Surprising, isn’t it? There are a lot of reasons why. It could be cultural or religious, tied to stigma, or maybe because hands have always just gotten the job done.

But where’s the fun in that?

If you’re one of the guys who’s tired of fapping with your hand, but not quite ready to drop cash on a commercial sex toy, this article is for you. 

You’re about to learn how to make a homemade sex toy for men that feels good.

9 Easy DIY Sex Toy Ideas for Men

“Honestly, I've played around with homemade male sex toys, and while it's fun experiment, nothing really beats the feel of the best pocket pussy. Like, those things are built to hit all the right spots with zero guesswork - hard to compete with that.” - NauticalAgriculture

Now let’s get to the meaty part (pun intended). These are the best easy-to-make DIY sex toys for men, go-tos when you’re really horny and want to get off fast. 

1. Plushie Sex Toy

Materials:

• A plushie
• Latex glove

How To:

1. Carve an entry through the plushie’s widest part (usually the bottom of a teddy bear).
2. Line the inside with a latex glove.

2. Pringles Pocket Pussy

Materials:

• An empty can of Pringles
• 2 Sponges
• Latex glove
• Tape
• Cutter

How To:

1. Poke a pea-sized hole in the bottom of the can (for airflow).
2. Place the latex glove between the two sponges.
3. Insert the sponges into the can, making sure about 1 inch of the glove and sponge stick out of the opening.
4. Stretch the glove cuff over the sponge until it reaches the can’s rim.
5. Secure with tape. 

3. Face Towel Pocket Pussy

Materials:

• A face towel
• Lubricant
• Elastic bands
• Latex glove 
• Candle or any dick-sized object (optional for shaping)

How To:

1. Fold the towel in half to match your desired width.
2. Line up the latex glove and shaping object at one end—remember where the glove cuff sits.
3. Roll the towel into a cylinder, keeping the glove and object centered.
4. Secure the far end (opposite the cuff) with an elastic band.
5. Remove the shaping object.
6. Stretch the glove cuff over the top and secure it with another elastic band. 
7. Watch how it’s done: 

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4.  Balloon Pocket Pussy

Materials:

• 4 small balloons
• Cup
• Latex glove
• Tape

How To:

1. Inflate each balloon slightly.
2. Place the four balloons inside the cup.
3. Insert the latex glove into the center with about ½ inch of the cuff exposed.
4. Inflate the balloons fully.
5. Tape the balloon openings securely to the cup rim.
6. Stretch the glove cuff over the balloons and secure with more tape.

5. Sock Pocket Pussy

Materials:

• A pair of socks
• Elastic bands
• Latex glove

How To:

1. Stuff one sock inside the other.
2. Insert the latex glove into the sock tunnel.
3. Stretch the glove cuff over the sock opening.
4. Secure with an elastic band.

6. Cantaloupe

Materials:

• Cantaloupe
• Apple corer/power drill with hole saw bit / paring knife or anything that can drill a hole through a cantaloupe

How To:

1. Drill a hole into the cantaloupe that matches your penis length and girth.

7. Ice Pack Gel Tube 

Materials:

• 2  gel ice packs
• Elastic band
• Latex glove

How To:

1. Place the latex glove between the two gel packs.
2. Secure one end with a rubber band.
3. Heat or chill the gel packs with warm or cold water, depending on what kind of sensation you want.

8. Watermelon Pussy

Materials:

• ½ of a watermelon
• Scooper 

How To:

1. Scoop out the center of the watermelon until the cavity is deep and wide enough to accommodate your penis.

9. Nerf Football Masturbator

Materials:

• Nerf football
• Latex glove
• Cutter
• Tape

How To:

1. Slice off one of the pointed ends of the football.
2. Dig into the foam with your fingers to form a hole.
3. Insert the cutter and rotate to widen and smooth it out.
4. Push the glove into the hole.
5. Stretch the cuff over the edge and tape it securely.

