The boobs and nipples are both erogenous zones–meaning it’s possible for a person to reach an orgasm without stimulating their genitals. Since the nipples can consist of a lot of nerve endings that you can play with, and they can be super sensitive.
Touching and playing with your or your partner’s nipples can also help you reach that big O during boob sucking. Let’s move forward and learn about the following tips and tricks that will let you achieve that electrifying sensation–that just explodes out of nowhere!
What is Boob Sucking and How You Can Do It Properly
Boob sucking, which usually includes the nipples, is a sexual activity where a person’s breast is being caressed and touched. The giving partner can also kiss the breast, and suck it for their partner’s pleasure.
In a study made by the National Library of Medicine, around 80% of their test subjects stated that nipple stimulation can play a huge role in sexual satisfaction.
While some people want their partner to do it gently, others like firmer touches for a more intense sensation. Before starting your breast play, you can consider these lists of things that you should avoid doing, so you wouldn’t hurt your partner.
Be Gentle
By doing things gently, it can help guarantee that your partner is having a good time and feeling good. Also, avoid squeezing their breasts too forcefully and try to honor their boundaries every step of the way.
Avoid Too Much Pinching and Biting
If your partner experiences too much pain initially, it could create some discomfort that can turn them off. While small bites and firm pinching can be fun, it’s still best to find out what works for your partner and what doesn’t.
Keep the Pressure Off
It’s also important to refrain from applying too much pressure, especially when stroking your partner’s breasts. Sucking and playing too aggressively can be painful, and will prevent your partner from reaching an orgasm, especially if they’re not into it.
Don’t Be Too Rough With Clothing
Remember, always undress your partner in a gentle way by not rushing things. Removing your partner’s clothing overly hard can likely hurt their boobs and nipples.
Steps to Begin Your Boob Sucking
Before getting things started, it’s important to have a stable groundwork of ideas.
First, You Can Set the Mood
For an explosive experience, you need to make your partner feel relaxed in a comfortable space.
- Use scented candles or dim the lights
- Spritz your partner’s favorite scent in the room
- Make a comfortable spot for them to lay down
- Add some elements like string lights and flower petals to improve the ambiance
Start From the Top and Use a Light Touch
Just like in any sexual activity, you’ll never go wrong with foreplay, when it comes to setting the mood. You can start kissing their face, down to their neck, going towards the areola to build some anticipation.
It’s also a great idea to start with light touches first, to gauge your partner’s feeling and sensitivity. Use your wet lips to caress the nipple area, or you can lightly blow some warm air across its peaks.
How to Suck the Nipples the Right Way
Now that you feel a bit ready, here’s how you can suck your partner’s nipples without hurting them.
- Use Your Tongue - First, create circles by tracing the rim of their nipples. The areola can be a very sensitive part of the breasts and can give them anticipation while getting closer to the nipples. You can also flick your tongue to add quicker and more tense movements.
- Find Your Rhythm - Sucking can be easy, but finding your rhythmic pattern can be challenging, especially during your first try. You can suck using a rhythmic motion and check your partner’s moans and reactions to find the best speed.
- An Alternate Stimulation - Getting too much stimulated on one part can be boring, so it’s best to alternate your licking and sucking, depending on your partner’s responses.
- Mind the Intensity - Try to experiment, and use different intensities to find out the motion, speed, and pressure your partner likes.
The Best Techniques to Drive Your Partner Crazy
If you want to take your breast game up a notch or even a ten, you can apply these techniques on your next encounter.
Ask Your Partner First
Some people want to get their breasts fondled, while others don’t feel sensitive on that part. So, don’t feel bad once you continuously suck them, and still don’t moan. Some people don’t even like having their breasts played with, according to Kat Stark of Your Tango, so it’s a good idea to ask them first if they find this activity pleasurable.
Give Your Partner a Massage
Giving your partner a neck and shoulder massage is a way to prepare them for boob sucking, especially if your partner has large breasts. Breasts, particularly the ones on the larger side, can feel heavy–giving back pain to some people by hauling them all day.
To make your partner feel more relaxed, some massages during foreplay can help.
Knead Using the Right Motion
Most people carry some muscle tension in their chests, so boob stimulation is a great way to relieve this. By using the right motion and pressure, you can assess what type of touch and pleasure they’re into.
