Hey, we've all been there, staring at the ceiling, wondering if size steals the show, and the good news is, it doesn't!

Because these positions below, they’ll totally flip the script with max friction, spot-on angles for G-spot or prostate magic, together with that sweet, cozy vibe.

And these small penis sex positions shine a spotlight on delicious grinding, so both partners are left smiling from ear to ear!

Size Got You Stressed? Chill, It Barely Matters!

Size? Nah, not really the star of the show though.

You know, Dr. Deepak Arora spills the tea on his medical blog, that vulva owners dig rock-hard stiffness way more than extra inches! And bigger isn’t always better, and they care way more about killer chemistry and skills than inches.

We've all fallen for that goofy myth that penis size always calls the shots in bed, sparking silly insecurities over something genetics decided ages ago.

No pills or pumps are gonna rewrite your genetics, but we've got killer sex positions that play to your strengths!

So, ditch the doubts and let short kings rule the bedroom, but only if they do things right.

The Best Positions That Make Every Small Penis Shine

Got a compact package? These positions will help you hit all the right angles and turn your thing into a bedroom superpower!

1. Doggie Style

Doggy style shines for smaller penises with its deep, angled entry that makes use of every inch without wasting any.

How to nail it:

Get the receiver all comfy on hands and knees (or forearms for that yummy deeper vibe), while the giver cozies up right behind, to line up and slide in.

Then, the receiver can slightly arch their back, while the giver can also wrap their hands around their partner's hips or waist so they'll get that perfect rhythm.

Pro tips:

• Want hands-free? The receiver can use some wearable vibrators or nipple toys to double that tingly spark!

2. The Eagle

The eagle is super fun and perfect for smaller sizes because the lifted legs create deep angles that make every move feel way bigger and intense.

How to nail it:

Have the receiver lie back relaxed, while the giver kneels between their legs.

The giver lifts the receiver's legs high and straight over their shoulders for that deep, tight penetration.

Pro tips:

• The receiver can squeeze those legs a bit or point toes to help with the tightness.
• ​Pop a pillow under the bottom’s hips for a better lift, and don’t forget the lube! It keeps everyone happy.

3. Open Book

This next position is a playful, intimate winner, especially for smaller sizes, because it hasthe receiver open wide.

It squeezes everything super tight and hits all the yummiest spots, and makes the penis feel way bigger and stronger, like a mighty dinosaur.

How to nail it:

First, the receiver lies down on their back, super relaxed, and curls their legs open up high toward their shoulders.

After that, the giver can hover over, plant their hands by their sides for support, and enter straight down, so they can grind around in circles to make that tingly friction build up like magic.

Pro tips:

• The giver can pull the receiver's legs gently toward their chest to tighten things more.
• Try slipping a pillow under the receiver's hips for a better lift.
• The giver can use a cock ring for this one for that extra, tingly feel.

4. Reverse Cowgirl

While you score a hot backside view, there's a bouncy rhythm going on. And this pleasure ride is where the tight angles meet fuller thrusts.

How to nail it:

​The giver lies back relaxed this time while the receiver climbs on top, facing away (hello, sexy back view!), while gripping the giver's knees as the giver holds the receiver’s hips. 

Pro tips:

• The top can lean forward a bit for that even snuggier depth.
• Slip on an egg vibe on the clit for some buzzed-up fun for both.

5. Face Off

This position shines if you have a smaller penis, because it focuses on grinding inside your partner, rather than deep in-and-out thrusting.

You can also get face-to-face intimacy for kissing, nipple play, and exploring erogenous zones.

How to nail it:

While the giver is sitting, the receiver straddles face-to-face, moving with hands and feet while the giver guides their hips.

Then, the giver can lean back for better access, hold eye contact, and try building the grinding rhythm together.

Pro tips:

• Adjust hip angles to hit the receiver's G-spot.
• Exchange whispers or compliments to amp up the intimacy.

6. The Spork

Rock this if you're stressing about going deep because your partner's leg becomes your superpower here!

And guaranteed, it will make the receiver feel totally filled up, turning "not deep enough" into "oh yes, right there!"

How to nail it:

The receiver can chill on the floor (or bed) with one leg stretched out.

Then, the giver kneels between them and hoists the other leg up on their shoulder. They grip it like a handle, slide their thing in, and thrust by pulling/pushing. Easy peasy!

Pro tips:

• The receiver can bend their bottom knee for extra stability.
• Level up by using a wand vibe on the receiver's clit.
• Start slow, and sneak in some kisses!

7. The Flatiron

Squeeze those legs like a vice, and boom! The insane friction lights up the receiver's vaginal walls for a wild rush.

This next position can help boost pleasure for both, no matter the size, and the tighter the squeeze, the wilder the ride.

How to nail it:

The receiver lies face-down on the bed or floor, squeezing their feet together tightly. They can also slide a pillow under the pelvis to lift the hips.

The giver lies on top of the receiver's back, so they can slide in from behind.

Pro tips:

• The giver can sneak a hand under their partner's hips for some steamy clit magic.
• The receiver can also use an anal toy in this one for that fuller feeling.

8. The G-Whiz

This bad boy cranks penetration to epic levels with hips hoisted high.

And because the giver controls every thrust, it adds that spicy dom/sub edge (with full consent, of course).

How to nail it:

The receiver lies on their back, while pulling their knees to their chest and hips rolled to give them a lift off the floor or bed.

Next, the giver can start scooting in close to penetrate, and for extra power, the giver can also squat with knees outside the receiver's, and rock those thrusts with total control.

Pro tips:

• The giver can tease through slow entry, then vary thrust speed for buildup.
• Skip the rug-burn, and a soft surface is non-negotiable, so layer on a plush blanket or cushion.

9. Stand and Deliver

Score super deep penetration using this position, because it's familiar like missionary but way fuller, and you're gonna love the easy clit access too. Apply it to the bedroom, couch, desk, anywhere goes!

How to nail it:

The giver stands at the edge of a bed, desk, or couch, while the receiver lies back and pulls knees to chest (like pedaling a bike with bent knees).

After the positioning, the giver grabs their ankles, pulls them close, and slides in deep. The giver also got all the control on this one.

Pro tips:

• The giver can adjust the hold of the ankles to make each depth feel different.
• The receiver can flex their feet or move their hips in circular motion to hit the G-spot.
• And also, pick a super stable and steady spot so nobody gets injured!

10. The Pole Position

​The side-facing legs of the pole position let the receiver's hips drop lower than a regular cowgirl. And this creates sneaky extra penetration, so everything feels fuller real quick.

How to nail it:

​First, the giver sits on the couch edge, then the receiver climbs on top, swinging their legs sideways, left or right.

The giver lifts the receiver's hips up and down with their hands for smooth control. Or, if the seat's low enough, the receiver pushes off the floor with their feet to set the pace. Grind together and feel that sideways twist kick in!

Pro tips:

• The receiver can lean a bit forward to give themselves an extra clit grind.
• You guys can also tuck a cushion under the giver to protect their back.

11. The Golden Spoon

Craving chill, relaxing sex with your boo? This big-spoon position tops the list for small penises, because it delivers a slow, intimate connection without any rush or effort.

How to nail it:

To begin, the receiver lies on their side with legs bent comfortably, so this gives the giver a chance to spoon in from behind.

When you're done, the giver can rest their hands on the receiver's hips and slide them inside gently. ​

Pro tips:

• The giver can reach around for some nipple or clit stimulation using their hands.
• Keep thrusts slow and add whispered sweet nothings.
• Build a blanket nest for total relaxation mode.

12. The Little Dipper

The little dipper can help nail deep penetration, with easy clit stimulation as a plus, so this position is perfect for smaller sizes, since the clit has way more nerve endings than the vagina.

How to nail it:

The giver lies back flat and gets comfortable, while the receiver grabs onto the sturdy furniture or the headboard to hover just above, bringing the pelvises close together.