Advanced Homemade Sex Toys for Men

These DIY sex toys might take more time to make, but that doesn’t mean they’re out of reach. Like the old saying goes: the things that take effort are usually the ones most worth it.

1. Silicone Mold Pocket Pussy

Materials:

• Body-safe silicone sealant
• Any dick-sized object that’s smooth, non-porous, and safe to use as a mold, like a dildo, cucumber, penis model, or candle (make sure it’s slightly thicker than your penis)
• Cutter
• Measuring tape
• Marker

How To:

1. Measure your penis.
2. Mark your chosen mold object about 25% shorter than your length.
3. Trim the object to size and smooth out the surface.
4. Coat it with a thick, even layer of silicone sealant (about ½ inch all around).
5. Let it sit for several weeks so the silicone fully dries and sets.
6. Once hardened, carefully remove the object from the center.

2. Slime Pocket Pussy

Materials:

• Protein shaker bottle (with lid)
• Large sponge
• Mixing bowl
• Small container
• 470 ml white school glue (roughly two standard glue bottles)
• 60 ml multi-purpose contact lens solution
• 10 ml baking soda
• Elastic band
• Optional: Plastic craft beads (for texture) and food coloring (for aesthetics)

How To:

1. Cut the sponge to fit snugly over the bottle’s opening, leaving a little extra over the edge. Don’t attach it yet.
2. Poke a hole in the center of the sponge, then snip a small “X” to allow for comfortable entry.
3. In your small container, dissolve the baking soda into the contact lens solution.
4. In your mixing bowl, pour in the school glue. Add a few drops of food coloring if you want to get creative.
5. Slowly stir in your baking soda mixture until it turns into slime—firm but stretchy is what you’re aiming for.
6. If you want extra texture, fold in some plastic beads now. For a smoother sensation, skip them.
7. Divide the slime into two equal pieces. Roll each to the height of the shaker bottle.
8. Press both into the bottle, molding them against the inside to create a soft inner canal.
9. Secure the sponge on top with an elastic band.
10. Moisten the sponge with warm water for a more realistic feel, then lube up and enjoy.

5 Safety Tips for DIY Sex Toys

You might be thinking, “DIY sex toys should be safe to use, right? I mean, I picked all the materials, I know what’s in there.”

For a quick answer: It depends.

DIY sex toys aren’t food. There’s nothing organic or natural about them. A can of Pringles, for example, wasn’t designed for your dick; it was made for chips. And because these hacks weren’t created with your body in mind, accidents and injuries can happen.

The good news? You can reduce the risks while still keeping things hot, satisfying, and fun.

Here’s how to keep your Little John safe when you DIY: 

1. Practice Good Hygiene

We get it; you’re probably feeling spent after you climax. But don’t let your semen hang out inside your DIY toy for days (or worse, weeks). Toss the glove or condom after each use.

And if you used a food-based masturbator, throw it away. Unless you’re planning to eat it afterward (hey, no judgment), don’t shove it back in the fridge. Just let it go.

2. Get Yourself Into the Mood

Masturbation isn’t just about scratching an itch; it’s also an expression of self-love. If you want to spend some time fapping, why not make the most of it by setting the mood?

Dim the lights, lock the door, and you can run your imagination wild. Sometimes, you can read skin mags or watch porn. Just be careful not to get addicted. A little is healthy, too much is not.

3. Always Line With a Condom or a Latex Glove

A latex glove or condom creates a barrier between your body and whatever non-penis-friendly material your toy is made of. It reduces the risk of infection and makes the cleanup easier.

If you go in raw, your semen can soak into the cracks and corners of your DIY toy. That’s a fast track to bacteria build-up, bad smells, and future regret.

4. Check the Sharp Edges and Smooth Them

You want a sexy time, not a trip to the ER. So, before using your toy, inspect everything inside and out. Look for sharp edges, rough patches, or anything that could snag or cut your skin.