When touching your partner, you can also keep in mind that their size has nothing to do with pleasure. Some flat-chested people can find breast play a very pleasurable experience, while some large-chested people find anything involving their breasts a bit boring. So, it’s best not to assume anything because of their size.
Don’t Be Too Aggressive, Unless They Ask
Please don’t always assume that everyone wants their nipples to get sucked aggressively, as this experience can be painful. As previously mentioned, the nipples can be super sensitive, so when you want to incorporate some nibbling action, it’s best to always ask your partner first.
Don’t Stress Things Out
Whether you’re not doing a good job or not, people will always love the effort their partners give. Also, don’t be afraid of a little breastmilk, if your partner is lactating. In fact, some people can get turned on by this.
If you follow the advice mentioned above, and once you find your partner enjoying themselves during play, there’s a great chance that they’re having an excellent experience.
Some Pro Tips to Help Enhance Your Game
To legendary master your partner’s pleasure zones, here are some moves that you can do, to help you both enjoy the experience together.
- Communicate - If you find yourself worrying about what feels good for your partner, you can just ask them what they like! A lot of people enjoy breast play, and knowing the things that they’re into is a good place to start.
- Talk Dirty - Incorporating dirty talk during your play is the best time to compliment their breasts. You can say how their hard nipples make you feel aroused, and state how their boobs are amazing looking, as these are enough to give them the confidence boost that they need.
- Work Your Way Up - If you’re still gauging what your partner likes, you can start by massaging the surrounding parts of their breasts before heading to the nipple. There’s some build-up this way that can enhance their feeling of anticipation.
- It’s Double the Fun - You might get caught up in the moment from too much sucking action, but don’t forget that there are two nipples that you can play with. Don’t leave their other nipple out, to give both breasts an equal love.
- Check-in First - Before you juggle, bounce, or slap some breasts, make sure to ask them first. The purpose of sexual play is always the pleasure and comfort of both partners.
- Use Clamps or Massagers into the Mix - To add more spice and variety to your breast play, you can use nipple clamps or massagers for an added pleasurable sensation for you or your partner.
Great Positions That You Can Try
Are you ready to try the best positions for a better boob sucking experience? These are few boob sucking positions to help you get started:
Tantra Chair
Aside from being a great way to connect with your partner, this position can help make the boob sucking successful. The couples can do this by letting the giving partner sit on a chair, leaning with their back against it, and the receiving partner will sit on the other’s lap, facing them.
The receiving partner can hang their legs, with arms straight, while the giving partner can support the other using their hands. This is a good position for the giving partner to suck the receiver’s breasts, and penetrate them while they’re at it.
Mexican Style
The Mexican style sex position is a win-win for both partners. Like the Tantra chair, the giving partner can sit on a chair first, with their back supported. The receiving partner can sit on the receiving partner’s lap, but with their legs crossed with each other.
This position gives the giving partner enough height to reach the other partner’s breast to suck them. The receiving partner can also wrap their arms around the giving partner’s neck, or kiss each other passionately.
Chinese Art
When doing this kinky position, the giving partner needs to be strong enough to support the couple’s weight. Please be careful when doing this position, because there’s risk of losing your balance and getting both injured.
While the giving partner sits on the edge of a stable, cushioned seat, they can bend their legs to arrange them on the seat in a comfortable way. Afterward, the receiving partner can position themself on their partner’s lap, face to face.
The receiving partner's knees can rest on the armrest while they tiptoes, while the giving partner can lean backwards as much as possible. The hand of the giving partner can be used to caress their partner’s breast, or use their mouth to suck them.
FAQs
Is boob sucking a safe thing to do?
Yes, but only when it’s done gently in a consensual way. However, it’s also important to check your partner if there are underlying health issues to avoid any discomfort or injury.
Will boob sucking lead to any nipple soreness?
It can, if the sucking is too vigorous or prolonged, so it’s important to be attentive to your partner’s comfort.
Is it normal for my nipple to swell during breast sucking?
Nipple swelling is a normal and temporary occurrence during nipple sucking because of the increased blood flow going to the area. The swelling is usually harmless and typically resolves on its own.
Can I suck my partner with breast implants?
In general, sucking your partner's boobs won’t have any negative effects on their implants. But if you have any concerns, it’s best to consult your healthcare provider, so you won’t have any worries.
