Blindfolded Missionary

The classic missionary. If you are the giver in this position, put a blindfold to cover the eyes of your partner (the receiver or the sub). You can also tie her hands up above her head or to the bed frame. Your partner’s lack of access to visuals would create a sense of anticipation. Not knowing when or where the pleasure attack would come from, adds a dose of excitement. Some sweet caresses before your crotches touch will make the experience even more fun. A build-up if you will. 

If both of you are willing, get a sex toy too to double or even triple the pleasure. How about adding a roleplay twist into it? You can try playing the seductive doctor who’s making her innocent patient undergo a procedure. But not just any medical procedure. An erotic one. You can aslo switch roles once the other reaches that lovely climax. This kink-enhanced position would help both of you build vulnerability and trust.

Feel free to wear costumes and add props to show your commitment to the roles. In sex acts that involve restraints and blindfolds, consent is very important. Make sure that no one is getting their boundaries crossed. Trust and respect are vital here dear friends. Having safe words would also make sure that you're communicating and are both on the same page.

Kinked-Up 69

The elixir of oral sex. The famous and powerful 69. So how can you add a naughtier twist to this already naughty position? Get a pair of blindfolds out and experience mutual cunnilingus and other great sensations while not seeing a thing. Get in position first before wearing those blindfolds. So you can avoid bumps or falls. Once you and your partner are in position, get yourselves blindfolded.

For some role playing action, One of you can play the part of a mischievous captive. If you’re the sub or the captive, you’ll be the one blindfolded and restrained. You’re only allowed to respond to your captor by pleasing her orally. Your dominant captor won’t need a blindfold here. Your partner would have to ‘punish’ the captive with some toys, fingering or cunnilingus. 

Incorporating elements of BDSM will surely raise the level of kinkiness in your intimate life. Before trying this out, decide who’s going to be the dom and the sub. Or you can switch roles after. Whether there’s role play elements or not. The presence of blindfolds and toys can already level up the 68 position for both of you! Again, communication is key. You can also use feathers and ice to tease each other.

Cuffed Tribbing/Scissoring

You’re stoked about rubbing genitals with your loving partner. But how can you make this passionate position kinky? Get those ankle cuffs with short chains ready. This would add a dash of challenge and excitement to your sexual adventure. Get in position. Let the controlled movements from the cuffs and chains while rubbing genitals get both of you off. Adding blindfold into the mix can make the sensation of friction more intense.

Here’s a role play idea, Imagine you’re forbidden lovers who are on your way to a secret encounter. You can try wearing accessories  that look like you’re in an x-rated noir film for a unique touch. Both of you are desperate for the warmth of each other’s bodies. Every grinding motion feels dangerous but arousing. Rub each other out hands-free with kinked-up tribbing!

Restrained Queening/Facesitting

Time for some royalty-inspired position. If you’re going to be the giver, allow yourself to be blindfolded and restrained to the bed. Your partner can act like a queen who’s taking control of her own sexual kingdom. She’s going to sit on your face and your mouth will be the pleasure-giving throne. 

Give your partner a mind-blowing cunnilingus that a queen’s been craving all day. Once your partner is done, you can switch roles and tie her up to be your servant and throne. Get those fancy clothes ready for some role playing. So you can complete the royal feel and look if you’re super committed to the part.

Tied Cowgirl

Whoa! The cowgirl in you is going wild with your sex drive. How to kink this one up? By adding a dash of BDSM to it. If you’re the receiver, the cowgirl in this encounter, your partner’s going to be tied to the bed. Blindfolds are optional here. But having them on can make the experience more interesting. Ride your partner while you’re grinding your vulva against her body. Making the giver wear a strap-on dildo is also a great idea. A phallic stuff you can insert inside while you’re riding wildly.  

Aside from the wild west role play fantasy, you can also try the strip club setting. Giving your partner a lap dance with this position would be awesome! Doing that sexy dance while she’s restrained is a very interesting visual and feeling. Once you’ve had your fill and reached O-town, switch places if she’s also interested in playing the part of a cowgirl and strip-club dancer. Go wild!

