Sure, size can be a superpower, but it needs all the right moves.
If your Johnson is leaning on a larger-than-average size, while it’s often celebrated in bed, it can still sometimes come with oops! moments.
Because the goal doesn’t always have to do with penetration, and your partner’s and your shared pleasure should come first, having a big wood can hit the cervix, cause discomfort, and hurt the delicate parts if you’re not careful.
We’re here to help you get more comfortable while giving yourselves a mind-blowing sex, so take a look at the fun positions to work with what you’ve got.
Big Dick Problems? Here Are the Best Sex Positions for a Larger Penis
So, you’re packing. Congratulations! But let’s get real, because reality isn’t always what most people seem to imagine, and navigating your girth and length poorly can likely make your partner wince.
Let’s break down the positions that work best to give you both comfort and freedom of movement.
Partner on Top
Okay, this first position is a classic for a reason, and it can be one of the easiest to do as well, yet very effective.
Because it hands everything to the person who’s in control, it’s a perfect choice if you both like comfort with some kick of confidence.
How to Make It Work
The whole point here is control, and because the partner on top is the one who manages everything, this one's perfect if you're both looking for something comfortable yet will also make you feel confident.
The partner on top or the classic cowgirl will let the receiver shift back or pause whenever things get too intense, and also allow their body to adjust to your girth and depth.
All the giving partner has to do is lie back down comfortably on a soft surface, so the receiver can straddle and ride them.
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This position can be incredibly empowering for receivers who feel a bit anxious, because they can choose the perfect depth for themselves, at their own pace, without any pressure.
And yet, if the person on top wanna add that extra layer, a vibrating cock ring like this REDMII ROSALIA can give them clit stimulation to make the position even better, and it’s fun, small, held in place, and works wonders.
T-Square
Let’s get cozy for now, because the T-Square will make you and your boo get intimate without the “deep impact.”
If you need a position for lazy Sunday sex, then this relaxed, gentle, and seriously underrated position will surely make everyone feel so good.
How to Make It Work
To set yourselves up, all you have to do is lie on your sides, but instead of facing each other, position yourselves to create a “T.”
The giver or the partner with a larger penis can lie at the back of the other, while the receiver can rest across them, as they rest their hips against the giver’s side, and from here, the receiver can grind or adjust the angles after the penetration, and things will mostly depend on how they move their body.
It’s basically like a team effort, while one partner is steering, because there’s no ‘I’ in the team, and in fact, teamwork can likely make your bedroom relationship more satisfying, reduce anxiety, and enhance performance, as per Good Vibes Clinic.
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This one’s a winner because there’s a lower chance that you’ll get strained when doing this for a longer time, and no lifting, too.
But pillows are your BFFs here, so try to slide one under your hips to give you better alignment and take some pressure off your back. And if you need more kick, adding a small clitoral vibe like Lippy can add a new sensation without compromising the flow of the position.
Spooning
Another cozy classic is spooning, and seriously, this isn’t just for cuddling, but another underrated position that’s perfect when you and your boo are feeling lazy.
This position’s great if you want to maximize the feeling of intimacy using little effort, and it’s warm, close, and can limit how things can go deep, which makes it an awesome choice if you’re doing it with a larger penis.
How to Make It Work
First, you can both lie on your side and face the same direction, just like cuddling, then, the giver with a larger penis can enter the other behind gently, while being mindful of the angle.
The beauty here is the natural fit, because your bodies just curve together, so both of you can adjust the angle and depth together as you move, and the receiver can also adjust by arching their back more or even bending their knees toward their chests to find that sweet spot.
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You can take it slow as much as you want, no pressure, and you can also try putting a pillow between the knees of the receiver to take some pressure off.
And if you wanna add some nipple vibes because you're not facing each other, you can use this BeYourLover Camera Alberta or this sleek NOIR to give love to the receiver's cherry buttons without using your hands.
Side-By-Side Missionary
If you wanna add some clever hack to your usual missionary, then you can do it side-by-side to make things more comfy and intimate.
It keeps all the eye contact, because like the classic missionary, you’re facing each other, but this one’s more controlled because you don’t work against gravity.
How to Make It Work
Instead of having the giver lie on top, you can lie on your sides, while facing each other, and the partner with a larger penis can add some pillows under their hips to find the perfect angle.
