Your hands have the power to bring delight in different ways. By using them, you can prepare things that make people around you feel loved and appreciated. The power in your hands is present in your intimate life as well. If you enjoy giving pleasure with your hands, a handjob is probably on your bucket list. Even if you’re experienced or not, giving a handjob is a sign of appreciation. And with your effort to give it, you’ll get appreciation in return. Let’s look at some techniques you can apply.
Communicate
Things are starting to heat up in your sexy paradise. Oh dear, it’s getting intense. The sex machine in you is super enthusiastic to express some love. Thing is, is your partner willing to receive it? You know, consent is always an important thing. Especially in a very intimate setting where people are more vulnerable and feel more exposed. Before getting your loving hands all over your partner’s penis, ask. Is it even wanted or a welcome act? If an awesome handjob gets them excited, then it’s a sign to let your wonderful hands shine by giving the penis in front of you some arousing sensations.
Mutual respect is a crucial thing in any kind of intimate relationship. So you can't just push someone unwilling to just go with whatever you want. Just like you wanted your boundaries, limits to be respected, it's also important to respect your partner's wishes. It's nice that you're super excited to give a handjob. But, automatically assuming that the one you're being intimate with would be comfortable with that might lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Intimacy is not just physical. Remember that there are emotions involved. Sex should feel like a safe haven for the people participating in it. So communicate, ask questions. To make sure you're on the same page. And if you need some toys to enhance your intimate playtime, BeYourLover is a friend that will lend you a helping hand.
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Watch and Learn
Now that your partner has agreed and made you feel more than welcome to deliver an awesome handjob, ask your partner to show you how. The penis is out, what do you do? Let them be your guide. What kind of stroke does he prefer, fast or slow? What kind of grip will satisfy the sensitive parts? Give reassurance that they're in a safe space. A space where they can express themselves without awkwardness or any trace of shame. Let them know that your smiles and giggles, if those things are present, are just signs of affection and excitement. Not of ridicule, mockery or embarrassment.
Let them sit or lie comfortably in front of you and allow them to demonstrate what kind of pleasure they want you to bring with a handjob. The penis is a sensitive organ so ask if you're allowed to hold it. If you got the permission to do so, ask your partner to guide you on what kind of stroke speed or grip they wanted. They’ll let you know if your handling is too soft or too intense. Again, don't make things awkward. You're here to bring comfort and pleasure. Not judgement or anything that would make the vulnerable act a scarring one.
How about showing up in the bedroom with the confidence that you've done your homework? Learning is not confined within the walls of your former school. Life is a journey and a continuous learning process. The internet is a vast ocean of information. Porn videos might help once in a while. But some erotic videos are too tone deaf and too detached from reality. Make sure that you're using something that is realistic and educational for reference. Take notes and try them out with your partner. The video below is a tutorial that would be a helpful guide in giving a mind-blowing handjob.
Lube or No Lube?
Now that you're aware of the fact that penis owners have different preferences when it comes to receiving pleasure. Some are circumcised and some are not. Uncircumcised penises are usually more sensitive because the glans are not exposed like the circumcised ones. But different factors come into play as well. Health conditions, medications can affect the level of sensitivity. So it's important to be mindful of these. Your partner might enjoy the slippery effect of a lubricant so get a tube of lube handy just in case. Apply a good amount that will cover the entire penis. And start stroking. Imitate your partner’s way of getting himself off. Adjust the position and movements of your hands according to your partner’s wishes. Allow your free hand to play with your partner's testicles or nipples. Or try pleasuring yourself as well while the other hand is busy giving a handjob. That's simultaneous pleasure. If you want both of your hands to focus on jerking the penis, you can do that as well!
Some enjoy a drier approach. The friction of no lube handjob makes the strokes feel more intense and arousing. Again, it depends on what your partner really wants. Aside from your hands that are taking care of the handjob, communicate with words or through your eyes and facial expressions. Show how willing you are to bring some unforgettable sensations. Penises come in different sizes and shapes. Each one has its quirk so don't assume that all would respond the same way.
There are some who suffer from premature ejaculation. Where a penis owner becomes super sensitive that even a few strokes would lead to orgasm and ejaculation. Instead of showing disappointment, reassure them that it happens once in a while. You can even consider that a compliment. Because your magic touch can bring instant pleasure. If you encounter this, know that your partner is already self-conscious about it. So handle the situation with care like you handle their penis.
If you let him rest for a couple of minutes, you can always go for another round anyway. So that's good news.
A lubed or no lube handjob will depend on your partner's preferences and conditions. The penis owner you're with will respond to your hands’ movements. Make it known that you're there to give them a good time. Being mindful and respectful will go a long way. Because after delivering such a nice and loving handjob will get you a great level of affection in return. So don't hesitate to ask, communicate. This will open the doors to the land of a warm and satisfying sex life.
Blowjob as a Bonus
You're having fun playing with a penis like a joystick. Your partner is also breathing heavily in pleasure. How about adding bonus strokes with the use of your mouth? Oh, the inexplicable pleasure of fellatio. Most penis owners would love to get one. But before turning that penis into a popsicle stick, ask your partner. When you get the green light, start giving that awesome blowjob. Excited to give head? and the penis in front of you is anticipating it? Start wrapping that penis around your lips. Lick the sensitive areas. Play with the testicles too while you're at it.
Keep stroking, kissing, licking until your partner's legs stretch in ecstasy. Think of it as a finishing touch after a mind-blowing handjob. And once climax had been reached. Get a few moments of rest and you can start another round. Or you can proceed to other sexual acts. Be the one to receive pleasure through oral sex, penetration or add more fun with the use of sex toys. Speaking of toys, where can you find them? Well, look no further dear friend. BeYourLover is going to be there to enhance your intimate moment before, during or after a wonderfully done handjob.
