You're relaxing in the bedroom and suddenly, the temperature starts rising. No need for the fire department just yet, dear one. This ain't a literal fire. But surely, this one is going to be hot. Who do you need to bring out in navigating this scorching sexual territory? Well, one of you must play the role of the captain. Not the fire captain though. You’re not here to extinguish the fire. This one’s a mind-blowing erotic position that combines power play and pleasure into one. Whether you’re a giver or receiver, don’t forget about intention, mutual respect and the ultimate goal, pleasure.
What is the Captain Position?
Imagine the receiver lying on their back, reclined at an angle while their legs are spread and resting over the receiver. If you’re the captain of the ecstasy-inducing ship in the bedroom, you’ll be standing or kneeling. You’ll make a few adjustments depending on the height of the surface where your partner waits for you to take the lead. The surface could be a bed, the edge of a chair or a couch.
As a giver, you’ll provide pleasure from the front. This gives you the ability to control the pace or rhythm while maintaining contact with each other. This position allows you to get a sense of presence and command. Like a captain who takes the lead and guides their companion in their voyage. That explains its nice-sounding name. You’re going to take the receiver for a wild ride with each thrust or grind.
Reasons why the Captain Position is great
Intimacy
Since it’s a front-facing sex position, you and your partner would be able to enjoy sex while having eye-contact. It enhances the level of intimacy and intensity for both of you. This position also allows you to kiss each other and read reactions in real time. What a great addition to your arsenal of intimate positions if you want to strengthen your bond.
Body Friendly
Worried about low stamina and body aches? Relax and get those concerns out of your mind. The captain position will not put too much strain on your joints. You can even modify it according to you and your partner’s body type. It’s also great for different stamina levels and mobility needs. It’s so nice that this one makes everyone feel so welcome. Some minor health issues cannot stop you from having a great sexual experience.
Comfort and Control
Since this position puts minimal strain on your bodies, you’ll have more room for comfort and control. As a giver, you’re going to get more leverage in providing pleasure. While your partner plays the role of the receiver, they're able to relax by lying back to receive a very sexy, satisfying gift from you. As a captain, you’re like giving them a chance to focus on feeling and enjoying those sexy sensations.
How to do the Captain Position?
You and your partner are curious. Been wanting to spice things up with this position. If you are the captain of this private, erotic ship, stand or kneel in front of them. Do this while their legs are spread. Your partner’s widely spread legs makes it easier to access their private parts. Guide yourself inside or onto them. The way your body is positioned, it gives you a sense of control. Penetrative or not, this position would be a great option.
Let’s say you’re switching things up. You’re trying to be the receiver this time. Lie on your back and spread your legs to allow your partner in. This gives them space to pleasure you. Rest your legs against the giver’s hands. Use some pillows to prop your body up so it would be easier to access your erogenous zones down there. You can use some toys as well to enhance the sensations.
Depending on the surface, you can adjust how your bodies are positioned. You’re both allowed to reposition and change the angles so both of you are stimulated and comfortable. Don’t be afraid to do some adjustments mid-session. Comfort would be an important factor to make the experience of this position enjoyable. If you want to make things more fun, feel free to include some toys to your intimate action.
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Captain Position Variants
How about adding a nice twist to this awesome sex position? Here are a few variants that still possess the powerful yet fun elements of the original. Don’t hesitate to try them out to enhance your sexual experience. Whether you’re the one in control of this private ship or you’re the willing passenger, check these variants out.
Side-Lying Captain
Suffering from joint pains or having mobility issues? Don’t fret dear friend. Here’s a more comfortable variation of the captain sex position. In this one, you can lie on your side without losing the dynamic. Pretty similar to spooning where the receiver’s leg is raised. As a giver, you can lift or hold your partner’s top leg while thrusting or grinding gently. Make sure you’re on a soft, comfortable surface to avoid aggrevating you or your partner’s joint issues. Enjoy sex without compromising comfort.
Seated Captain
If you want to try being a captain outside the comfy space of your bed, here’s an awesome alternative to check out. Again, without sacrificing the captain and passenger dynamic. Similar to a seated cowgirl, find a firm, sturdy chair or couch to support the weight. As a giver or the captain, be the first one to sit and let your partner ride and straddle you while facing them.
Being a seated captain gives both of you the space to get closer and face each other. A great position to give and receive smooches. This upright version of the position levels up your intimacy meter. Giving the original position an exciting twist helps in making the sex act feel fresher and enjoyable. Worthy of anticipation because it prevents monotony or predicatbility.
Captain with Toys
Speaking of avoiding monotony. Imagine being a captain with a reliable utility belt. Sex toys will help you take your leadership to another level. As if you’re transforming into a bedroom superhero. Dildos and vibrators will come in handy for you as a captain and your partner. Your passenger who’s having a good time. Use a pillow to prop your partner up. Find a vibrator with cool, convenient features to make the orgasms more earth-shattering. Looking for vibrators dear captain?
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Some Pro Tips
- Get those pillows or a wedge ready to elevate your partner and make access easier. This will help in improving the angle and reduce pressure on you, the giver, the captain’s knees and thighs.
- Use your hands for added stimulation. As a captain, make your hands travel to your sex partner’s nipples, inner thighs. Or any other sensitive spot that would make your partner feel good
- Maintain eye contact. In an intimate setting, your eyes have this strong power to communicate. While doing the captain position, use eye contact and some dirty talk to make the act more intense. If you enjoy the psychological element of a dominant/submissive dynamic, the captain position and eye contact would be super perfect.
- Switch roles if you’re willing. Do you want to take a break from the responsibilities as a captain and be the passenger to pleasure island instead? Let your sex partner take the reins and commandeer the sexual ship. Reversing roles would create a balanced, give and take setting in your private playtime.
- Feel free to experiment with toys. Your bodies are usually enough to pleasure each other. But adding toys in your bedroom adventures can definitely add more thrill and creativity in doing the deed. Want to try them out?
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A Few Words Before You Set Sail
The captain sex position gives you a chance to experience grounded dominance, flexible comfort and visual connection. You don’t need to have some crazy acrobatic skills to enjoy a mind-blowing sex life. With creativity, communication and enthusiasm, your intimate moments will help you reach the wildest places. Don't be afraid to experiment while keeping consent, respect and comfort in mind. Take the lead and explore. Bon voyage to you dear captain and to your lovely passenger!
