We use the sounds coming from our mouths in expressing different emotions. It’s no different when it comes to bedroom scenarios. During intimate moments, you make your passion and pleasure heard by moaning. Moans make sexual encounters feel more intimate. It’s a way to communicate how good you’re feeling. It’s like erotic music to a couple’s ears. But if there’s one thing you’ll notice about guys. They do heavy breathing. But most of them do not moan. You probably want to pleasure him and make him express arousal sonically. Let’s find out how to make your partner moan in bed.
Why Men Don't Moan That Much?
You’re probably aware that men were taught at a very young age to have this stoic demeanor. Not show too much emotion. Except for a lil bit of delight or anger. Sadness and other more vulnerable emotions are usually bottled up inside. Society has conditioned them to look unfazed to look more masculine. But you’re one of those sensitive souls who recognize that guys, including your partner, are human with feelings too. With different needs and levels of sensitivity. Now it’s your quest to bring out that sensitive side from your partner.
You’re going to witness that this kind of social conditioning is bleeding into your private playtime. It’s not a major issue most of the time right? But you want to make your partner more expressive. So your bond would be stronger and safer. Aside from some controlled grunts and heavy breathing, moaning is not a part of your partner’s sexual vocabulary. You know that he felt good about making you moan in bed. You want to return the favor. So you’ll be able to hear him having a wonderful time while you give him pleasure.
Make Your Intentions Known
You’re like giving him an opportunity to experience intimacy from a different angle. So before you begin to unleash your powers to make your partner moan, inform him first about your intentions. Communication is very important in your relationship. Especially in tender or intimate ones. To avoid seeing the look of bewilderment from your partner, make your intentions known.
It’s alright to not make everything a surprise. Allow your favorite person to be surprised at himself once you cast a moan-inducing spell on him. You’re adding a new trick to your erotic arsenal. When things are getting hot and heavy, give him a heads up. So you can gauge if he would be comfortable with it. Intimacy should be a safe , non-judgemental space for both of you.
Lead by Example
Now that you're in the bedroom for some fun and sexy time, let your partner give you pleasure. Guide his hands and mouth to your most sensitive areas. When you start to feel so good from the arousal, express your joy with moans. This is a win-win technique. You are getting a lot of stimulation. Your partner will also be so eager to give you more by hearing those irresistible moans from you.
This way, you’re getting the point across that he's in a safe, comfortable and non-judgemental space. Because you are expressing yourself freely without inhibition. When it's time for some old-fashioned penetration, let those moans motivate him to just enjoy the sexual rhythm with you. An erotic dance if you will. Make sure that you're both in a good position and frame of mind while doing the deed. So both of you can have a great time making and hearing those moans.
Make Your Hands and Mouth Work
It's time for your hands and mouth to do some moan-inducing magic tricks. Getting a handjob or blowjob is a common sexual fantasy for penis owners out there. So let your sexy arsenal shine by giving your partner a mind-blowing handjob or blowjob. Get some lube ready if your partner wants a wet and wild session. But if he prefers the friction between his penis and your hands, that's fine as well.
You can moist his tool up with your mouth by giving him a blowjob. Play with his testicles too while you're at it. Now that you're busy giving him pleasure, express your joy by moaning as well. While you're caressing, sucking and kissing his private part. Your moans will encourage him to turn his heavy breathing into moans. Some eye contact would be a nice touch. Give him a wink to express playfulness. That would make him smile at your enthusiasm to please.
Take Him to the Edge
To the edge of pleasure alright? Not the edge of a cliff. Because that would be cruel and dangerous. Anyway, back to the bedroom or wherever you want to make your partner moan. While you're busy caressing, jerking, sucking his privates, you can try applying the edging technique. Edging is abruptly stopping your stimulating acts before your partner reaches orgasm. It creates this more intense feeling of anticipation and would surely make him moan during your intimate playtime. You can go fast or slow.
Observe his expression and reaction to every stroke, suck, kiss or lick. The heavy breaths will turn into moans and when he's almost at the peak of ecstasy, stop. You can do this multiple times to create this kind of tension. But maybe avoid overdoing it so he won't get frustrated and unintentionally kill the mood. So the best thing to do here is communicate. Let him tell you that he wanted to come after some edging attempts. By this point, he surely moaned a lot already. Or before reaching orgasm. You can proceed with toys or some good old fashioned coitus. Penetration. Use some lube if he prefers it. Speaking of toys…
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Moaning Session with Toys
Spice up your bedroom adventure with some adult toys. Sex toys can make things more interesting. Adding them into your moan-inducing arsenal would be a very lovely, sexy idea. Aside from the orifices of your body, sex toys can open more possibilities in your intimate moments. Make your partner's kinkiest dreams come true with these fantastic items. Think of them as assistants. Pleasure assistants if you will.
The different types and settings that these hot things offer would surely bring unbelievable sensations to you and your partner. And while you're playing the role of a smooth sex toy operator. Do some moaning as well. Encourage your partner to do the same. Tell him not to hold himself back if he's really having a fun time during your sexy playtime. Ready to make your partner moan in ecstasy? Make sure to include some toys. Where? You might ask.
