1. Get Prepared

Ensure your BeYourLover toy and smart device are compatible with the BeYourLover App. Your toy is compatible if it has the "APP" sticker on the packaging. You can also check all app-controlled toys here.

Your device should run iOS 12.0 or later, or Android 8.0 or later.

2. Download the App

Download the BeYourLover App from the Apple App Store, Google Play Store, or the official BeYourLover website.

3. Connect Your Toy

4. Open Home Screen

The home screen provides:

5. Choose Mode

All app-controlled toys include Preset Mode and Remote Mode. Available options vary by toy:

• Preset Mode: Select a preset vibration pattern.
• Remote Mode: Play with a partner remotely.
• Music Mode: Sync vibration to music.
• Touch Mode: Draw your own mode.
• Custom Mode: Combine preset modes for new patterns.
• Sound Mode: Sync vibration to environmental sounds.
• Group Mode: Create duo or multi-user groups.

6. Preset Mode

Depending on your toy, you may see Thrusting Mode, Vibration Mode, or both on your screen.

• Select any numbered preset mode to start playing.
• Adjust the intensity to your liking with the intensity bar slider.
• Tap the Pause button to stop.
• Tap Play to resume the last mode.
• Tap Random Play to shuffle modes.
• If your toy has a light up function, you can switch it on or off by tapping the lightbulb icon.
• If your toy has a heating function, you can switch it on or off by tapping the thermometer icon.

7. Remote Mode

Creating a Room:

• Your partner must download the BeYourLover App on a compatible device.
• Tap Create Room.
• Name your room and tap Create Room.
• A nine-digit room ID will automatically be created. Tap Share Room ID and send the ID to your desired partner.
• Your partner taps Long-distance Control > Join Room, enters the ID, and taps Confirm.
• Your partner can now control your toy!
• Inside the room, you can use buttons for Video Call, Touch Mode, Music Mode, and Custom Mode.
• To leave or stop sharing control, tap the Back button and press Confirm to exit.

Joining a Room:

If your partner has already created a room and you wish to join, open Remote Mode and select Join Room. Enter the nine-digit room ID and you'll be granted access.

8. Music Mode

Sync your toy to music using built-in tracks or mp3 files saved on your device. (You may need to give permission in your Settings for the app to access this.)

• Only mp3 files are supported.
• Tap the hamburger menu on the right to see your music playlist and select a track.
• Tap Play to sync the toy to the track.
• Tap Play/Pause to start or pause both the toy and the music.
• Use Previous/Next buttons to change tracks.
• Adjust the intensity to your liking with the intensity bar slider.

9. Touch Mode

• Tap Start/Stop to begin playing.
• Use your finger to draw custom patterns on the screen.
• Tap Start/Stop again when you finish.
• You'll be asked to create a name for your custom mode.
• Access saved modes under Custom Modes > My Modes.
• To delete a saved mode, tap it, then Confirm.
• Tap Boost Mode to increase intensity; tap again to turn off.

10. Custom Mode

You can combine 5 preset modes to create your own custom mode by pressing them in sequence.

• To create, choose one of the numbered modes presented on your screen.
• To undo the last addition, tap the Undo button.
• When the progress reaches 100%, you will see it reflected in the Schedule circle.
• Once you're happy with your mode, save it by naming it and tapping Confirm.
• Saved modes appear under My creation.
• Start or pause a saved mode by tapping its Play/Pause button.
• Adjust the intensity to your liking with the intensity bar slider.
• Delete saved modes by tapping them and confirming.

11. Sound Mode

• You may be asked to allow the BeYourLover App access to your phone's microphone. Press Allow.
• Tap Start to sync your toy to environmental sounds; tap again to stop.
• Adjust microphone sensitivity with the slider bar.

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