Use sandpaper, a nail file, or a spoon (if it’s food-based) to smooth things out. Your dick will thank you.   

5. Use a Lube

If there’s one non-negotiable for a good solo session, it’s lube.

Even with a latex glove or condom, friction can still lead to irritation. Lube minimizes that and maximizes sensation. Stick with a water-based lube, especially if you’re using latex. 

Oil-based lubes can break down condoms and gloves, and silicone-based lubes don’t mix well with DIY textures.

Homemade vs Commercial Sex Toys for Men

Let’s be honest: homemade toys are the emergency plan. They’re what you reach for when you can’t afford a commercial sex toy or can’t get the real thing (yep, we’re talking pussy or ass).

But should you settle for DIY just to save a few bucks? Let’s break it down. 

Homemade Sex Toys

As mentioned earlier, homemade sex toys for men are budget-friendly AF. You can whip one up using stuff you already have lying around.

But if you’re planning to go the DIY route long-term, there are a few things to keep in mind.

For starters, if you’re using food, yes, that’s a waste. Unless you’re planning to eat it after (no judgment), it’s one-and-done.

Then there’s the hygiene issue. Most homemade toys are made from porous materials that can trap bacteria. They weren’t made for penetration, which means they don’t exactly play nice with your junk over time.

Homemade sex toys are perfect for:

• When you're broke
• When you’re in a place where sex toys are illegal
• When you're just too horny to wait

But if you plan to stick with them, replace them often.

Commercial Sex Toys

Commercial toys are made with actual dicks in mind. Most are crafted from medical-grade silicone or TPE, making them non-porous, easier to clean, and way safer for your body. Not to mention the added fun features, such as the vibration and thrusting modes. They're designed to hit all the right spots, hands-free. 

The only downside is that it costs money, which is worth an investment for long-term use. It’s unlike the watermelon pussy that you’re just gonna discard after use. 

If you’re ready to level up from a DIY sex toy to something better? Visit BeYourLover and find the perfect and safe sex toy for you. 

Special Thanks To:

• NauticalAgriculture
• Men’s Health
• Tatered

You’ve heard about fleshlights—those mysterious items that can promise you a new kind of fun. But before handing over your hard-earned cash to get one, why not become a DIY master instead? Because by creating your very own at your home, it lets you satisfy your needs without draining your budget.

Making your own fleshlight is easy and can be more satisfying than you think. And another thing, you also get to customize it just how you like. 

So, without further ado, let’s start to dive into our cheeky little project that will give you some “me time” and a bang for the buck.

What’s a Homemade Fleshlight, Anyway?

To put it simply, a homemade fleshlight is a self-made sex toy made from different, available materials. And a well-created fleshlight can mimic the sensation of the mouth, vagina, or anus to help create a pleasurable and realistic experience.

From materials like plastic containers and foam to various household items, homemade fleshlights can provide you a personalized experience—by using a bit of creativity.

And because you can use different types of materials, the combinations and possibilities are vast! The level of customization will always derive from the experience and preferences of the user.

Why Make Your Own Fleshlight? Because Making Your Own Rocks!

Making your own fleshlight at home can rock for a bunch of reasons! A homemade fleshlight can also offer you some pros, like:

• It’s Cheap - When opting for a store-bought fleshlight, it can cost you around 60 to 100 dollars, or more. While items used for DIYs, like socks, sponges, or rubber, can only cost you a penny (or even be free!).
• Customizable - For example, you can adjust the tightness using rubber bands or add texture using ribbed gloves. 
• Convenient and Private - You’ll never experience any shipping delays or awkward store visits. And it can be assembled anytime and anywhere, which can be favorable for people who often travel.
• It Lets You Experiment - You can test different materials to find out what feels best. 
• Confidence Booster - Creating and mastering a DIY project can feel pleasurable and practical, right? That’s a life skill worth bragging about (to yourself, at least).
• You Can Dispose of It After Use - Another best thing when crafting your own fleshlight is you can disassemble or throw it away after the deed. Works best for people who aren’t comfortable keeping a sex toy in their room.

