After a super busy, tiring day at work, a massage would be so lovely you thought. With your honeybunch! Your sexual side is also looking forward to that. That’s an awesome situation to be in don’t you think? Your aching muscles, including your private spots can have a relaxing and pleasurable time!
So What is a Couple's Erotic Massage?
When you’re scared that your routines might push you into monotony, you start to crave something different. And as a couple, you can try new, awesome things with sex. Let's say you're both busy bodies in your professional lives.
How can you have a relaxing yet sexy time with each other? Please welcome, erotic couple’s massage! What is it really? It’s a treat or an act that you and your partner can enjoy. Not just you giving or receiving touch mindlessly to tick off some checklist.
But it’s about you and your partner enjoying touch with intention.Having a couple’s erotic massage helps you tune in to your partner’s energy. A great tool to awaken your senses and stir arousal. It’s not the kind of erotic stuff where you rush the sexiness of the process.
You go slow and intentional to feel the sensations fully. Just like sex, massages can also give you pleasure. It’s not confined to soothing some physical ache dear ones. If you’re doing it with a person you love, you can get emotionally close with them.
Think of it as the bonding of souls that heal each other. So if you put a massage in a very intimate setting, you’ll get (and give) an erotic massage. It provides a safe space for you and your partner. Where love and healing can happen.
Again, it’s not just a physical combo of sex and relaxation. What a wonderful way to strengthen your emotional connection with each warm, loving, very satisfying touch. Here’s an erotic massage how-to video where a professional guides you.
What are the Benefits of Couple’s Erotic Massage?
You could be the most adventurous couple out there. But the exhilarating adventures you’ve had might need some slow, gentle breaks sometimes. And with erotic massage, you can keep the flame alive during calmer moments. Let’s check out some benefits you could get from it.
Reduces Stress and Anxiety
An erotic massage not only relaxes the body. Its slow and gentle nature helps in calming your mind. The safe space you and your partner are in? It allows you to free yourselves from any guilt, shame or anxiety that you’re adding a sexual ingredient into the massage experience.
Improves Communication, Reignites Chemistry
The loving touches you give and receive are touches that express your feelings. A perfect way to communicate with your special someone. Without using words. You both tune in and respond. Each touch is saying you’re in it together.
An erotic massage will also reignite the sexual chemistry between you. It gives you a nice break from the routine elements of intimacy. Still exciting without the high-octane maneuvers right? So yeah, It’s a great tool in making your bodies talk and reignite the flame of your connection.
Encourages Body Positivity
As mentioned, no place for judgement or shame here. A sexual massage is like a healing potion for your body and soul. This one allows both of you to create a loving, respectful space. Get naked and vulnerable without fear.
The touches you’re both giving and receiving can bring pleasure. Not just that. But a healing and accepting energy will embrace you. It’s not about how your bodies look. The focus here is how at ease an erotic massage makes you feel.
Deepens Emotional Intimacy
Since you're already in a very intimate setting, you're not limited to physicality. You can deepen your emotional intimacy with your partner through an erotic couple’s massage. Here's where you can experience sex with more gentleness that combines pleasure with relaxation.
Each massage stroke is a reassurance to each other that it's okay to be vulnerable. To express your emotions in a sexy way. Without any rush about the act. Just being emotionally and physically present.
Connecting deeply, strongly. As if your souls are dancing to slow, rejuvenating music. You’re going to realize that sex is not a contest. But it’s a beautiful and very human celebration of your emotions.
Common Types of Couple’s Erotic Massage
Sensate Focus Massage
This one is a very grounded way for you to experience erotic massage. You don’t need to rush or force a climax. Just mindful, tender touch. You can start this massage session while you’re both fully clothed.
Gradually shed them and reveal your vulnerable sides. This is a great choice in reigniting your connection. And to solidify your trust in one another. Tune in and enjoy every touch. Down to earth and yet satisfying don’t you think?
Tantric Massage
Experience something from the ancient times. Tantric massage will not limit you to just physical arousal. It’s a spiritual practice that helps you channel your sexual energies. With slow, relaxed breaths, eye contact and synchronized touch, your soulful sensuality will come out.
Yoni and Lingam Massage
This is a form of a tantric massage. Yoni and Lingam mean vulva and penis. Instead of a full body erotic massage, you and your partner must focus on each other’s genitals in this specific setting. A genital massage if you will.
Give or take slow, gentle strokes on your sexual organs. Help your mind and bodies reach a place of pleasure and relaxation.If you’re a couple who wants to explore a deep layer of sensual trust, this kind of massage is for you.
Touching each other’s genitals in a very tender way will help you express sexuality without getting too intense.
Feather-Light Touch or Body Mapping
Aside from your hands, using silk and feathers will definitely bring the element of anticipation. Your nerve endings would be so excited when the next touch will arrive. Even the lightest touch can both lead you to a deep state of arousal.
Excite each other in a gentle way. Since you already have feathers or silk that turn each other on, why not include some toys? Give yourselves a helping hand with toys that can enhance your intimate moment.
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Erotic Oil Massage
The presence of oil in a massage session won’t surprise you. It helps you avoid discomfort from the friction coming from each stroke. It’s also good for your circulation and your skin. The scent will surely give you that relaxed, calm feeling.
Add a sexual twist to it and you’ve got an erotic oil massage. Think of an erotic spa experience. That’s what you and your partner can give to each other. Make the aches go away and enjoy sexual pleasure by touching those erogenous spots.
With the soothing scent of oil combined with loving rubs or touches, it’s absolute bliss right? Escape the real world for a while with erotic oil massage. Perfect example of arousal and relaxation rolled into one right?
A Couple of Tips
- Check in with your partner. Yes, you’re having a great time. But having a couple’s massage is no one-way street. Ask them what feels good or comfortable. Create a safe and warm space where you can both enjoy a relaxing sexual experience.
- Use a toy. Sex toys aren’t always about high intensity moments. Even in a softer, slower experience like an erotic massage, you can use one too! If you pick a whisper silent toy that also provides milder settings, you’d still enjoy the massage. Uninterrupted by distracting noises or shaking.
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Before You Start Your Session
A couple's erotic massage is not only a tool you can use for better sex. It’s a bridge between your bodies, minds and hearts. It’s an invitation for you to slow down. Give, receive those tender touches without feeling any guilt or shame.
You’re in a safe and relaxing space remember? No pressure at all. Just be present and enjoy each other’s touches in a sexual, emotional way. Connect with your partner. Minus the rush or high levels of intensity.
Let your libido level go up, while you’re both winding down. Isn’t that great? Go, light up that candle to set the mood. Get some oil and enjoy your delightful massage session!