Then, the giver slides their penis into the receiver's vagina or anus and rocks gently.

Pro tips:

• The receiver can also lean on a wall for steady hovering.
• Ease in shallow at first, then build deeper while chatting about what feels best.
• Add a clitoral vibrator or thrusting toy for next-level hotness!

If You Feel Less Endowed, Then Here's the Real Scoop on Great Sex

Sure, king-sized johnsons exist, but if you ask most people about their best sex ever, penis size rarely comes up, because what really makes it unforgettable is the chemistry, enthusiasm, and sexy moves.

For your next steamy session (especially if size worries you), here are some simple do's and don'ts to make it more amazing:

• Don't compare, because most guys overestimate the average anyway, and you're probably spot-on normal.
• Do fake confidence till it's real, because it's sexier than size. Ditch the stress. Try positive self-talk. Because here’s a bonus: As Kimberly Holland from Healthline says, positive self-talk can even lengthen your life and dial down pain. 
• Don't sweat adding toys, because they can help turn you into a total bedroom rockstar. Bringing in vibrators, strokers, or plugs is not a sign you’re “not enough,” but it shows you care about pleasure, are open-minded, and know how to have fun. 
• Loosen up those hips for deeper, epic thrusts. Tight hips are sneaky vibe-killers. They limit your thrusting range, making penetration feel shallow no matter the size. 

Size? What Size? You're a Bedroom Legend!

Who cares about inches? It's the sexy creativity that has them lining up for round two, so ditch the doubts, communicate, and own the bedroom. You've got this, king!

​For sure, these killer positions flip any "small" situation into pure grinding magic!

Or you can just jump into BeYourLover's app-controlled toys and vibes; they bring that electric zing to these positions. Make your every session epic!

Ever had that moment in bed where the angle just feels off, hips slipping, and necks cramping while the vibe fizzles out?

It happens to everyone, but a simple pillow changes everything by giving that perfect lift for smooth alignment and making sex way more fun.

No more awkward twists. Just comfy, deeper thrills in every position.

If you're ready to unlock game-changing sex pillow positions to make intimacy feel amazing, then your upgrade awaits!

What Is a Sex Pillow?​

Sex pillows are game-changers for bedroom comfort, and unlike everyday pillows that flop under weight, these stay firm, angled, and supportive so you can hold positions longer without strain.

They come in a few main types:

Wedge 

Triangle-shaped and extra sturdy, like a mini ramp for popping hips or knees higher. A wedge makes those awkward angles way easier without wearing out your arms or legs.

Ramp

A ramp is larger with full back support for reclining into deeper moves, and awesome if mobility is an issue, but it takes up more closet space.

Mount

Long, bolster-style with a toy slot inside, that's perfect for solo grinding or when you want hands-free action.

Sex Pillow Positions That Make Intimacy a Breeze

If you ever find a position that wobbles around and leaves you sore the next day, then these pillow sex hacks can make everything easy peasy.

1. The Jockey

Ever tried the Jockey where you're on your stomach like a horse and your partner rides from behind? It rocks for vaginal or anal play.

To do this, just lie face down on the bed, slide a pillow or wedge under your hips to lift things up nicely, then have your partner straddle your waist and slide in.

They can tweak the angle by leaning forward or back, or shifting their knees to hit all the right spots.

Love feeling submissive? This one's perfect as the receiver, but if you're penetrating and crave some control, you'll dig it too.

Toy tip:

If you receive, you can slip a small vibrator between your legs for buzzing clitoral fun while they thrust.

2. Missionary

Missionary is the classic that everyone knows and loves, and all you gotta do is add a pillow, and it gets even better.

To nail it, the receiver can lie on their back and slide a wedge or firm pillow under their hips to lift them up comfortably.

Your partner then kneels or leans right over you, faces you, and shifts a tad for the perfect fit.

That hip lift makes every thrust deeper and super smooth.

Toy Tip:

The receiver can try wearing some nipple clamps to allow their partner’s hands to roam on their other erogenous spots.

3. Doggy Style

Doggy's a timeless fave, and popping a ramp or pillow under your hips takes it to the next level. Comfier for the receiver, easier angle for the giver.

First, place the pillow on the bed, high end toward the receiver, low end by the headboard, then lie stomach-down with hips on the high slope, while your partner kneels behind and slides in for vaginal or anal.

Great if you're holding the pose for a while or want less arm workout.

Toy tip:

Reach for a vibrating cock ring on the giver for shared vibes.

4. Butterfly

This one's a killer for G-spot hits and even squirting.

Start with the giver kneeling while the receiver lies back, legs up on one shoulder, feet near their chest, so it's easy to slide a pillow under the receiver's butt for that perfect lift.

Foot fans? Bonus toe play right there.

If the angle's off, just say, have them lean forward or back, drop lower, or go deeper/shallower. They can grab your hips for rougher pulls or lean in for nipple fun.

Toy tip:

The receiver can add a curved G-spot vibrator into play to double the stimulation.

5. Easy 69

69's a total crowd-pleaser for mutual oral, but it can cramp up quickly, and a pillow or ramp fixes that fast.

For the bottom partner, just lie back with the pillow propping your hips or lower back to curve everything up nice and comfy. Then, the top partner hops on hands-and-knees for classic 69, now way easier to dive in without neck strain.

Or try this: One lies back on the ramp, head on the low end, hips lifted high, while the other climbs on top, crotches lined up perfectly.

Toy tip:

Grab a flexible vibrating wand to hold while going down on each other for buzzing boosts.

6. Oral Play With a Pillow

Sore neck from going down on your partner? A sex pillow swoops in to save the day, every time.

The receiver just chills on their back, wedge under hips, lower back, or butt for that sweet, perfect lift. The giver gets on hands-and-knees or stomach for comfy oral, no awkward bends. Works great for oral eating, rimming, or flipping roles.

Or switch it: The giver lies on the ramp, head low, hips up. The receiver straddles their face, hands down for balance, to offer cunnilingus or a blowjob.

Toy tip:

The giver can grab an anal toy to play with themselves while licking their partner.

7. Cowgirl With a Twist

Craving a fun twist on cowgirl? You'll love this one.

The giver lies flat on their back with a wedge tucked under their hips for lift, while the receiver climbs on top like a regular cowgirl but leans back slightly, folds their legs, and rests them by the giver's chest.

Then, the receiver rocks their hips back and forth or bounces up and down, going at whatever pace feels right.

For the flip side, the giver lies back with a ramp propping up their back, shoulders, and head, plus a wedge under their knees, while the receiver hops on and rides just like classic cowgirl.

8. Lustful Cobra

About intermediate, nothing too wild.

Picture a comfy reverse cowgirl where a ramp pillow props the bottom partner up, relaxed. The top partner straddles the same direction, hits that feel-good inside spot easily, and controls the ride.

The bottom partner chills back on the ramp, while the top one swings a leg over, facing forward, plants hands for balance, slides down onto the penis or strap-on, and rocks however feels right.

9. The Pinned Butterfly

Use a firm sex pillow as comfy support underneath, and the receiving partner lies back on it with hands "tied" above their head (you can use safety cuffs and blindfolds), while the giving partner climbs on top and slides in.

With arms held back and chest exposed, giver can tease their partners with feathers, nipple play, or warm massage, and candle drip. 

Pro tip:

Amp it with a soft flogger or tickler for that extra tingle.

10. Lazy Dog

Not feeling regular doggy? This prone twist works wonders, especially if you want more snugness.

First, the receiver lies flat on their stomach, pillow under their belly and pelvis for a nice hip lift, legs squeezed tightly together. 

The giver slides in from behind, the squeezed legs make everything feel tighter and oh-so-good for both.

Pro tip:

Grab another pillow to muffle those moans.

11. Pillow Pet

This one's great for solo play or putting on a show for your partner.