BDSM-Inspired Wedge

In wedge position, your partner or yourself would need to be propped up. Depending on who’s going to play the role of the receiver. A sturdy, comfortable pillow makes access to your private areas easier. So how can you add BDSM elements while doing this position? By adding items like cuffs, gag, collar and blindfolds. This creates a power dynamic in your intimacy. The one tied up is in a submissive and vulnerable role. And if you’re the giver, that puts you in a position of control.

Looking for a thrilling way to role play using this position? Here’s one for you. If you want to be a spy that’s been caught, you’re going to be the receiver or sub. Get ready for being propped up and exposed to your interrogator (the dom/giver). This position and the presence of BDSM items are ideal for this spy-interrogator dynamic. If you’re looking for kinky items for restraint…

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Blindfolded Simultaneous Masturbation

Let your imagination go wild on this one. What if you’re both blindfolded and also a few feet away from each other? It might sound strange but hear us out. Now that you can’t count on your eyes to watch each other rubbing your own vulvas, your other senses come into play. To make you both come. How to intensify the erotic energy? Try listening to each other’s moans while you’re pleasuring yourselves with fingers or toys.

If you want some role playing here, one of you would need to remove the blindfold. This opens up a chance to play roles of exhibitionist and voyeur. The blindfolded party is the exhibitionist who masturbates in front of a voyeur. If you’re the voyeur, you have the privilege to masturbate while watching your exhibitionist, blindfolded partner play with herself. Make the experience more intense with sex toys.

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Sideways 69 with Collar and Leash

A sideways variation of the classic, pleasurable 69 position. To make this kinkier, get that collar and leash handy. One of you would wear those and the other would take control. Like a conductor of a sexual orchestra. Pleasure each other orally while the dominant one would pull at the leash to make reaching the crotch a challenge to the sub. Blindfold her to add a sexy, exciting element of sensory deprivation. 

Make sure that you as lovebirds are in a safe and comfortable space before heating things up. And both of you have consented to this act that involves some pulling and rough movements. As far as role playing is concerned, imagine you're in an intense, semi-violent sleepover where one of you is taking the lead. While the other would respond to each leash pull by eating the Dom out. Even a sub can still receive pleasure from the Dom in this scenario. So both parties are satisfied in this rough sleepover fantasy.

Tied-Up Reverse Cowgirl

In this position, you’re going to face the other side as a rider. Imagine being a submissive cowgirl instead of the one leading your erotic ranch. Let your partner attach a leash and a collar on your neck. Or a rope around your waist. While you’re riding, she’ll tug the rope or leash to control your grinding pace. Insert a butt plug for some extra kink. Be the naughty cowgirl who’s getting punished for misbehaving. For a nice touch of role play.

As a rider, you must grind until you’re allowed to finish. You’ll go faster or slower based on your partner’s tugs. Let her watch you enjoy the ‘punishment’ for being super naughty. Get your cowboy hat on to complete the look. Showing your dedication to the cowgirl role. Grind and moan until you’re allowed to come. After finishing, your partner can also experience orgasmic punishment from you by switching roles.

Restrained Spooning

Spooning is a great option for lesbian sex. Spice things up by making this one kinkier. As a giver, restrain your partner’s hands with cuffs. Blindfold and gag the receiver. Some sensory deprivation intensifies the spooning position. Use your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate her erotic spots. You’re in full control of the pace and intensity. Go slow or stop once in a while to make the receiver beg for more.

If your partner wants a slower, gentler form of stimulation, play the role of a cuddly caretaker. She had a very exhausting day and wanted some warmth and comfort from you. Get the props and toys ready. You’re the one providing comfort but you’re still the one taking the lead. As your partner relies on you to give her pleasure while her hands are cuffed, mouth is gagged and eyes are blindfolded. Be the receiver if it tickles your fancy. Looking for toys and cuffs?