Is DIY Fleshlight Safe?

DIY fleshlights can be safe, but only if you follow strict guidelines. And they can come with health risks when corners are cut. Please consider the potential risks when creating your own at home.

The Material

The materials used when creating a DIY fleshlight will always tell about its safety. When porous plastics or low-grade silicones are used, they can harbor pathogens that can put your health at risk.

Since porous materials feature microscopic, tiny holes that can hold dirt and bacteria, it’s impossible to clean them 100%. And as written by Gabrielle Kasse of Healthline, STDs are highly transferable when using sex toys that were not properly cleaned.

Maintenance

Another thing to consider when crafting your first sex toy is hygiene and maintenance. Sex toys should be properly cleaned and dried thoroughly after every use. 

Proper storage is also important to prevent any bacterial growth once you decide to reuse your sex toy.

The Integrity of the Structure

When your fleshlight is poorly constructed, it can malfunction or even break during its use. And this can potentially cause injuries to the involved body parts.

To prevent this from happening, it’s recommended to do some research first and rely on the experience of the trusted DIY enthusiasts. And in fact, it’s better to start with simpler designs and progress as your skills improve.

Make It Yourself: The Ultimate Step-by-Step Fleshlight Hack

How about we take a look at the following ideas and see if you can find something lying around the house or garage?

Pringles Fleshlight

This might be one of the most popular DIY strokers ever. Because by using a can and some sponges, it can work its magic.

Supplies You Might Need

• Pringles can
• 5 pcs. cellulose sponges
• Duct tape or rubber bands
• Medical glove

Steps

1. Wipe and clean your can and place the 4 sponges inside on top of one another.
2. For the fifth sponge, carefully cut a slit at the center, and place it over the opening of the can.
3. You can keep the fifth sponge secured in place by putting a rubber band or tape on it.
4. Using the exam glove, push it into the slit until it’s halfway into the can.
5. You can stretch the glove that’s hanging outside and secure it with rubber bands. And because with the use of removable medical gloves, it lets you reuse your new toy.

Pocket Pussy Party Balloon

So, you might have heard about a pocket pussy made from a party balloon from someone. And you wonder how it could possibly make you feel good. 

But once that balloon pops, it might not feel pleasant for your thing. So, to keep things safe, you can check the improved version below.

Supplies You Might Need

• Plastic container (with a lid, preferably)
• Medical glove
• Party Balloons

Steps

1. First, fill the party balloons with warm water, around 1/8 to 1/4 of their size.
2. Place the water-filled balloons in a container side-to-side and alternate them.
3. Put the gloves inside, just right at the center.
4. You can put a hole in the container’s lid and use it to secure the glove. Putting the lid on will also help prevent the balloons from falling out. But please make sure that the edges of the lid won’t hurt you by softening the sharp edges.
5. And while you’re at it, why not use a DIY lube as well? One of the best lube alternatives, as stated by Louise Morales-Brown of MedicalNewsToday, is aloe vera, edible oils, or even yogurt!

Dish Towel Roll

Now, if you want something quick and easy, a fleshlight made of a dish towel will do the job. It’s also quite discreet, because you can just toss it in the laundry after each use.

Supplies You Might Need

• A dish or hand towel
• Rubber bands or ponytails
• Medical glove

Steps

1. Before rolling your towel, fold it lengthwise to add some thickness. Then, assess the space inside the towel to help you match it with your girth. You can also use a roll of toothpaste before rolling it to create some space.
2. After completely rolling your towel, put on some rubber bands or ponytails to help secure its shape. 
3. Next, insert the medical glove inside the towel. Keep a portion of a glove hanging outside, and if you have to, you can secure the glove by using another rubber band.