You tuck a vibrator snugly between two pillows and kneel over it with your knees on either side for hands-free, buzzy fun.

Stack the pillows nice and firm, snuggle the vibe while it’s pointing upward, then straddle and lower yourself onto it before riding however feels best. ​

Your partner will love watching, or they can jump in too.

12. Deep Plunge

Super simple way to go nice and deep, so every thrust hits the good spots inside.

Put the ramp at the bed edge, and let the receiver lie back on it and put their legs up. The giver stands close, grabs the hips, rests the receiver's feet on their chest (knees fold easily), and slides in for vaginal or anal fun.

If heights are off, the giver can bend their knees a bit. ​

Why Sex Pillows are Awesome

Sex pillows make everything comfier and hotter by fixing common bedroom aches, and here's the simple scoop.

Deeper Thrusts Without the Ouch

Ever get that sharp twinge or ache during missionary or doggy? It's usually bad angles bumping sensitive spots inside, not size.

If you're a vulva owner, one wrong tilt of your hips can make a toy or penis poke your insides uncomfortably. And penis owners can feel soreness if they bend their thing awkwardly or forcefully.

Per a Cleveland Clinic article, penile fractures can hurt enough to kill your erection on the spot, and may call for surgery to fix.

A sex pillow lifts the hips just right to line bodies up perfectly, and prevent these mishaps from happening.

Less Strain on Your Body

These pillows take the work off knees, backs, and joints, so you stay in the moment.

Perfect for:

• New moms easing back into intimacy
• Plus-size couples
• People with mobility challenges
• Anyone wanting an easy support

Easier Hot-Spot Hits

Pillows give you better access to those sweet internal spots.

For vulva owners, the G-spot is 2-3 inches in on the front wall, while for penis owners, the P-spot, or prostate, is 2-3 inches in on the rectum. The right angle lets massage or play hit it easily.

Some Sex Pillow Tips

As we wrap things up, you can keep these tips below in mind:

Get Consent

If you're playing with a partner, chat about it first and get their enthusiastic yes, because even though a sex pillow isn't something that goes directly on the body like a vibe or dildo, it's still a no-go without them knowing.

Always loop them in before adding anything new to the bedroom, so everyone's comfy, safe, and really interested to try it. Plus, you get to geek out together in the hottest positions to start with!

Pick the Perfect One

It's tempting to dash to your go-to sex toy shop and snag the first pillow that catches your eye, but hold up, that could end up being a pricey regret.

Just like any sex toy, you want one that fits you right, but remember those three main types we covered? Each one's built for specific positions and vibes.

So when you're dropping cash, go for one that matches your body, play style, and bedroom goals.

Shop Smart and Clean

To get real bang for your buck, scope out where you're buying from.

Sure, cheap sex pillows are everywhere online and off, but tons use junky materials that flop on comfort and support. Stick to trusted sex toy shops for wedges and ramps that actually deliver.

Always keep it clean, because inanimate and absorbent objects like pillows can transfer STIs, as noted by Sarah Bares of Advancing Health.

Time to Get Comfy and Play

That's a wrap! And these sex pillow positions can fix those wonky angles and make your intimacy feel more amazing.

Doing it solo or with someone special, they'll make everything smoother, hotter, and just plain fun, so snag a pillow, give them a whirl (consent first!), and have a blast.

Want toys that rock? Head to BeYourLover for killer vibrators and suckers that are built for comfort and epic positions!

Let’s be honest, you’ve thought about it too. Groupsex, such as foursome fantasies can be thrilling. Imagine more hands, more mouths, more cocks and pussies, are equal to more pleasure. But every time you try to learn more, the internet gives you a full list of porn videos or a boring TED talk on sexual sociology.

So, where’s the middle ground if you’re just a curious individual, who just wants to experience it for yourself or wants to spice up your sex life? 

Here’s something for a vote of confidence: according to Times of India, 31% of New York residents have experienced it, and many say groupsex (foursomes, included) opened the door to deeper connection, confidence, and pleasure.

But still, it’s normal to have questions like, what if it’s awkward, what if someone feels left out, what if it destroys my relationship? 

As long as you’re not cheating, you’ve established boundaries, and have the right mindset, foursomes should not destroy your relationship. Here are some important things you need to know when engaging in foursome sex. Top 10 foursome sex positions, included. 

Preparations & Mindset You Should Have

Before tangling your bodies together, make sure that you are prepared all the way. As much as it is exciting and hot, it can also be mental and emotional. It’s important you’re sure what to expect before jumping into it.

Here are some things you need to consider:

Communication

The gateway for a hot foursome is communication. Have an open and honest talk before any clothes come off. Talk about comfort zones, curiosities, and boundaries.

Discuss what’s on the table, what’s off limits and every participant should have full control over what happens to their body, or if you’re gonna incorporate some BDSM, at least the sub is aware what you’ll do to their body.

Use a safeword or signals that will tell you that you need to take a break, pause, or slow down. 

Discussing expectations is also helpful, because it will let everyone know if everyone will be having an oral, a blowjob, a double penetration, triple, whatever. 

Comfort and Space

As for pleasure, you won’t have a problem with that for a foursome, but to make this possible, make sure that it won’t turn into chaos. 

So, choose your location. Choose the place where four people can freely move without breaking or shattering anything, or elbowing someone. Also, prepare the necessary props like toys, pillows, and supports. 

Set the mood by using soft lighting, music, and set the right temperature. 

Safety and Hygiene

According to Mensxp, group sex can be linked to desires for sexual competence, excitement, and erotic novelty but comes with risks including sexually transmitted infections and emotional challenges. 

So, make sure that all the participants are free from STI, and to add protection, use condoms and dental dams. Changing condoms between partners is a must-do to protect yourself from STI. 

Also, the more bodies, the more movement and friction, so make sure you have a lubricant within reach. 

Be prepared by showering and shaving. If you’ll be the host of your sex party, make sure that the sheets and the surroundings are clean and fragrant, though you’re gonna mess it up later. 

Prepare Your Mind

Aside from the essentials like the condoms and lubes, you also need to have the right mindset. If you’re married, and it’s your first time swinging, make sure that both of you are really up for it, that sex will just be sex, unless of course you’re in a polyamorous relationship. 

Sometimes, you might encounter someone who still feels awkward about this or still hesitant. Be patient and do not force someone to do things they’re not willing or ready to do. Instead, be supportive. Who knows, you might end up changing their minds. 

Also, stay open. Regularly check in. If you’re the giver, ask your partner if they are okay. If you feel that things are getting a little boring, you can suggest switching things up. 

Foursome-Friendly Positioning Tips

The downside of foursome is that, things can get deliciously complicated. What looks hot in fantasy, usually doesn’t happen in real-life. Remember that this isn’t porn. There’s no choreography or training here. 

So here are some positioning tips to make sure that everyone will feel comfortable and the experience will be inclusive. 

Coordinating Four Bodies

Think of this as the art of human geometry. When everyone’s limbs and hips are in motion, spacing becomes your best friend. Everyone should be able to touch and be touched. It’s no fun if someone’s stuck watching from the sidelines, unless it’s the part of the foursome position. 

Role Rotation & Inclusivity

It’s best to talk about roles beforehand. Talk about who’s on top, who's behind, who’s teasing, who’s being pleasured. This helps prevent everyone from feeling like a wallpaper in the corner. Also, it can also be hot to reverse roles and give each person a chance to lead and surrender to build trust and pleasure and to experience both being the giver and the receiver.  

Top 10 Foursome Sex Positions to Try

Now, here’s the meaty part. Try these foursome sex positions you can try on your next sexcapade:

1. Group Sex for Beginners

How: Start simple. Person 1 and Person 3 can lie on their backs while Person 2 and Person 4 can position themselves on top in a face-to-face position with their partners. Imagine it as a dual classic missionary position. 

