Do you feel the need to shake up your love life? Then these 20 weird sex positions will surely break all the rules to give you some excitement you’ve never had before.
If you think you’ve tried every sex move, you better think again. Because some of these positions will surprise you or even challenge you.
So, whether you want to fuel that passion or get physically connected with your partner more, these 20 weird sex positions will redefine your meaning of pleasure.
How These 20 Weird Sex Positions Can Raise Your Game
Adding something unusual to your bedroom routine can do wonders. It can even increase the quality of sex for a healthier relationship, according to an article from Men’s Clinic International.
Trying new sex positions can also help people with penises to last longer in bed, and for folks who always finish early, switching things up can also help prevent premature ejaculation from happening.
Here’s why trying challenging positions, although some of them may come off as weird, can be a win-win:
- Helps improve intimacy and physical connection
- Allows better access to those pleasure spots
- Promotes trust and communication between couples
- Breaks the usual routine and prevents boredom
- Offers a great chance to release those feel-good hormones, like dopamine and oxytocin
- Trying something new encourages consent
The Top 20 Weird Sex Positions for the Bold
Are you ready to push those boundaries and be daring? Then, you better gear up, because these 20 weird sex positions will give you that pure ecstasy.
1. Butter Churner
This first position on the list requires flexibility from the receiving partner and would be easy for people who are into yoga.
The butter churner was also inspired by the traditional churn machine, which uses a paddle to create butter by “pounding.” But in this case, the giving partner will pound the receiving partner to achieve the big O.
How to Do It
- The receiver lies comfortably on their back first, then they can lift their legs up in the air.
- The giving partner can help the receiver by holding their ankles.
- Next, the giving partner can start to penetrate, and because this can leave the receiving partner feeling so exposed, it makes things hotter.
Protips
- The receiving partner can use pillows for some cushioning under the neck.
- This position can be physically demanding, so it’s advised to take breaks or switch to easier variations if needed.
2. Bouncing Babe
Do you have a fitness ball at your home you rarely use? If you have it on hand, then you should try this one out.
The bouncing babe will work best for fit couples, because core strength is going to be the foundation of the game.
How to Do It
- Once the fitness ball is ready, the receiving partner can position themselves by putting their tummy against the ball. A chair can also be placed in front to have something to hold on to.
- The giving partner can position themselves right at the back to straddle and penetrate the receiver via the anus or vagina.
Protips
- Take advantage of the bouncing action of the ball to feel a different way of pleasure.
- Be mindful of balance, as the sudden rolling of the ball might cause some mishaps.
- Because both partners use their hands for support, cock rings can do some magic during this position. It’s hands-free but powerful enough to stimulate both partners.
3. Chair-y On Top
This next position is quite easier; all you need are two sturdy chairs with the same height that can face each other.
How to Do It
- Get two chairs where you and your partner can sit, and put them close together.
- After sitting and facing each other, the receiving partner can spread their legs wide.
- The giving partner on the other chair can now position for penetration. Do the necessary adjustments to keep things reachable and comfortable.
Protip
- To further enhance these sensations, why not use nipple clamps? As this toy is self-sucking and vibrating, it will allow your hands to go where they should.
4. Golden Arch
The golden arch is an awesome position to do if you want to see each other’s faces and bodies, and things will feel more intimate.
If you or your partner has a large pecker, this position will also give the receiver better control of the penetration.
How to Do It
- Both partners can start sitting and face each other with legs straight.
- The receiving partner can have their legs comfortably placed on top of the giver.
- After the penetration, they both can lean back, support their bodies using their arms, and let the pleasure begin.
Protip
- Do the deed on a matted but firm surface to reduce fatigue and prevent straining the wrists.
5. Stand and Deliver
This next position on the list will require nothing but balance.
The stand and deliver position is best for givers who are leaning on the smaller side; because of the receiver’s closed legs, it makes the penetration feel much fuller.
How to Do It
- Both partners should stand. Next, the receiving partner should bend forward as low as possible.
- The giving partner starts to enter them from behind while holding their wrists for extra support.
Protips
- To make things hotter, you can take this position while in the shower.
- Clear away any clutter or safety hazards nearby, as this position involves bending forward, and there’s a risk of hitting your head.
6. Valedictorian
If you have good hip mobility and flexibility, the valedictorian is the boss.
It makes the receiving partner feel exposed and offers a tight experience for both.
How to Do It
- To begin, the receiver can lie down on a soft surface, missionary style.
- The giving partner can position themselves by going on their knees and using their heels for support.
- The receiving partner can now raise their legs up toward their chest while the other partner enters.
Protips
- You can use a mirror to watch yourselves immerse into action.
- To keep things steamy and steady, you can use BDSM kits to hold those legs using restraints. You can also tie those ankles to the bed to create a starfish shape for better exposure.
7. Sultry Hill
Are you the type of partner who always seeks challenges? Then, the sultry hill will keep your blood rushing.
But before trying this one out, make sure you can do a stable headstand in a short while, but do you know that practicing headstands can also offer lots of benefits?
As stated by Lisa Mitchell of MindBodyGreen, headstands can improve circulation, elevate your mood, and even prevent hair loss. That’s a whole lot of perks!
How to Do It
- First, the giving partner can do a headstand with the help of a wall.
- Next, the receiver can position right next to the giver while facing the wall.
- Then, they should spread their legs so the other will access the anus or vagina much easier.
Protips
- Please opt for a soft and non-slip surface when doing headstands to help protect your scalp.
- Make sure to use plenty of lube, since movements during this position can be harder to control.
8. Cross Booty
If you want to feel your partner’s body in motion, then this next position is for you. The receiver can also give leg or butt massages for their partner during the cross booty position.
