Have you ever heard of the Amazon sex position? It’s one of the most unique bedroom moves out there. With the top partner in a squatting position facing the bottom partner, it combines power play and intimacy.
But beware, it’s not for everyone.
When done right, it can be pleasurable, intimate, orgasmic, and even empowering to the vulva owners out there. But it doesn’t mean that you just jump into it without some knowledge and precautions.
But I know you’re looking for a way to spice things up in your bedroom without settling for another round of missionary. So here’s your no-BS guide to doing the Amazon sex position right.
What Is the Amazon Sex Position?
According to a study in 2020 with over 21,000 participants, face-to-face sex positions, especially those with the female on top, were associated with higher rates of female orgasm.
And the Amazon is one of the most unique sex positions that you can try if you’re looking for a vulva-on-top dynamic and want to spice things up in bed.
Why is it unique? It’s commonly described as a position performed by partners with a penis and a vulva, where the partner with a vulva takes the dominant role by squatting on top. It’s like a reversed missionary, same intimacy but flipped power dynamic.
But no matter what your gender is, you and your partner can add this position to your bedroom lineup.
To get into this position, the bottom partner lies on their back with their knees bent and pulled towards their chest. While the lying partner doesn’t need to do much work, this pose requires flexibility, especially the ability to comfortably hold that knee-to-chest position.
And if they have a penis, it needs to be able to maintain the right angle for penetration.
The top partner squats down over the bottom partner, receiving the penis or the dildo and begins bouncing up and down to do the deed.
How to Be a Pro in the Amazon Sex Position
Even if it’s your first time trying this position, you can pull it off like a pro by doing the following:
Set the Mood
First of all, set the vibe for your intimate session. Clean the room, because nothing kills the mood like dirty socks on the floor. Dim the lights, play some music, and if you’re both into it, watch or listen to a little erotica together to get things going.
Be Comfortable in the Position
The Amazon can be a physically demanding position for both partners. For the top partner, squatting for long periods can be tough. To make it easier, try leaning on your partner’s thighs to take some pressure off your legs.
Also, make sure you’re in the right position before you take your partner’s penis or dildo inside you. Be gentle and check how they’re feeling.
Communicate With Your Partner
Because it’s a challenging position, ensure that you’re both up for it. Talk beforehand about how you want it to go, what feels good, and what doesn’t. Having a safe word is also a great ideal, just in case things get too intense.
Talk Dirty
But the good thing about the Amazon position is that you and your partner are face-to-face. A little dirty talk can turn up the heat and take the focus off the physical strain by keeping your connection front and center.
Be Mindful of Your Partner
Ok, so you’re in charge, but that doesn’t mean you should do whatever you want without checking in. This position can be risky for the bottom partner, especially if they have a penis.
If you’re not careful, there’s a real chance of causing pain or even injury (yep, we’re talking about the dreaded penile fracture). So keep it hot, but safe. Check in often and make sure your partner is comfortable throughout.
4 Tips to Get the Best Experience in the Amazon Sex Position
Now, it’s time to make the most of the experience, because pleasure is the ultimate goal. And here’s how to take your Amazon sex to the next level:
Enhance Your Experience With Toys
Even though you’re face to face, you can crank up the heat of the moment and pleasure by adding the right toys. For the bottom partner, try BeYourLover’s Usagi. It is remote-controlled, allowing you to switch up the settings without any disruption.
For the top partner, you can use the Earpod Alggie suction toy. It is small enough to stay out of the way, but strong enough to bring you a mind-blowing orgasm.
Lean More Over Your Partner
If you want to try this position but make it more comfortable for the bottom partner, lean your body closer over them. This helps reduce the pressure on their penis and can make the angle more manageable for both of you.
Use Lube
Lube is a must. It reduces friction on the penis (or dildo), which helps lower the risk of discomfort or injury, especially in a position with unique angles as this one.
Try the Other Amazon Sex Variations
Want to switch things up or need a slightly easier version? Here are two Amazon sex position variations worth trying:
Kneeling
Instead of squatting, the top partner kneels on either side of the bottom partner’s hips. It’s a small adjustment, but it changes the angle and creates a different kind of sensation.
Reverse
In this version, the top partner faces away from the bottom partner, squatting with their back turned. The bottom partner stays in the same knee-to-chest position. This variation reduces pressure on the penis and works great for anal play, too.
Who Will Love the Amazon Sex Position
As mentioned, Amazon sex isn’t for everyone. But if you check the box no. 1, it might just become your new favorite.
1. You’re Flexible and Strong
This position requires strong legs for squatting and enough flexibility to hug your knees close to your chest. And if your partner has a penis, it needs to hold up (literally) at a pretty steep angle, so stamina and support matter on both sides.
2. You Want to Be in Control
If you’re curious about dominance and submission, the Amazon is a great position to explore that dynamic. The top partner runs the show, doing the work and setting the pace.
Just remember that being in control also means being responsible. Always check in with your partner to make sure they’re safe and comfortable.
3. You Crave Intimacy
The Amazon might look intense, but it's also surprisingly intimate. You're face-to-face the entire time, with full access to eye contact, moans, and sexy facial expressions.
According to studies, positions like this, where the vulva-owner is on top, are more likely to result in orgasm, so it’s the physical angle, the emotional closeness, and even the danger.
4. Wants to Try Something New
This isn’t your average cowgirl. The Amazon is unique and definitely not the go-to kind for most couples, but this is what makes it exciting. If you’re strong or flexible enough to handle this, it’s a nice addition to your bedroom bucket list.
Positions Similar to Amazon Sex Position
Are you looking for something as intimate or maybe as unique as the Amazon? Here are some sex positions worth trying:
Asian Cowgirl
If you have a vagina and want to be in the top position without putting too much strain on your partner’s penis (if they have one), the cowgirl variation is a great choice.
In this position, the top partner, usually the one with a vagina, straddles the bottom partner, who lies flat on their back. The top squats with their legs on either side of their partner and can support themselves using their hands on their partner’s thighs.
The bottom lies with their legs stretched out.
Brute
This position is almost the opposite of the Amazon. Here, the partner with a vagina is in the bottom position, while the top partner, usually the one with a penis, kneels and straddles their partner’s hips, facing away.
Like the Amazon, it’s a risky move for the penis due to the angle and pressure, but if both partners are up for something exotic, it’s one to try.
Why Try a New Position
Sure, you can technically “do the job” and keep the species alive in any position, doggy, missionary, whatever. But if sex is just about getting it over with, what’s the fun in that?
We don’t want it to feel like an obligation. We want it to feel good.
According to national survey data, sexually satisfied partners are more likely to express desire, feel more connected, achieve orgasm, and experience greater affection even outside of sex. One proven way to boost that satisfaction? Try something new in bed.
Explore. Experiment. Find what feels good for both of you.
And while you’re at it, don’t stop at new positions. Add a little spice with sexy lingerie or a toy that hits just right. Start your sexual exploration with your partner by finding the perfect toy for both of you. Visit BeYourLover today.