Protip: Keep close to the other pair. Close enough  so everyone can make eye contact, touch, or caresses across the group. It’s a great way to ease into the foursome experience, especially if it’s your first time to be in a groupsex rendezvous, while ensuring an intimate experience.

Don’t force yourself to act like pro if you don’t feel like it. Take it slow. You may feel awkward having sex with other couple present, but focus on the sensation. If you want added spark, you can use a toy like Rosalia, it provides shared vibration for a couple with a penis and a vulva.

2. The Royal Treatment

How: Person 1 is in the center while Persons 2, 3, and 4 explore their body using every tool of pleasure, such as the hands, lips, tongues, chest, genitals, or sex toys. The goal is simple; just give Person 1 full sensory attention while they receive and just surrender to the sensation completely. 

Protip: The givers can focus on stimulating Person 1’s different erogenous zones, such as the neck, chest, thighs, back, breasts, genital, and nipples. You can add the Cloud IPO into the mix. A giver can use it to stimulate the different ooh-la-la zones of the royalty.

3. The Carousel

How: Person 1 lies comfortably on their back while Person 2 kneels over their face. Person 3 and 4 each straddle one of Person 1’s legs by grinding and moving at their own pace. This creates a sensual chain of pleasure where everyone is connected and fully immersed. 

Protip: Person 1 can choose to be active by using their hands to stroke the closest partner’s thighs or if they can, they can also stroke or rub the genitals. You can also add a toy into the mix, such as the Rosey. This toy is a good addition as it can be used in different ways you can imagine. 

4. The Oral Exchange

How: This sex position is perfect for swinging couples. Person 1 and Person 2 sit side by side. Person 1’s real-life partner, Person 3, kneels between Person 2’s legs to perform oral sex, and the same goes for Person 2’s real-life partner. This setup is ideal for couples who are turned on by watching their partner pleasure or be pleasured by someone else.

Protip: Partners can switch roles anytime to keep everyone engaged. This sex position also provides the opportunity for easy eye contact, shared touch, teasing, and kissing. You can even add Tara for hands-free clitoral bliss while the mouth stays busy. 

5. Watch the Ride

How: Person 1 lies comfortably on their back while Person 2 straddles and rides them. Meanwhile, Person 3 joins in from behind, offering the delicious double penetration. Person 4 will take the best seat, pleasuring themselves as they watch the others in action. 

Protip: If you want to level up your voyeurism, you can use a sex toy to stimulate yourself. U use the Angela to reach the highest point of pleasure, while matching it to the every thrust and moan of your partners.

6. The Oral Train

How: Person 1 lies on their back while Person 2 settles between their legs to give oral sex. Above person 1, Person 3 positions themselves on all fours, straddling Person 1’s mouth. Finally, Person 4 kneels or stands in front of Person 3 to receive oral sex. 

Protip: Person 2 is the only one who doesn’t receive an oral pleasure, but it doesn’t mean they can’t touch themselves. Take time to find the right angle, so the “train” will run smoothly. 

7. The Crossfire

How: Person 1 and Person 2 lie on their backs with their feet touching and legs spread to form a diamond shape. Person 3 and 4 straddle them, sitting back-to-back while facing their respective partners. This is a hot foursome sex position as it creates a mirror of movement and eye contact.

Protip: Use your free hand to stimulate your partner. You can also add the Kiala to the mix. These nipple massagers can take pleasure to the next level. 

8. The Pleasure Loop

How: The Pleasure Loop is almost the same as the Oral Train, except that the Person 2 now straddles Person 1, not giving him an oral. Person 1 lies comfortably on their back as Person 2 straddles them in a classic cowgirl position. Person 3 positions themselves on hands and knees over Person 1’s face, while Person 4 stands or kneels in front of Person 3 to enjoy some oral attention. 

Protip: Connect with the others through eye contact and subtle touches. Use varying paces and angles to provide different sensation. 

9. The Chain Reaction

How: All four partners line up on their feet or knees, one behind the other, creating a chain of connection where each person penetrates or pleasures the one in front. 

Protip: This foursome sex position frees up the hands, so you can use it to stimulate the partner or partners. You can also kiss your partner at the front on the lips or neck. You can also choose to switch it up so the person leading the train can also experience being penetrated or pleasured while also giving it to the one at their front. 

10. Mirrored Spoon

How: To receivers lie on their sides, facing each other, while their partners spoon them from behind. Each pair mirrors each other.  

Protip: If you’re the receiver, you can use your hands to stimulate yourself by rubbing your clit or stroking your cock. You can use some help with toys. If you have a vulva, the Magic Cane is perfect for a straightforward way to stimulate your clit with vibration. And if you have a penis, you can use the skullman, a thrusting and vibrating masturbator. 

Aftercare and Reflection

After the main course, it doesn’t mean that everyone can leave at the drop of the hat. What happens next is just as important. It’s important that everyone will leave the room feeling respected and not used. 

Here are some things you need to do after sex:

Physical Aftercare

Bodies work hard during a foursome, imagine stretching, thrusting, holding, bending, and angling. Because this can be like a fun workout, make sure to drink water afterwards. If it feels right, cuddle your partner or if you’re swinging, check out your real-life partner if they’re okay. 

Check for soreness, tightness, possible injuries. 

Emotional Assurance

Take a few minutes to talk, touch, or stay close. Whether you debrief as a group or in pairs or with your own partner. Share what felt amazing and be honest about anything that made you feel awkward or confused. 

Discussing Future Interest and Boundaries

Aftercare also open space for clarity. How did everyone feel about the setup? Ask what would you do or not do again, or if there are things that you need to change. 

Ask about comfort levels, roles, or specific positions. Keep everything transparent and consensual as desires can change.

Closure & Gratitude

Finally, seal the experience with appreciation. Thank each other for showing up with openness, respect, and consent. This will make everyone feel valued and not used. This also ensures that you have someone who will be down for it if you want another session. 

The Real Magic

Foursome seems fascinating and is a common fantasy. When four people come together, real magic happens when these fantasies are explored with respect and consent. 

Communication, comfort, and care are the basic must-haves. The positions, sensations, pleasure will all happen if everyone feels safe and seen. 
You can also enhance your experience by incorporating props and tools like lubes, pillows, and sex toys. And if you need one, just visit Beyourlover.com, a perfect place for real people exploring real pleasure.

If you and your partner want to have the best sex ever, it might be time to include a sex toy into the mix.

A sex toy is more than just a tool to reach the best orgasm. It can be a great way to transform a meh session into mind-blowing. It can help deepen your bond, spark curiosity in bed, and explore sensations you didn’t know you both had. 

Try to imagine this: your partner is holding the remote, while you’re tied to the bed (consensually, obviously). You’re completely at their mercy, every pulse, every vibration under their control. It’s hot, intimate, and the trust makes the pleasure hit even harder.

So yes, it’s time to level up your bedroom game with the best sex toys for couples. 

How to Choose a Couple’s Sex Toy

If you’re shopping for the best sex toy for couples, just think compatibility, rhythm, and vibe. The goal is to find something that will satisfy both the giver and the receiver, not just one person having all the fun. 

Here’s what to keep in mind:

Material Safety

Choosing a toy that uses body-safe materials is the most basic consideration. Look for medical-grade silicone, glass, stainless steel, or ABS plastic. Choose non-porous and easy-to-clean, something that won’t trap bacteria and other unpleasant beings. 

Noise Level and Discretion:

The toy’s motor shouldn’t have to sound like a leaf blower, like you’re announcing to the world that you’re having sex. Choose quiet toys, especially if you live with roommates. The world doesn’t have to know you’re having sex. 

Size, Shape, and Flexibility

Everybody’s different, so you really need to look for something comfortable and fitting. Choose shapes that work with both of your privates and won’t turn your romantic moment into a jigsaw puzzle. 