How to Do It
- The couple can start by doing the missionary position, and the giver will penetrate the receiver like usual.
- Next, the giver can slide their legs and chest away from the receiving partner so they can form an “X position” together.
Protips
- Be cautious when moving positions, as this position might require a flexible penis.
- Take advantage of the moment to stimulate the different parts of the vaginal walls.
9. Standing Wheelbarrow
You can think of the standing wheelbarrow as the downward dog variation but with more depth.
How to Do It
- The receiver can position themselves in a downward dog yoga position.
- Then, the giver can grab their partner’s legs to give them support, while the receiver wraps their legs around their partner’s waist for stability.
- The giver starts to enter the receiving partner while holding them up.
Protips
- If the pressure is too much for the receiver, they can use a bed or cushioned table to rest their upper body.
- You can make things better by giving lower back kisses or spanking.
10. Snow Angel
The name may sound innocent, but this naughty position is best if you want to give your partner’s clit some little grinding.
How to Do It
- The receiving partner can lie on their back, while the giver can lie on top of them in a prone position, in an opposite direction.
- Once penetration is established, the receiving partner can grab their partner’s butt to give it a slide up and back.
Protip
- From the receiver’s point of view, this is a great position if they want to give their partner some anal stimulation.
11. Ballerina
The ballerina is your choice if you want to make things more intimate, but it may require flexibility from the receiver on top of balance.
How to Do It
- Standing straight, the couple can position themselves by facing each other.
- Next, the receiver can raise one leg upward while the giver supports it using their shoulder.
- After raising the receiver’s leg, the giver can start to penetrate either the anus or vagina.
Protip
- If the couple is doing anal, a wearable clitoral vibrator can make those moments more intimate without lifting a finger.
12. Intersection
Want something more simple but unusual? Then, this next position is your typical missionary, but from a new angle!
How to Do It
- First, the couple can lie on their sides.
- Next, the receiver can lie comfortably while spreading their legs.
- To make things different, the giving partner should lie horizontally while the receiver is vertical.
Protip
- The receiver can lie with their head on a pillow for comfort. They can also rest their legs at the top of the giving partner’s legs for better and deeper penetration.
13. Butterfly
The butterfly can be hella challenging, but this weird positions list will never be complete without it!
How to Do It
- The giver must stand straight while they lift the receiving partner with spread legs.
- Afterward, the receiver can put their arm into their partner’s shoulder for support.
- After the positioning, they can now both grind each other or thrust their genitals.
Protips
- The butterfly is another great position to do in front of the mirror.
- To add more teasing, you can use wearable nipple massagers to make it more fun.
14. Chair 69
The 69 is a classic sex position. But doing it with a single chair? Then, that makes it a weird variation.
How to Do It
- The giving partner can start by sitting with their back against a chair.
- Next, the receiver can position themselves by doing a “headstand” on the chair, so their genitals will be on the same level as their faces.
- Once positioned, the couple can start giving each other some oral action.
Protips
- If you’re new to 69, it’s advisable to learn the easier variations first.
- You can opt for a cushioned chair for better pelvic and head support.
15. Rock Stand
Another position to offer the giving partner a challenge is the rock stand, and this can be so electrifying when done properly.
How to Do It
- To begin, the giver can position themselves upside down with their back against the wall.
- After that, the receiver can face their partner while spreading their legs.
- After getting into position, the receiving partner can start gliding on their partner’s pole to do the deed.
Protip
- Since this position is physically demanding, it’s best to work on your core and shoulder muscles first before any attempts.
16. Giraffe
Some of you might be surprised and ask… “What the heck is this pretzel-like position?!”
Believe us, we understand this can be a bit much. But if you've always been into 'weird,' then you must check this one out.
How to Do It
- To do the giraffe, first, the giver will just simply stand.
- Next, the receiver will stand beside them in a bridge-shaped position, like in the illustration.
- With one foot on the ground and another in the air, their arms will support their body.
- The giver can either thrust or give oral sex to the receiver.
Protip
- Before anything else, it’s advised to have some stretching first. Please skip this position if you’re not flexible or have back issues.
17. Stand and Suck
Another upside-down position on the list is the stand and suck. But instead of penetration, this one’s entirely oral.
How to Do It
- The partner who will receive it should stand on their head using their arms for support. Their legs should also press together.
- The giver kneels to grab their partner’s body to support them while performing oral sex.
Protip
- While giving your partner some oral, you can also add wearable vibrators into play to add some naughtiness, and we guarantee you, it’ll be more fun!
18. Dolphin
Want something weird but easy? Then, the dolphin position is worth the shot.
How to Do It
- The receiver can lean in front of the giver first, like in doggy style.
- Next, the receiving partner can start to wrap their one leg on their partner’s waist.
- After that, the couple can now engage in penetrative action.
Protip
- Both partners should stand on tiptoes with bent knees to find the best angle.
- When doing the dolphin, penis rings are a great addition if you want to stimulate the clitoris while thrusting.
19. Mermaid
Another sea creature on this odd list is the mermaid. It’s like a variation of Supergirl but comes with more support.
How to Do It
- The giver stands with bent knees and feet together. Then, the receiver can position their back against their partner.
- The giver lifts the receiver by holding their tummy and penetrates them from behind.
Protip
- The receiving partner can wrap their legs around the giver’s buttocks and lock their arms in their partner’s waist for better support.
20. Snake
Last but not least on this weird list, it’s the standing 69 variation, the snake!
How to Do It
- The giving partner can stand up while the other does a headstand.
- Next, while facing the same direction, the giver will lift their partner until their face aligns with the genital area.
- Afterward, both partners can start to suck and nibble each other through oral.
Protip
- For added protection, place a mat or cushion under the receiver’s head to keep things on the safe side.
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