Toilet Paper Roll

Other than being so easy to make, this DIY project will also let you use the tissue after doing the deed. Well, you could if you’re not too rough!

Supplies You Might Need

• Toilet paper roll (you can choose something with a ribbed texture)
• Medical glove
• Rubber bands or ponytails

Steps

1. The first step is to separate the cardboard from the tissue roll.
2. Hold the tissue roll, and by using some rubber bands or ponytails, try to secure both ends of the toilet paper.
3. You can now put the gloves inside the towel roll. And use some rubber bands to secure the hanging part of the gloves right in the opening.
4. Aside from toilet paper, you can also use kitchen towel rolls as an alternative material for this project. As it helps accommodate a longer genitalia or a wider girth.

Plushies

Using plush toys to get yourself off may come off as a bit strange. But using these cute and soft toys is a great way to keep things discreet.

You can just let your toy sit on a shelf, and no one would notice.

Supplies You Might Need

• A stuffed toy
• Medical glove or condom

Steps

1. First, find an area on your plush toy that’s less noticeable, like at the bottom or underside. Then, using some scissors, try to create a hole or opening.
2. Gently tear or snip the fabric to create a size or girth that matches your thing.
3. Put your fingers inside to arrange the fiberfill and create some space.
4. Put a glove inside the hole, or wear a condom, to use your very own love plushie.

Pool Noodle

The pool noodle fleshlight can be more challenging to make than the previously mentioned ones. But once you successfully make it, it might become your personal favorite! 

Supplies You Might Need

• Swimming pool noodle
• Soft washcloth
• Rubber bands
• Hot glue gun
• Medical glove
• Party beads or plastic Mardi Gras

Steps

1. Cut the noodle pool according to your desired length. Then, you can cut the tube right in the middle—lengthwise.
2. Afterward, you can use a sharp object to remove some of the noodle’s internal material. As this can reduce the thickness inside the noodle, you can adjust it to your girth.
3. You can cut the bead necklaces according to your liking and stick the beads inside the noodle using hot glue. You can put the beads randomly to create a stimulating texture.
4. After the hot glue cools down and the beads settle, place the soft washcloth inside and outside the noodle. Tuck it well in the tube to create space for your genitals.
5. Then, tuck a medical glove inside the noodle and leave a few inches hanging out in the opening. And secure the hanging part of the glove outside by putting a rubber band around it.

Bubble Wrap

Are these wrapping materials starting to pile up at your home from your delivered items? Now here's a good idea: why not use them as your very own sex toy rather than throwing them away?

You’ll not only save yourself some cash, but this next DIY project can be eco-friendly as well.

Supplies You Might Need

• Bubble wrap sheet
• Rubber bands
• Medical glove
• Hand or dish towel

Steps

1. Lay your bubble sheet on a smooth surface, with bubbles facing up, then roll it. This way, it can keep the bubbles facing inward.
2. Next, you can secure your rolled bubble wrap using duct tape or a rubber band.
3. Fold your towel to the right size so you can wrap it around your bubble wrap. You can secure everything by putting rubber bands at the top and bottom openings.
4. Put a stretchy medical glove inside, and try to leave a few inches out, and secure the glove in place using a rubber band.

The Grand Finale: Wrapping Up Your DIY Fleshlight Quest

Congratulations to the new DIY champion! You’ve navigated the homemade fleshlight so well, from the use of towels to sponge masterpieces.

Always remember to use materials for your homemade fleshlight that are body-safe, non-porous, and hypoallergenic so you won't get any irritation.

Besides, hygiene will always rule. Clean or dispose of your DIY devices immediately after each use to prevent any infections. Did you know that in a survey made by Adam & Eve, from an article written by Erica Garza of hims, only 57% of men clean their sex toys after use? Please don’t join the 43% club!

Whether you’re going for homemade or pro, it’s best to always prioritize your safety.