Features

Sex toys are made with different features, examples are vibration, suction, thrusting, and warming features. There are toys that are available that have multiple features. Choose the one based on your yum. 

Control Options

Many couples’ sex toys are versatile, just like the ones available at BeYourLover. Most of BeYourLover’s toys can be controlled both manually and through an app, giving you plenty of ways to play. This means you and your partner can stay intimate and connected, even when you’re miles apart. 

Battery Life and Rechargeability

Nothing kills the mood faster than your toy dying in the middle of the fun. Check the charge time, runtime, and whether it uses USB, magnetic charging, or batteries. 

Lube Compatibility

Always use water-based lubricants with silicone toys to keep the material in good shape. Think of it as skin care but for your sex life.

Functionality

Are you both into teasing and foreplay? Or are you gonna use it for full-body stimulation? Choose the best sex toy that fits your shared energy. 

Top Picks: 10 Recommended Sex Toys for Couples

Here are the best sex toys for couples in the market that will add excitement to your lovemaking session. 

Naughty Clock - App-Controlled Sucking Vibrator

Whoever said foreplay can’t be functional clearly never saw this clock. The Naught Clock is a game-changer for couples who want to keep their sex life spicy without giving away their secret bedtime weapon. 

On the outside, it’s just an innocent-looking alarm clock, which can be a perfect ornament for a nightstand even if you’ve got roommates, kids, or curious guests. 

But when the lights go off, you can use it to provide the most satisfaction.

Specifications: 

• Detachable dual design for flexible play - use together or separately
• 6 sucking and 9 vibrating modes for customizable sensations.
• App-controlled for long-distance connection
• Whisper-quiet motor for discreet use
• IPX6-waterproof for steamy shower sessions
• Doubles as a real alarm clock

Camera Alberta - App-Controlled Suction Vibrator and Nipple Clamps

If you’ve ever wished intimacy could be both playful and private, Camera Alberta might be the best sex toy for you. 

It looks like a mini-camera, which you can put on a nightstand or shelf. This 5-in-1 stimulator lets the giver take control from anywhere, making it perfect for couples who want connection beyond touch. 

Whether you’re across the room or country, the customizable suction and vibration patterns create a rhythm that syncs with your mood, your muscle, or even your voice. And when you live with kids and relatives, you can count on its discreet looks. 

Specification:

• App-controlled for remote play with chat, video, and music sync
• 5×5 suction intensity + 5×3 vibration pattern matrix
• Dual nipple clamps and G-spot stimulator for multi-sensory pleasure
• SonicPro suction technology for deeper sensations
• Discreet travel lock for privacy and portability

Squeeze Me - Touch-Responsive Wearable Suction & Tapping Vibrator

The Squeeze Me is designed for couples who want to have a deeper connection, because it’s more than just a vibrator. Whether you’re the giver holding the controls or the receiver surrendering your trust to your partner, this toy is responsive to touch. 

The harder you squeeze, the stronger the pulses, reading your body in real time. It’s the best sex toy for couples who want to build excitement and sync pleasure with their bedroom performance, even if you’re not in the same room.

The app lets partners play from afar. It’s like a foreplay you can feel even if there’s distance between you.

Specifications:

• Touch-responsive control that reacts to grip pressure
• Dual stimulation: clitoral suction + internal tapping
• Detachable cap for switching between suction and tapping
• 8 vibration and 8 suction/tapping modes
• Flexible arms to fit all body types comfortably
• App-controlled for hands-free or long-distance play

Magic Suitcase - Sleep Beauty

The Magic Suitcase is designed for couples who love to blur the lines between anticipation and satisfaction. This app-controlled toy can turn intimacy into exploration. 

The giver can take full control from anywhere by using the app, teasing the receiver with pulses and vibrations that sync to their bedroom performance. So, whether you’re together or worlds apart, its compact, travel-friendly design makes it the ultimate pleasure companion. 

Specifications: 

• 5 pulse suction modes for deep, rhythmic pleasure
• 10 vibration patterns for internal and external stimulation
• App-controlled for hands-free or long-distance play
• Compact travel case with self-charging feature (2 full charges per case)
• IPX6 waterproof and UV sterilization for easy cleaning and peace of mind

Redmii Rosalia - 3-in-1 Vibrating Penis Ring with Clitoral Stimulator

The Redmii Rosalia can heighten your shared moments. This dual-action toy brings both partners into sync. The snug, stretchy ring keeps the receiver feeling full and throbbing with arousal while the rose-shaped stimulator caresses the most sensitive spots. 

Both partners experience the slow-build, full-body sensation that keeps them hooked on each other. 

Specifications:

• 3-in-1 design: vibrating ring + clitoral stimulator + remote control
• 10 vibration modes for tailored sensations
• Soft, body-safe silicone for comfort and flexibility
• Easy to clean
• Perfect fit for secure, shared pleasure during partner play

Fatima - 2-in-1 Detachable Suction, Thrusting & Heating Vibrator

The Fatima is an all-in-one toy for couples who want a dynamic, body-to-body connection. Unlike the others, it brings the heat, combining deep thrusts, pulsing suction, and customizable warmth that mimics skin-to-skin contact.

It also has a detachable design that makes every session feel like new. It definitely turns ordinary nights into exciting adventures.

Specifications:

• Dual stimulation: thrusting shaft + suction tip
• 10 vibration and 7 thrusting modes for tailored pleasure
• Dual-head heating for realistic warmth
• Detachable design for mix-and-match sensations
• Quiet, body-safe, ultra-soft silicone
• USB magnetic charging (2.5 mm, 100 cm cable)
• Ergonomic shape ideal for partnered play

Earpod Alggie - App-Controlled Suction Vibrator with Charging Case

Don’t be fooled by Alggie’s innocent, “just-an-earbod” disguise. BeYourLover’s Earpod Alggie is tiny, travel-friendly, and definitely a mind-blowing sex toy for couples. You can easily include it in the mix while you’re in your lovemaking session. 

Partners can enjoy its whisper-quiet suction that builds and pulses at the right places. The app control adds a thrill of anticipation, turning boring sex into an exciting experience. Compact, discreet, and powerful. This little “earpod” is what you need for a quick, fun, and deep connection. 

Specifications:

• 5 suction modes (expandable to 11 via app)
• Smart app control for custom patterns and long-distance play
• Built-in charging case for easy travel and storage
• Whisper-quiet and IPX6 waterproof
• Compact and discreet

BDSM Red Bondage Kit

If passion had a color, it would be this shade of red: bold, daring, and impossible to ignore. The BeYourLover BDSM Red Bondage Kit is for couples who are looking for intensity, control, trust, and surrender.

It helps build connection, communication, and excitement among partners by letting you into the world of BDSM. This kit is designed to turn your bedroom into a mini playground for desire and, of course, pleasure. 

Specifications:

• Complete 7-piece bondage set for guided exploration
• Includes ball gag, handcuffs, ankle cuffs, blindfold, paddle, leash, and collar
• Adjustable restraints for comfort and control
• Soft, durable materials for safety and extended play

Toycod Barzillai - App-Controlled Double-Ring Penis Vibrator for Couples

Toycod Barzillai has a double-ring design that keeps the giver harder and longer while providing deep, rhythmic vibrations that pulse through both partners. The soft silicone hugs tight without discomfort, creating an intense, full-body experience every time you move together.

And thanks to the app control, both partners can choose between teasing and thrilling from anywhere, hands-free. 

Specifications:

• Super-stretchy double-ring design enhances endurance and comfort
• Powerful vibrations stimulate both partners simultaneously
• Recessed silicone texture for added G-spot and external pleasure
• App-controlled for customizable, hands-free play
• Triple stimulation for maximum intensity

Usagi - Rabbit Ear Cock Ring

Usagi allows you to experience play and power. Usagi is a double-duty pleasure ring that turns intimacy into a hot experience. Its soft bunny-ear tips are not just cute but also designed to tease, pulse vibrations, and stimulate anything it touches.

