Handcuffs & Restraints

Sex handcuffs and sex restraints are a must-have during BDSM play. Aside from giving full control to the dominant partner, the submissive partner can enjoy the pleasure by feeling helpless and immobile.

You Can Discover the Possibilities

Our current selection includes the popular BDSM Bondage Kit in Green and the RED Bundage Kit–both from the BeYourLover brand, with a quality that can guarantee to satisfy your thirsty scenarios.

While using our best restraints for sex during your next play, you can add sex toy handcuffs, so you and your partner will have more restraining options–great for couples who are looking for more ways to explore together.

Why Use Handcuffs and Restraints During Play?

Using restraints and the best handcuffs for sex you can find can help improve control and intimacy in so many ways:

  • Heightened Sensation – By limiting movement, restraints can help intensify other sensations, and can make touch, taste, and sound more powerful.
  • Increased Anticipation – The feeling of being restrained can create a sense of anticipation and vulnerability, to help you arouse your partner more.
  • Role Play – Sex restraints lets you explore the different power dynamics and fantasies.
  • Enhanced Communication – Using restraints requires clear communication and consent, which can foster a deeper connection between partners.

How to Use Handcuffs and Restraints Safely

Once you find asking yourself about how to use handcuffs during sex safely and effectively, you can always apply these ideas.

  • Open Communication – Talk openly with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and safe words before your play.
  • Start Slow – You can begin by using restraints, then gradually increase the intensity, once you and your partner become more comfortable.
  • Check for Circulation – Always explore that your applied restraints are not too tight, to not restrict your partner’s blood flow. Try also to regularly check them for any numbness or discomfort.
  • Easy Release – Always have a quick, easy access to release the restraints in case of an emergency or any discomfort.
  • Respect Boundaries – Remember to respect your partner’s boundaries all the time, and apply the safe words. If they express discomfort, it’s best to stop immediately.
  • Never Restrain an Unconscious Partner – Never use restraints on an unconscious partner, because this prevents you from assessing them, which can be dangerous.

Choosing the Right Handcuffs and Restraints

Before buying your next sex toys restraints, or running to the nearest handcuffs sex store, you should always decide on ones that can match your preference and experience level.

  • Material – Restraints often come in various materials–like leather, nylon, and metal. Always choose a material that feels comfortable against your skin.
  • Adjustability – Some adjustable restraints can also allow you to customize the fit and its level of restriction.
  • Ease of Use – You can opt for restraints that are easy to put on and take off, especially if you’re a beginner.

Tips for Beginners

If you’re new to using handcuffs and restraints during sex, here are some tips to help get you started:

  • Consent and Safe Words – Ask for consent every step of the way, and decide on safe words before any action.
  • Experiment with Different Positions – Try different positions to find what works best for you and your partner.
  • Communicate Openly – Always communicate openly with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t.

Advanced Techniques

For those looking to explore more advanced techniques, you can consider the following:

  • Combining Restraints with Other Toys – You can use restraints with other sex toys to create a multi-sensory experience.
  • Role-Playing Scenarios – Try to develop more role-playing scenarios that incorporate restraints, such as captivity or rescue fantasies.
  • Sensory Overload – Experiment with sensory overload by combining multiple stimuli at once–like touch, sound, and temperature play.