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Backstage Pass: The Top Five Sex Positions From Behind

Hello, booty lovers! Are you ready to do things in doggy?

So, assuming you’re here because you’re tired and sick of the Missionary position, do you know that having sex from behind can feel creatively animalistic?

If you or your partner is ready to get down on all fours, then you’ll find out why rear entry sex is popular and a classic.

But before we go to these positions that you should try, let’s find out what makes them feel so amazing.

Because when it comes to the top five sex positions from behind, this guide has everything you’ll need to know—no complicated tricks.

Why Should You Try Having Sex From Behind?

The first position that might come to your mind when rear sex is mentioned is, most likely, the doggy style.

Yet, let’s admit it, things can get boring when you always do the same thing, so tasting other flavors once in a while can be nice, can’t it?

But no shade to the doggy, though. It’s awesome.

And do you know that according to BedBible, people ranked Doggy as everyone’s all-time favorite? 

Having sex from behind is great, but adding variations to it can let you and your partner adjust to what feels electrifying.

But the best part? It lets the giving partner hit all the needed buttons without any gymnast-level flexibility. They’re also perfect for that hair-pulling and spanking if you and your partner are into something kinky.

Oh, and another thing. The view is so erotic from behind that the giving partner can dominate and relish the intimacy, like in a sexy movie scene (yum!).

The Top Five Best Sex Positions From Behind

Below are the top five sex positions from behind that you can try if you want to ditch the doggy for now. We also featured some toys in each, so you can level up that spicy experience.

Ready to give your monotonous routine a new spin?

1. The Apex

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Some may consider Apex as an underrated move, but this can definitely give your partner that creative surprise.

You can treat this position as the VIP pass for a deeper intimacy. But before you jump into that deep closeness, be mindful of these things first:

  • Pick a spot where it’s stable and safe, like a chair, to support the weight of the receiving partner. Please, stay away from tables and chairs that wobble. You can also use your bed’s edge or kitchen counter.
  • The giving partner should lift the receiving partner gently to avoid any strain or unwanted accidents.
  • If the balance feels shaky, you can use a surface edge for the receiving partner’s legs to lean on, as this can give them better support.

How to Do It

  1. The receiving partner can position themselves near a sturdy surface or furniture, and then, they can lean a bit forward so they’ll be able to support their body using their arms.
  2. The other partner behind them can start to penetrate the receiving partner. And a gentle reminder: it’s best for people who receive to use their entire palms for support. 
  3. Next, the one who’s topping can lift the receiving partner by wrapping their arms around the waist, just like in the picture.
  4. For some extra safety and support, the receiving partner can wrap their legs around their partner’s torso. This step can also give the receiving partner a bit of control during penetration.

The Apex can give the receiving partner, especially if they’re vulva owners, a much deeper penetration. 

However, without stable, proper support, the person who is receiving might feel some strain, particularly in the lower back or shoulders.

Sure, this position can be quite challenging for longer sessions, but that’s the reason why you can switch to other variations!

In this position, the giving partner has the ultimate control, obviously, so why not give your all while you’re at it?

To make things hotter, a BDSM kit can make things more fun by elevating the feeling of surrender and control. This kit works best for the Apex position, much more if you include some dirty talk and verbal commands.

2. The Satyr

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Still lovin’ that booty? If you’re a giving partner who wants something that can make you feel more dominant, then the Satyr is your best bet.

This position was inspired by Greek mythology, and Satyrs are spirits of nature that seduce people because of their insatiable appetites. 

And when it comes to dominance, the person who gives has full control of every movement.

But of course, that doesn’t mean that the giving partner will be passive. They can also slightly control the movements just by swinging back and forth, using their arms.

How to Do It

  1. First, find a stable surface that matches the height of the receiving partner’s waist, like a table or chair (if you like some support).
  2. Next, the partner who receives can position themselves by stretching their arms and bending their knees on the surface. They should use their knees and palms like doing an all fours.
  3. Doing this will give the receiving partner’s butt a raise, so the other partner can penetrate them from behind.
  4. For better results, the partner who gives can step over the receiving partner’s legs to give them room for movement.

Tips for Safety

  • Pick a sturdy surface that can give you better support and alignment.
  • Please use controlled movements when adjusting angles.
  • Communicate constantly to make things consistently comfortable.

The Satyr is a great choice if you want anal or vaginal stimulation—or both! 

So, if you’re the giving partner, and to make things work better and easier for you, making your partner with a vulva use a wearable vibrator can cut your work in half.

3. The Pump Sex

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Another one on the list of the top five exciting sex positions from behind is the Pump Sex. 

When doing this one, it can be a great opportunity for receiving partners to take control of the action. Just make sure you can find a stable chair or sofa to support the squatting.

It was literally named the Pump because the person who receives it does the “pumping action” while being inserted from behind. 