The adjustable strap offers a snug, body-safe fit that makes both partners feel comfortable with each movement. The wireless remote makes your experience more exciting by keeping things unpredictable. 

It’s the best sex toy for couples, whether you want to try something new or level up your current game. 

Specifications:

• Bunny ear design for dual stimulation and playful vibration
• Adjustable strap ensures a secure, universal fit
• 10 customizable vibration modes, including a high-power booster
• Wireless remote for hands-free, partner-controlled fun

Tips for Sex Toy Maintenance and Safety

The afterglow might want you to just toss the toy on the nightstand and pass out in each other's arms, but pause a while. You can show further love to your partner and to your own body by doing an aftercare on your pleasure tools. Here are what you should do after using a sex toy:

Clean and Sanitize

If you wouldn’t eat off it, don’t put it near your genitals. Wash it after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Note that before you wash it, make sure to remove the batteries or unplug it from the charging ports.

After washing, air-dry it completely.

Throw Old Toys

I know it’s hard to say goodbye to a toy that gives you so much pleasure, but if it has cracks and discoloration, it’s time to find a replacement for it. This is your best excuse to find a better sex toy.

Use Condoms

Sex toys for couples are often shared, so it’s best to use condoms, especially if it’s anal-to-vaginal transitions or between multiple users. 

Store the Toys in a Secured Place

It’s best if you store your toy in a soft cloth pouch to keep the dust and lint out. Avoid plastic bags or just tossing it away in your drawer. Keep them away from heat, sunlight, and nosy roommates. 

So Here’s the Vibe

Finding the right sex toy for couples isn’t about chasing the wildest gadgets or buying anything that looks nifty. It’s about finding the one that fits your couple yum. When you find the best sex toy, it will surely transform your boring sex into an exciting session. 

And if you’re looking for the best place that gets what modern intimacy looks like, visit beyourlovers.com.  

Wanna make your night a bit “different” with a steamy threesome?

But before you jump in headfirst, here’s the scoop: threesomes aren’t just a walk in the park. There’s some serious chatting, planning, and prep to make sure everyone’s having a blast (and please, no drama allowed).

So, how about you buckle up because we’re diving into the hottest 10 threesome sex positions to help you rock that triple-play like a pro. Because let’s be real, getting double the attention is way more fun!

What’s So Awesome About Having a Threesome?

Ever wondered what makes playing with two people so damn exciting?

If you’re flying solo and dreaming of teaming up with fun and unattached people, it’s all about letting loose, having a blast, and living out those wild fantasies.

Other than getting creative with new positions, doing threesomes will also help you find what really gets you going and learn more about your own desires. So it’s basically changing the game while having a crazy fun time.

And if you’re part of a couple, a third player can seriously add some sizzle to your love life too! And seeing your partner getting intimate with someone else? It’s a major turn-on alert!

But here’s some heads up: threesomes can also stir up some wild emotions like jealousy and guilt if you’re not ready for the feels. So, communication and trust are your best friends here. 

Before Your Threesome Party Starts, Here’s What You Need to Know

Thinking about having a threesome tonight? First, if you’re still hunting for a third, it’s best to make sure you’re with like-minded people, and be aware of the following:

Talk It Out First

Before anything else, have a serious chat with everyone involved by setting those clear boundaries and expectations.

This can include talking about what acts are on or off the table (oral, vaginal, anal, etc.) and agreeing about what safe word to use to stop anytime, especially if someone feels uncomfortable.

Set Ground Rules

Boundaries aren’t just suggested, because they’re very crucial.

Everyone needs to be on the same page about consent, limits, and what’s cool to try. So you can avoid awkward moments and keep the whole vibe fun and respectful.

Keep It Safe

Safety first! Always use a new condom for each partner and every switch to prevent infections.

And as stated by Kirstie Cunningham of Metro Health and Wellness, condoms made for penises are 98% effective if they’re used properly.

Communication is Key

The best threesomes happen when everyone feels respected, heard, and excited.

So if someone’s just going along to please another person, then that’s a red flag. Make sure that this whole thing is mutual, enthusiastic, and no pressure.

The Position Variations for Threesome Combos (MMF and FFM)

If you’ve been daydreaming about having a threesome, you’re definitely not alone, because it’s one of the most popular sexual fantasies out there!

In fact, as stated by Ellie Hunt of the Guardian, among the surveyed 4,175 individuals from a study, roughly around 87.95% of penis owners and 87% of vulva owners had fantasized about having sex with multiple partners.

But let’s be real, with all those limbs, mouths, and fun spots to focus on, you’ll want a game plan before you dive in.

Threesomes can also come in all shapes and sizes, but the two main combos you should know about are:

• MMF (Male-Male-Female) - Or we can also say two penis owners with one vulva owner. And this one’s a classic dynamic where different roles and positions let everyone enjoy the fun.
• FFM (Female-Female-Male) - This next variation has a penis owner and two vulva owners, and often involves toys, oral play, and varied angles.

See, these gendered pronouns are just here to keep things clear, but remember, these moves can be adapted by anyone, anywhere!

10 Threesome Sex Positions You’ve Gotta See (With Visuals!)

Alright, party people! Are you ready to level up your bedroom game with these next-level threesome moves? 

1. The Oral Overload

Feeling a little nervous about jumping into an MMF threesome? No worries, because this first position is perfect to calm those nerves.

How to Do It

• Have the receiver sit comfortably on a chair or at the edge of the bed with legs spread wide open. 
• One giver can get down on their knees between the receiver’s legs to give some serious oral action, while the second giver showers their erogenous zones.
• Both givers can also focus on the neck, chest, and inner thighs with kisses, nibbles, or gentle touches.

Pro Tips

• Use pillows under the receiver’s hips to keep things comfy and give the kneeling partner less neck strain.
• A clit vibrator can do wonders to send the receiver straight to cloud nine for an all-around mind-blowing combo.

2. Doggy Blowjob

Are you ready for a steamy position that can hit all the right spots? Then the doggy blowjob is where the classic doggy style meets that mind-blowing oral action.

How to Do It

• One giver gets down on all fours and goes in doggy style with the receiver.
• Meanwhile, the other giver lies comfortably on their back to receive some delicious oral action.

Pro Tips

• Make sure that the lying giver has some pillows for extra comfort, because nobody likes having neck cramps mid-session.
• Vibrating cock rings are great for doggy positions to keep the excitement high for everyone.

3. The Change-Up

The change-up can be your next go-to move for some serious oral fun and role-play vibes.

How to Do It

• Both givers can stand tall while the receiver kneels between them.
• The receiver starts by giving one giver a blowjob while helping out the other using their hands.
• When it’s time, the receiver switches and gives the other giver the same loving attention.

Pro Tips

• Kneeling can get tough, so you can throw down some comfy pillows or cushions to keep things cozy.
• Use tons of lube to keep everything smooth and enjoyable.

4. One Oral, One Penetrating

Want a threesome position that’s super satisfying for everyone and easy to set up? Say hello to this fourth sex position, where pleasure is shared all around!

How to Do It

• Start by having the giver lie down flat on their back, while the other partner straddles their hips to get penetrated.
• Next, the other partner hops up and rides their face to go all-in with oral action. 

Pro Tips

• Communicate and switch it up! The two on top can turn 90 or 180 degrees to change the angle and keep things engaging. 
• A multi-tool love toy can give surprise buzzes to build anticipation while multitasking.

5. The Doggy Train

The doggy train position is perfect if you want to keep everyone involved and super satisfied.

How To Do It

• The giver is the “caboose” of the train, as they go doggy style and penetrate their partner from behind.
• The middle partner is on their knees too, bent forward, either digitally penetrating or going down on the “head of the train”.
• The head stays on all fours in classic doggy style.

