it that consent, respect and safety are being practiced or observed. Now that you’ve reached an agreement with your loving partner, the tools and positions are waiting. Strengthen your bond and build trust in a kinked-up intimate setting. Enjoy your private erotic feast and stay safe!
FAQ
Is a bondage kit worth having?
Yes. Having a bondage kit handy can make lesbian sex more exciting. The element of restraint and sensory deprivation adds an intense twist.
Where to buy them and other sex toys too?
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Is it safe to use blindfolds and restraints?
If you put comfort and consent at the top of your priority list, blindfolds or restraints are generally safe. Before trying them out, you can do some research or ask an expert. Restraints add a dash of intensity but they should be used responsibly.