How to Do It

  1. To start things, the person who receives it can position themselves by bending their legs in front of a couch or chair.
  2. The receiving partner can put their hands on the surface to help them support their weight.
  3. While squatting, the giving partner can insert their thing from behind to start the action.
  4. Then, the partner who gives can start moving, or the receiving partner can do the pumping while squatting.

A Few Protips

  • Build the muscles that you need when squatting by exercising.
  • Listen to your body, as the pumping motion can be exhausting. You both better stop once any strain or discomfort arises.

This position is great for anal or regular vaginal sex, but since the receiving partner puts their hands on the deck to support themselves, there aren’t many options available for some stimulation.

So, why not get the help of cock rings to do the trick? These wearable, hands-free items can help both partners stimulate each other without any interruptions.

And while you’re at it, why not give your partner some dirty talk as well? This Dirty Talk Guide from Bad Girls Bible can surely help you supercharge your sex game.


4. The Chairperson

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Looking for another position that can give better control? The Chairperson sex position is one of the most intimate positions on the list to help you with that.

How to Do It

  1. To begin, the person who gives can sit on the comfortable surface, just like a bed or couch, and they should position themselves on the edge.
  2. Next, the partner who receives it can start sitting on the other’s lap, while they face away, to start the penetration.
  3. While the partner who receives is in control, the partner who gives can stimulate the erogenous zones to make things hotter.

Some Tips For You

  • Choose a comfortable seat and make use of eye contact.
  • You can switch up the pace from vigorous to slow and sensual to keep it playful.
  • Add sensory play by using feathers, oils, or ice cubes on accessible areas to feel more connected and stimulated.
  • Also, try to experiment using leg placement. The partner who gives can wrap their arms around their partner’s waist, while the receiving partner keeps their feet on the floor. As this can give them a varied sensation and control.

Why It’s Sexy and Hot:

  • Because you sit together too close, it’s easier to kiss your partner or whisper in their ears.
  • You and your partner’s hands are free to do anything. You can grab or squeeze whatever is within reach. For this part, you can incorporate some toys like the rabbit vibrator to stimulate and reach farther into that feel-good zone.
  • This very chill position will also allow you to better communicate and offer control for the one who receives.
  • And lastly, since the partner who receives it is sitting, they can feel things more deeply during penetration.

When doing the Chairperson sex position, you can say to your partner what feels good and talk about your fantasies.

5. The Brute

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Looking for a challenge? From the name itself, this next position can make the giving partner feel more dominant, and it can also be one of the most challenging and unusual sex positions to do.

The Brute can pretty much work like the Amazon position but in reverse: the giver is on top, while the partner who receives lies on their back. 

How to Do It

  1. To get into the position, the partner who’ll receive it can start lying comfortably on their back, while their knees are positioned against their chest.
  2. The giving partner then can stand in front with their back against their partner.
  3. The giving partner will also straddle their partner’s hips so they can squat slowly to enter them.
  4. The topping partner will start to squat up and down.

But before you try doing this position, please be careful when getting into it or during the initial penetration.

Pushing the penis quite fast downwards can put a lot of pressure on both genitals, which can cause pain or even an injured junk (yikes!).

So, please be mindful when you decide to incorporate this position into your lovemaking. As for giving partners, you don’t have to do much.

But you can always put your feet in your partner’s armpits to push your partner up in case of emergencies.

Other Tips

  • Please avoid excessive squeezing on the thighs, as this may cause some discomfort.
  • For starters, it’s best to consider short sessions and practice the position first.
  • Use aftercare after intense sessions, like cuddling, touching, or giving each other massages.

When doing the Brute position, your mind might focus more on the safety and precautions to prevent unwanted mishaps. So, why not add another stimulation that doesn’t need any attention from you?

These durable and functional nipple clamps can help stimulate those other zones that are usually left out when doing the Brute. It can do the sucking, clamping, and vibrating for you!

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Tonight, Rock That Wild Sex Position From Behind!

Ready to take some action to do the top five sex positions from behind? Tonight you can unleash that confidence and passion by rocking these featured sex positions.

Just remember to keep things on the safe side by starting it slow and asking for consent, of course. 

Do you want to make things more pleasurable? Then, you better visit BeYourLover now to make your backstage pass a more thrilling experience!

Sexologist

Liz B.

Liz has always been passionate about helping people with intimacy, relationships, and personal well-being. She finds joy in creating a judgment-free space where her readers can feel informed, comfortable, and confident in their own skin. Professionally, Liz has been a writer for over 12 years. In her free time, you’ll find her in a martial arts class or swimming lesson. She is also on her way to becoming a wellness instructor. When she is not on the move, she enjoys reading or listening to self-help, romance, and sci-fi books, or learning new skills just for fun.