After that, you can find your rhythm together, wrap your legs around each other to feel closer, and even experiment with leg positions that work for you to find what suits you best.
Unlike the classic missionary, lying on your sides can help prevent the list of injuries that you can get from sex, especially if the giver is leaning on the larger side, such as vaginal or anal tear, muscle pulls, genital burning, being stuck, or even penile injuries, as stated by Stephanie Watson of WebMD.
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Putting pillows under the hips isn’t just a suggestion but a need, because it takes off pressure from both of your hips and back, and if you want to make things hotter, you can also add a handheld vibrator like this Skull Man or Pink Naughty Clock that can be placed between the two of you, and since this position is close, it’s very easy to add toys when playing, so you'd better check our list of toys here.
Modified Doggy
If you both love the raw energy of the doggy style but are afraid that someone might get hurt, you can always use some modifications to still do it, but with more comfort.
How to Make It Work
Doing a regular doggy style with a larger penis can be super intense, so for this one, the receiving partner can lie on their tummy instead of kneeling on the bed or floor.
The receiver can lower their chest and shoulders just like when doing a plank, and doing it this way can help change the angle of the pelvis so penetration is easier and more controlled.
The giver can lie on top of their partner to thrust away, vaginally or anally, so the rhythm is in their hands.
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By lowering the upper body, it can help reduce the strain in the receiver’s back and neck, but adding a pillow under the hips is also important, because using pillows to find the right angle can also help hit those yummy spots like the P-spot or G-spot.
But if you may, you can include toys during play, and better start with something simple like this remote-controlled TOYCOD TARA X g-spot vibrator or this ALAN prostate massager to give the receiver some extra tingles down there.
Scissors
When you’re working with a thick and long penis, the simplest advice would be to open up. Literally.
During scissors position, it lets the receiving partner open up more for the other, unlike the other ones that keep their legs closed and make things harder and more painful.
In this variation, you can position yourself in a clever, side-lying twist to get you comfortable while creating wide-open access.
How to Make It Work
First, the couple can lie on their side, facing each other, heads on opposite ends, so their bodies can form a “V” shape, and next, the giver can start to slide their legs in between the receiver’s thighs.
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The giver can also angle their thrusts so their shaft can rub their partner’s clit as they move, and since the legs are so open, they can also opt for grinding friction and find whatever feels incredible.
You guys can also use a small, bullet vibe like this BeYourLover Magic Suitcase Sleep Beauty or BeYourLover Earpod that you can easily hold against the clit for added stimulation without breaking the rhythm.
G-Force
The G-force position can be a fun way to create new angles without sacrificing comfort, and it’s great if you want something deeper and more targeted, but still in control of how intense it gets.
How to Make It Work
The receiving partner can start by lying on their back so they can pull their knees up to their chest, and the giver can kneel in front to support and enter them from above.
The giver can use their hands to support their partner, and next, they can ease into moving slowly and enter them. They can also make small tweaks as they go and test the waters before going deeper.
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Since this position naturally opens the hips and pelvis, it makes the penetration feel more intense and direct, while still giving the person at the bottom some control, and the receiver can change the depth just by shifting their knees to their chest, because pulling them closer can create more depth.
It’s also easier to talk and create eye contact because they’re facing each other. And if the receiving partner also loves anal play, they can use quality anal toys during this position. So they might wanna add these Azul vibes or Strawberry-Shaped Plug to make the upside-down feeling much fuller and delicious.
You Can Be Big, Bold, and Better in Bed!
Owning a big penis doesn’t mean you have to worry and hold back every time you get turned on, because with the right positions, some creativity, and a lot of communication, you can turn those “uh-oh” into “oh, yes!”
Focus on the comfort, angles, and control, because this is how you can build trust, intimacy, and, of course, way better orgasms for both of you.
These confidence-boosting positions will help you work with your size, and not against it, because it can also let the receiving partner have some control.
If you want to turn your experience into something toe-curling, then you should go visit BeYourLover and check our list of male sex toys that can hold, no matter how big and impressive your dick is.
But if you need more to master your bedroom game, you can check our guides about big penis problems, male masturbation techniques, best sex toys that couples can use, and cock ring tips.
All illustrations by Tantally and She Knows.
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