Pro Tips

• The penetrating partner at the back should be mindful to keep the rhythm steady so the partner giving oral can stay comfortable.
• Nipple suckers work great on the “head of the train” to boost pleasure while they’re getting oral or digital stimulation.

6. Triple Missionary

If you love the classic missionary position for its closeness and skin-to-skin vibes, wait till you try this one, where three people get to share that deep, intimate connection all at once!

How to Do It

• Start by having the first receiver lie flat on their back to serve as the base.
• The middle partner straddles the bottom partner like a regular missionary, while facing them.
• After that, the giver kneels behind the middle partner and slides in as the penetrator.

Pro Tips

• The middle partner will be holding some weight, so the top partner can help out by reaching around to stimulate the middle partner’s erogenous zones.
• A wand massager tucked between the bottom and middle partners can deliver feel-good vibes without needing a lot of hands-on focus.

7. The Emmanuel Blowjob

Want a double oral? Wait until you try the Emmanuel blowjob for a delicious combo of cunnilingus and blowjob to make things hotter!

How to Do It

• Have the penis owner lie back on a comfy bed.
• One receiver straddles their face, while having their knees on either side of their head.
• Next, they can gently lower their vulva onto the other’s mouth to eat them out.
• Meanwhile, the second receiver lies flat on their tummy while going down on the penis owner.

Pro Tips

• The receiver on top can take control by gently pulling the giver’s face closer.
• Switch up after a while. The receiver can swap roles so everyone gets a turn in the spotlight.
• Go slow and watch out for gag reflex moments, especially if the giver goes too deep.

8. Double Stuffing

If you saw “double” in the title, you probably thought of double penetration, right? Well, you’re spot on! 

How to Do It

• Start by having the receiver in the classic cowgirl position and let them straddle one penetrator.
• Once settled, the second penetrator kneels behind to enter the receiver.
• If the receiver has a vagina, the straddling partner takes vaginal penetration while the other one goes for anal.
• If no vagina, double anal penetration works too, but with lots of lube, obviously!

Pro Tips

• Go slow, especially at the start, to let the receiver control the pace and depth.
• Always communicate, check in, and adjust, because comfort is king here.

9. Eiffel Tower

Ready for one of the most visually iconic threesome positions? The Eiffel Tower is where oral meets penetration in perfect harmony.

How to Do It

• The receiver can get down on all fours, while one giver penetrates them from behind.
• Next, the other partner positions themselves to receive an oral.
• To become the Eiffel Tower, the two outside partners can reach up and hold hands over the middle partner.

Pro Tips

• Make sure all partners communicate, especially the one in the middle, because they’re getting hit from both sides.
• Switch up the pace and positions by trying variations, like flipping the middle partner onto their back or side, to change the angle.
• Using a wearable clitoral vibrator for the middle partner can boost pleasure while they’re getting oral and penetrated.

10. The Daisy Chain

Want a threesome position where everyone gets to give and receive at the same time? Say hello to the daisy chain, a three-person version of the classic 69.

How to Do It

• To begin, everyone can lie on their side to form a circle or triangle shape.
• The first partner starts by giving oral to the second partner, who is simultaneously giving oral to the third partner, and the third partner is going down on the first partner. So they can create an endless loop of pleasure.

Pro Tips

• Neck and head fatigue are real, so grab pillows or cushions to stay comfy.
• Take breaks if needed because this position can get intense with all the multitasking.
• Try a remote-controlled vibe to surprise and tease your partners during the round-robin action.

The Perks of Going for a Threesome Adventure

If it’s planned right, it can seriously level up your sex life in ways you didn’t even know were possible.

Get Ready to Explore Like Never Before

A threesome opens up a whole new playground to experiment with positions, touches, and sensations that you’ve probably never tried before.

Level Up Your Lovin’ Skills

Juggling two partners is an opportunity to get better at multitasking and tuning into what really turns people on. So you can treat it like your own crash course in adult pleasure.

Break the Boring Routine

Let’s be honest, sex can sometimes get predictable. So a threesome can shake things up, creates fresh vibes, and keeps the flame burning bright.

It Builds Trust and Excitement With Your Partner

If you’re doing this as a couple, and by sharing the experience, it can bring you closer if you handle things right with respect.

Feel Empowered and Free

Saying yes to a threesome is like stepping outside the box. So you can own your desires to help boost your confidence and open your mind.

Tips to Keep Everyone Included to Avoid That “Left Out” Feeling

Threesomes are amazing, but they can get tricky if someone feels ignored or left out. How to keep the vibe fun and inclusive for every folk? 

Communication is Key

Before you even start, talk openly about boundaries, fantasies, and what everyone’s comfortable with. You can also check in regularly during the action to make sure everyone’s feeling good and included.

Rotate Roles and Focus

Switch up who’s giving, receiving, and watching. Because, by rotating roles, it keeps things fresh, so no one’s stuck on the sidelines for too long.

Use Positions That Involve Everyone

Pick positions where all three partners are actively involved, like the daisy chain. It’s also best to avoid setups where one person ends up just watching or feeling excluded.

Include Sensual Touching

Even if the main action is happening, make sure that the “third wheel” still gets some tender loving touch, kisses, or massage.

Respect Everyone’s Pace

Some people might warm up slower, so be patient and supportive. Make sure no one feels pressured to jump in before they’re ready.

Post-Play Hangout

After the threesome, spend time cuddling or talking as a group, as it helps everyone feel connected and appreciated after the intense experience.

Ace Your Threesome Game For An Unforgettable Experience!

So there you have it, that’s everything you need to know about having a hot, fun, and fully satisfying threesome experience!

From killer positions and pro tips to the best toys for your sexy time, you’re now armed to make sure everyone’s included, comfortable, and having a blast.

Remember, communication, consent, and creativity are the front-runners for an unforgettable threesome. So always prioritize everyone’s pleasure and comfort.

But if you’re ready to take your threesome game to the next level, you can always head over to BeYourLover for the best selection of sex toys and accessories designed to enhance your intimate moments. Trust us, your threesome won’t know what hit it!

Did you get a new vibrator and want to discover the sex position that will work for you? Then, you better check these vibrator-friendly positions out to surely transform your experience. Perfect for beginners and seasoned users as well!

So, if you’re now ready for new ways to connect, these best sex positions with a vibrator are guaranteed to bring fresh excitement to your connection.

Enhance Your Sex Life Using a Vibrator

If you always thought that vibrators are just made for solo play, then you better think again! Actually, these dependable tools can be a game-changer when used during partnered sex as well.

Those buzzing wonders can stimulate all the erogenous zones in your body, no matter your gender, so every pleasure becomes personal.

Here’s a fun fact: for lots of people with vulvas, toys aren’t just a nice-to-have; they’re a must-have for hitting climax. As stated by Julia Margo of The Femedic, 51-60% of vulva owners can achieve orgasm more when clitoral stimulation is given, compared with 21-30% who achieved the Big O just by using penetrative sex alone.

But if you're feeling a bit shy about inviting your partner, well, it’s totally normal, and just remember that vibrators aren’t just a fun extra, because they’re the secret sauce to give your pleasure an extra boost.

The Must-Try Sex Positions to Make Your Vibrator Shine

Today, using toys during sex is becoming more and more normalized. So, let’s find out the best sex positions with a vibrator that you can use tonight.

Spooning

Spooning rocks because the receiver’s front area is so wide open for some easy toy access. Plus, it’s like a chill-out position that uses minimal effort, while their hands are free to vibe with themselves.

Toy Pick: A sucking clitoral vibrator works best for this one. Because it’s so tiny, light, and easy to use, it goes right where it counts.

How to Play:

• The receiver can lie down or relax using a pillow or their partner’s arm for some head support.
• Next, the giving partner can lie beside the receiver to be the big spoon.
• After that, the receiver can take control by using their free hand to vibe on their clitoris, neoclitoris, or perineum.
• But want to make things hotter? The giver can also hold the toy and sneak it around so they can create a buzz while they penetrate.