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Some Kinky Tips

Get kinkier with your partner while trying out the positions mentioned above. You’re probably a newbie when it comes to the bondage or BDSM. But you are eager to learn about it to spice your sex positions up with the intensity of this kink. Discover a new world and open up orgasm-inducing possibilities by taking some notes from the interwebs. Here’s a video that would give you a few tips for beginners.

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Before exploring a new world and going wild in the bedroom, see to it that consent, respect and safety are being practiced or observed. Now that you’ve reached an agreement with your loving partner, the tools and positions are waiting. Strengthen your bond and build trust in a kinked-up intimate setting. Enjoy your private erotic feast and stay safe!

FAQ

Is a bondage kit worth having?

Yes. Having a bondage kit handy can make lesbian sex more exciting. The element of restraint and sensory deprivation adds an intense twist.

Where to buy them and other sex toys too?

You might find physical adult toy shops around your area. But online shopping makes everything more discreet and convenient. Give our online store a visit for a wide selection of toys. Check out our BDSM section.

Is it safe to use blindfolds and restraints?

If you put comfort and consent at the top of your priority list, blindfolds or restraints are generally safe. Before trying them out, you can do some research or ask an expert. Restraints add a dash of intensity but they should be used responsibly.

Missionary

The most popular, tried and tested position out there. The Missionary. This is not exclusive to male and female sex. This is also a pleasurable way for lesbian couples to have a great intimate time. You can do it with your partner by making one of you lie down. The other will be on top. By positioning your pubic areas and genitals in front of each other, you can feel pleasure with rubbing movements. 

Using your hands during the act can also make reaching orgasm easier. Try switching positions so both of you can feel some clitoral stimulation. If you enjoy penetration to get some G-spot action, a toy is going to come in handy. One of you will play the role of the giver. And the other is going to be the receiver. 

What toy will you need? A vibrator or a strap-on will definitely do the job. A strap-on is easy to wear and you can emulate the penetrating motions. How about a vibrator? The giver must place it on their crotch, make the receiver spread their legs, turn the vibe on and put it inside the receiver’s vagina. The giver can emulate thrusting motions while your preferred toy is doing its job.

69

Are you a fan of oral sex? Got some great news for you! Does the number 69 ring any bells? It’s another popular sex position that you can try to spice up your lesbian intimate session. Get those lips and tongues ready for a mind-blowing encounter. You and your partner can simultaneously please each other with this sex position. 

One of you will lie down and the other will get on all fours facing the opposite side. Pretty much facing each other’s genitals so both of you can get some oral sex. Just like how the number 69 looks like. Once you’re both in position, you can start licking and sucking on each other’s vulva and clit to experience some great sensations. 

Feel free to use your fingers as well to give the vaginal canal some love. Toys are also welcome here so don’t hesitate. Want to give each other’s butt some attention? You can also give pleasure to the anal area while you’re in this position. Enjoy oral sex like there’s no tomorrow with 69.

Tribbing

Also known as scissoring, tribbing is a position you can try to get some friction going. It’s called scissoring because this position makes your legs look like two pairs of scissors with their blades facing each other. By rubbing your sweet bits down there against your partner’s, simultaneous stimulation would be on its way. To do this, one must lay on their side and spread their legs. The other would also spread their legs while being on top or do the same position on the other side.

The main objective here is to get both of your genitals in front of each other. So some rubbing can happen. With forward, backward motions, the friction created will give both of you warmth and pleasure. Tribbing or scissoring can make the two of you reach orgasm without insertion. If you’re a fan of getting your vulva rubbed by another, this is definitely a great position to try.

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Facesitting

Here’s another sex position you can try if you want to give oral sex some time to shine. Also known as queening, this one would absolutely make one of you feel like a queen. If you’re going to be the giver, you’re going to lie on your back. Your partner would sit on your face. So their genitals can receive some oral stimulation. Lick, kiss, suck their pleasure zones to bring those royal-like sensations.

