Oral sex is one of the most pleasurable and intimate experiences that you can give to your partner. Because it can make the connection deeper as a couple, it can increase trust to keep that romantic spark alive.
This activity, once done in a safe place and a consensual way can also help create a sense of vulnerability–by allowing both people to explore each other’s bodies and pleasure points.
Why not use these 10 best oral sex positions to enhance that appetite-fulfilling experience in the bedroom tonight?
Pussy Licking
The Pussy Licking position is the best position to give you a better view of your partner in glory.
You can do this by getting on your knees, while your partner lies back against the couch.
Your partner’s legs and knees should be bent for access–while the thighs are on the seat, the other one is lifted.
You can kneel on the floor in front of the genitals to lick it.
The Venus Flytrap
You can compare a person’s genital to a Venus flytrap–as it’s beautiful, mysterious, and attractive. To appreciate more of your partner’s scent, you can make your partner lie on a couch, while buttocks are raised using the armrest. Your partner can also reach the armrest for a slight body lift, and bending the legs in the air.
You can kneel in front of your partner so your face can reach the genitals, while you can ask your partner’s hand to caress yours.
The Butler
For first timers, this can be an odd position. However, this oral sex position can be a fun addition to your bedroom activity when done correctly. It allows your partner to be in control while doing a headstand, while the back of the couch offers bodily support.
While your partner’s knees pressing the chest, and toes touching the seat, you can sit on the sofa’s armrest. Then, lean towards your partner’s genitals to give an orgasm using either your finger or your tongue.
Weird Fantasy
You can turn your own fantasy into reality once you incorporate this position in the bedroom. Do this by allowing your partner to kneel on a sturdy chair. Then, get your partner to grab the chair’s back while your partner’s upper body tilting forward.
Stand beside your partner, and using your hands, open the buttocks and lower your face to suck the anus or genitals.
The Insatiable
This is a great position if you want your partner to be in control of oral sex. You can start by lying on your back, while letting your partner position on top of you.
Get your partner’s pelvis placed on top of your face, so your partner can thrust or rock to reach an orgasm. You can also grab and guide your partner’s buttocks for a better placement.
The Pearl
This oral sex position can bring your partner to that elevated feeling, even before reaching an orgasm. First, place your knee almost on the edge of the couch, then, place your other leg on the floor for support. Lean down while supporting your partner’s body who lies on the floor, next to the couch.
While your partner’s head and hands are on the floor, lift your partner’s buttocks and spread the legs apart.
Hot Carl
In this oral sex position, you can freely indulge in kissing your partner’s buttocks or genitals for more anticipation–to increase pleasure build up. You can sit on the sofa with a curled leg, while your partner stands on the sofa–bending downwards.
This position can give you a better view of your partner’s genitals that you can kiss and lick freely.
The Source
This position can allow your partner to lie down and relax, while you’re doing all the work and giving pleasure. All your partner has to do is lie down on a bed or couch–with legs hanging off the bed.
Next, spread your partner’s legs and put your hands on both sides of your partner’s hip. Lean to position your face on your partner’s genitals to climax.
The Licking Master
Incorporating tongue work during oral sex is enough for your partner to go crazy. The Licking Master position can add a new twist in the bedroom by making your partner sit on the edge of the chair, while an elbow and hand supports the body.
Moreover, while your partner’s body is tilted back, get your knees on the floor, and spread your partner’s legs by lifting it upwards. This position is comfortable for your partner, but can also give you a better access and view of the genitals.
New 69 on the Chair
The New 69 on the Chair oral sex position takes 69 on a new level. This new position, using a chair, allows you and your partner to give and receive oral sex–but with a challenge.
You or your partner can lie against the chair, while the other bends over at the top. Place your genitals against your partner’s face, and vice versa. You can support each other by holding onto your torsos, and bury your face–on both genitals at the same time–to give each other pleasure.
Enhance the Experience with Oral Sex Toys
These toys are designed to increase your and your partner’s satisfaction in the bedroom–especially when you’re trying to explore each other’s pleasure spots. Here are some oral sex toys you can try designed to stimulate those sensitive areas:
BeYourLover Fatima
The BeYourLover Fatima has strong suction modes, 10 powerful vibration modes, and 7 mighty thrust modes to satisfy your partner’s need all night long.
The detachable design also allows many combinations–suction, thrusting, and heating–to prolong your erotic nights. The ergonomic design is also ideal to reach those spots for an intense climax during oral sex.
BeYourLover Magic Suitcase
Another sex toy on the list is the BeYourLover Magic Suitcase, that has a dual functionality–combining both suction and vibration during oral sex. The intensity is also customizable according to your preference, with a smartphone app control.
This sex toy also comes in a cute, mini suitcase container so hygiene will always be guaranteed. The BeYourLover Magic Suitcase is great for couples who are always on the go–so you can play anytime, anywhere.
BeYourLover Heart
This heart-themed sex toy can enhance your oral sex experience with suction and licking sensations. The BeYourLover Heart is also a great toy addition during oral sex because of its natural, tongue-like movements. For instance, it can do all the licking for you, while you’re busy sucking.
Made from safe materials, its compact design lets you take it anywhere. Because it’s aesthetic looking and heart-shaped, this toy can be the perfect gift for Valentine's day–for your partner or even for yourself.
Final Thoughts - Oral Sex Positions Can Help Improve Pleasure and Intimacy
The different oral sex positions mentioned earlier can give you and your partner a new perspective. These positions can add variety, or even new experiences so couples will get closer more than ever.
Using sex toys during oral play can also help take things to a whole new level–by adding more thrill through suctioning and vibrating to heighten the sensitivity. You and your partner’s pleasure and intimacy will always rely on open communication, mutual consent, and techniques. This practice can result in your relationship always being fresh and exciting.