Missionary

Why will the missionary position always score? Because it’s a classic and something that you know and love. But of course, it’s best to add a naughty vibe to keep the pleasure going.

Toy Pick: Going for a wearable internal vibe will do the magic.

How to Play: 

• The receiver can lie comfortably, while the giver can place themselves on top of them.
• The receiving partner can also slip their hand or toy inside so they can enjoy a double bliss.
• By teasing their G-spot inside and clit outside, that’s pure pleasure harmony!
• For trans or non-binary folks, you can also stimulate the perineum, neoclitoris, or other areas that are unique to your body.

Cowgirl/Cowboy

So, you’re locked face-to-face, whispering sweet nothings and giving naughty commands. Nothing more sizzling than that, is there?

And because your genitals are grinding so close, then you’ll likely need a toy that adds a little pinch for an extra thrill.

Toy Pick: The giver can use a multi-sensory toy to tease and please their partner more.

How to Play: 

• The giver can lie on a surface while the receiver straddles their partner into a “horse riding” position.
• During penetration, the giving partner can gently clip the clamps around the base of the nipples. If they want, they can also stimulate the clitoris or neoclitoris, as well as the anal area.
• For the receiver, they can use their free hands to explore other zones or take charge of their pleasure.

Doggy Style

During doggy style, the receiver can have a lot of open space for easy toy access.

Toy Pick: A rabbit vibrator is so flexible and multi-use, so you both can find the sensation that works best for this position. 

How to Play:

• The receiving partner can start by positioning themselves on all fours, while the giving partner kneels behind them to find the best angle for penetration.
• Next, the receiver can support themselves using one hand and use the other to pleasure their clitoris or neoclitoris with their toy during penetration.
• Or, they could pleasure themselves and do some anal stimulation at the same time.
• If the receiver has a penis, they can also choose to aim the toy at their perineum to feel those powerful vibrations.

Sitting

If the receiving partner is into anal or vaginal stimulation but wants something deeper, then here’s a total playground. 

You can call this position more “advanced” because during penetration, you can use a combination of toys to double the fun!

Toy Pick: You can grab a versatile BDSM kit for this position, and if you prefer, you can also add more goodies like anal plugs to perk things up.

How to Play:

• The giving partner can sit comfortably on a stable couch or cushioned chair, then the receiver can sit on their partner’s lap while facing each other.
• While the giving partner straddles, the giver can choose to put on some restraints like handcuffs or blindfolds to heighten the receiver’s senses.
• Once penetration is done and everything’s in place, they can also incorporate an anal plug if the couple is into anal play as well. It’s a great position for touching the G-spot or P-spot as you move together.

The Blower

Who says you can’t amplify the fun while going down with your partner? 

Because in this next position in our best sex positions with a vibrator list, you’ll be the boss!

Toy Pick: If you’re a vulva owner, you can use an egg vibrator for pleasure just within your reach. And for penis owners, you won’t go wrong with thrusting and vibrating toys to give yourself some love while giving some vibes.

How to Play:

• First, the partner to be pleasured stays upright as one kneels down to find the perfect angle for pleasure.
• The receiving partner can start to blow or give their partner some oral as they put their one hand on their partner’s hip for support.
• After that, their other free hand can hold their toy to pleasure themselves while they go down.

Incorporating Vibrators During Oral Sex or Non-Penetration

Do you know that you can make oral sex and non-penetrative play more exciting with the help of vibrators?

It’s Your Pleasure Sidekick

You can treat your vibrator as the best team player you ever had. Whether you’re into some tongue action or just fingers, using a vibrator can bring sensations to lips, tongues, and hands.

If you want no penetration at all, you can use its vibrating power for stimulating the clit, neoclitoris, perineum, nipples, inner thighs, butt, or whatever spot that gets your motor running.

Enjoyed by All Bodies

Most vibrators come in all shapes, sizes, and styles, just like people. And because pleasure isn’t a one-size-fits-all, many brands are now making toys specifically for queer, trans, and non-binary bodies. Remember, your pleasure, your rules!

Combine Toys for a Multi-Sensory Stimulation!

Combining toys during play is like throwing an awesome party for all your senses. Everything comes together like a pleasure festival.

Just imagine pairing a clitoral vibrator together with a butt plug, all of this while your partner’s hands and mouth explore your body. These combos can hit differently and can give you orgasms that you didn’t think were possible.

Mixing toys means you’re free to customize your party vibe, whether internal, external, anal, or wherever, and communication is always key when finding what tickles your fancy.

Some Tips For You

• Use a strong vibrator on the labia while focusing the tongue on the clitoral or neoclitoral head.
• Alternate by using mouth and tongue to mix sensations
• Use curved toys when combining penetration with oral play
• Use anal toys like butt plugs or beads during oral sex to create different pleasure combinations

The Misconceptions About Combining Penetrative Sex and Vibrator Play

Now, let’s bust some myths, because throwing a vibrator into penetrative sex isn’t going to ruin anything. When in fact, it might be the other way around, because it’s a total game-changer.

Myth 1: Vibrators Will Replace Your Partner

Nope, these tools aren’t rivals; as we’ve mentioned, they’re sidekicks. You can think of them as your pleasure hype crew to hit those spots that your mouth and hands can’t reach all at once.

Myth 2: Those Buzzes Will Make You Numb

False alarm, because vibrators aren’t meant to permanently dull your nerves. Sure, sometimes a toy can speed things up, so a combination of balance and communication will surely get you to that whole new level of magic.

Myth 3: Vibrators Are Only for Vulva Owners

Heck no, because vibrators love all bodies! From cock rings that add a buzzing thrill to the shaft or base to toys that caress nipples, pleasure is universal.

Myth 4: Vibrators Are for Solo Play

Oh, sweet pea, vibrators and partners are bliss! Perfect for keeping things hyped during penetrative sex, they can make erections last longer, maintain a hotter playtime, and give mind-blowing orgasms. They just amp up the intimacy.

But, Is Flexibility and Strength a Factor During Vibrator-Friendly Positions?

Flexibility and strength can surely play a role in vibrator-friendly positions, but the good news is that there’s something for everyone, no contortionist skills required!

Some positions may even encourage relaxation once the body is being supported, like lying back with pillows or elevating the hips for better angles and comfort.

For others, they prefer sitting on the edge of a chair or bed, especially if the position requires balance to stay steady when using toys. Leaning on a wall or furniture can also help take the pressure off and make things stable, particularly for plus-sized folks.

Gender-Neutral Options and Positions Work Well for Non-Binary and Trans People, Too!

Guess what? Everyone’s invited! These best sex positions with a vibrator aren’t just made for one kind of body and identity, because there are so many ways to make the vibrator play comfy, exciting, and totally YOU.

And toys now often come with adjustable straps and versatile shapes and designs to fit every body. 

Sex toys can also be so beneficial for your sex life, because as stated by Ellie Cooper of birrd, it has a lot of perks, like:

• Exploring and learning exactly what feels amazing for you
• Sex toys can help break the awkwardness and create open and playful talks
• Toys can help with self-esteem and confidence
• Using them can send you into a calm state, which is perfect for a deep, restful sleep
• They can support treating sexual dysfunction by enhancing sensation, relaxation, and connection

Ready, Set, Buzz!

When it comes to trying the best sex positions with a vibrator, you’re not just playing around, but you’re throwing a full-on pleasure party!

You don’t have to be a yoga guru or contortionist to get in on this action, because there’s a vibe for everybody and every mood.
But if you’re ready to get your buzz on, then you better head over to BeYourLover and discover our sizzling collection of vibrators designed for your pleasure and convenience. Because why settle for good when you can get that glorious buzzing, right?