Think of yourself as a sexy, irresistible throne that brings your partner to erotic bliss. Your partner can also do some back and forth motions for added friction. After bringing your partner to climax, you can switch roles or positions. Be the receiver so that you could also get some royal orgasms too. Be the queens and rule your sexual kingdom and add facesitting to your intimate arsenal.

Cowgirl

The cowgirl position. Get some rodeo-like action with this one. Simultaneous pleasure for you and your partner. In cowgirl, one would lie on their back and the other would sit on top. Your crotch and theirs would need to be positioned next to each other. This would allow one to straddle and grind back and forth. Grinding your vulva against theirs will cause friction. Friction that gives way to stimulation.

You can go fast or slow. Add some fingers into the action if you want. Both of you can also use your hands to caress each other's breasts. Play with the nipples too. Though switching positions would be fun, it’s not always necessary. Because both of you can already experience pleasure without the switch. Let the grinding motions bring you to a town of ecstasy. With this cowgirl position, you’ll be able to add an element of wild west into the bedroom.

Wedge

Here’s a very nice sex position for you. The wedge. To do this one, you’ll need a firm but comfortable pillow where you or your partner can be propped up. A wedge between the bed or floor and the body if you will. One would lie on their back or on their stomach to be the receiver. This is to open up their genitals and anus to get some pleasure. The giver is free to give cunnilingus or use hands and toys. This position gives both of you a chance to experiment with different stimulating methods.

While the giver is steadily laying on their back or tummy, the receiver will move around to try a lot of techniques. You can switch positions so both of you can experience the thrill. The wedge allows vaginal, clitoral and anal stimulation. Twist and turn to your hearts’ desire. It’s amazing that a humble pillow can open the gates of sexual exploration and paradise. So go ahead and try this one out. And if you’re looking for some toys to enhance the experience…

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Simultaneous Masturbation

How about something different? Get each other off without touching your partner with simultaneous masturbation. It might sound weird but it’s a very interesting position to try out. You can do this by lying opposite to each other while masturbating at the same time. Give your partner seductive looks. Let each other see that even from a distance, the arousal you’re feeling doesn’t easily change or go away. 

But there are no strict rules here. Close your eyes if that’s more satisfying to you. You can also do this while both of you are sitting in front of each other. Intimacy is not always about getting physical with each other during sex. Your emotional and mental bond can play a great role as well. Think of it as a very sensual version of telepathy. This approach helps you and your partner care for each other while also practicing self love. Add some toys if you want to.

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Sideways 69

It’s just a slight variation of the 69 position. And you can say, it’s a more comfortable one. Instead of having one of you crouch, you and your partner would be laying on your sides. Let the bed support your bodies and explore each other’s genitals with your mouth and hands. Don’t be shy and have your mind blown by the intense pleasure you’ll get with the more laid-back version of the 69 sex position.

Spooning

Another sex position for you that offers comfort and closeness. Spooning. Here, you’re going to be laying on your sides. The giver would be positioned at the back of their partner. And if you're the receiver, you can enjoy kisses and caresses on your back. Your clit and vaginal walls can also get some pleasure with fingers or toys.

The breasts can also get some love while you're being intimate with this position. If you like penetrative sex, the giver can wear a strap-on dildo. Other vibrators can also add more twist into your bedroom action. But if you're fine with just some touching and rubbing, a non-penetrative act would be awesome as well.

Reverse Cowgirl

A variation of the cowgirl position. One of you would be lying on their back with legs close together. The one who's on top to do the riding or straddling would be facing the other way instead. Like the regular cowgirl position, the one at the top will open their legs and do back and forth grinding motions. So the friction can bring warmth and arousing sensations. Even if this is your first rodeo, you'll definitely have a wild and wonderful time!

Let Pleasure Bloom

Now that you see different positions that you can try to spice up your sex life, make sure that consent and respect are still present. Bring these awesome stuff into the bedroom and communicate clearly. Even if you're in an ongoing relationship or you're just hooking up, make sure that everyone involved is more than happy to experiment with these positions with you. So, let pleasure bloom like the flowers in your beautiful and sexy garden! See ya!