What are Sex Toys for Men?

Sex toys for men. Commonly left unspoken but they deserve your attention. They come in different shapes, sizes and colors . Also made of different types of materials. But they all have one common goal.

To provide pleasure to men. There’s a floating misconception that sex toys are just for women. Hate to tell you this. But that’s wrong. Sex toys can help men too. They’re made to meet a man’s sexual needs in a convenient way. 

These toys will also boost your confidence and improve your sexual stamina. Men have sexual needs too. You’re going to find features that will specifically cater to your body’s stimulation, arousal and climax. 

Some of them give you enjoyment while simultaneously providing pleasure to your partner. Pretty cool and hot at the same time. These toys will help you enjoy sex at your own pace and your own time. 

Explore your body with no hassle at all. Come in. Add a dose of variety to your private playtime. Having some solo time? Or bonding with your partner? One thing is for sure. Pleasure is within your reach!

Masturbator

You’ll find that masturbators are the most popular sex toys for men. Think of them as devices you can use to emulate the feeling of having intercourse. Or oral sex. They have options or features you can play with.

You can pick a straightforward silicone sleeve. But if you want a high-tech twist, you can also use a masturbator with vibration, suction and heating features. With a discreet design, some masturbators look like badass gadgets.

How to Use a Masturbator

For your pleasure and comfort, start with applying  water-based lubricant on your penis. You can also apply a decent amount of lube on the masturbator sleeve. Slowly insert yourself into that come-inducing toy.

Move it up and down. At a pace that feels good for you. Try experimenting with its features. Speed, grip or angles that you find exciting. Combine it with other vibrating toys for extra sexy sensations.

Control the pace, pressure and style with a masturbator. If you’re looking for a discreet and cool-looking masturbator, no need to go for a tedious search. BeYourLover’s Skullman will take care of you! 

Pretty high-tech and rock-n-roll right? Of course, very sexy too.

Penis Sleeve and Extender

Penis sleeves and extenders are worth checking out if you want to switch things up. You know, add something extra. Do you want more girth or length? These toys are going to be your reliable helpers when it comes to additional size.

That boost in size and confidence will improve your mood in bed. You can try checking out sleeves with bumps or ribs. Their texture will give you and your partner that additional friction, enhanced pleasure during penetrative sex.

How to Use a Penis Sleeve/Extender

Again, before you insert your penis into the sleeve/extender, apply some of that ever reliable lube first. Slide it in like a comfy glove. Make sure it fits securely. Not too tight, not too loose. Now that you’re set, you can start having intercourse.

With the additional size, you’re going to have a confidence boost. And a more enjoyable time during your intimate acts. If you’re using them with a partner, communicate. So you can ensure feelings of comfort and mutual pleasure.

Cock Ring

If you’ve never tried a cock ring, the name itself might intimidate you. But relax for a second there. A cock ring is a toy that might be the tool that you’ll need to up your sex game. Usually made of rubber, silicone and sometimes, metal.

It’s something that you put at the base of your penis (or your penis and testicles). For what? You’re probably asking. To temporarily restrict blood flow out of your erect penis. So you can have a firmer and longer-lasting erection.

How to Use a Cock Ring

Slide the ring on your semi-erect or fully erect penis. Not when it’s flaccid so you can avoid the discomfort. See to it that the fit is snug. Not too tight. Once the ring is in place, you can start having mind-blowing intercourse with your awesome partner. 

Wear it for 20 to 30 minutes max for your safety. You can wear it on its own or use other toys too while you’re having sex. Do you want cock/penis rings that look and feel nice? For you and your partner? 

Well, look no further my friend.

Check out these cock rings with sexy features!

Love Doll

Let’s continue with love/sex dolls. They are lifelike, full-sized dolls on a mission to please you. Often made of soft materials like silicone. You’re going to find some of them have movable joints. 

With customizable hair and faces too. They’re especially made for your pleasure. If you’re playing solo but don’t want to feel alone, a love doll would be your great companion. A companion that will take care of your desires. 

Great way to practice your sexual moves! You can emulate penetrative sex with them. A doll’s anatomy is similar to a human’s body. Private parts and all. As long as you’re not going overboard with using it.

You’re going to have a great time with love dolls. They’re interesting and pleasurable items to add to your erotic toy collection.

How to Use a Love Doll

There’s really no “right” way to use your love doll. It would depend on what you wanted from your experience with it. The realistic visuals and feelings will stimulate you. You can try different sex positions with it.

But it would also depend on your doll’s features and versatility. So if you’re going to emulate intercourse with it, make sure to use some lubricant. Insert your penis into its orifices. Make sure that the doll you’re using is clean and well maintained.

Just like with any sex toys you’re using, always keep hygiene in mind. You can try using a condom as well. So you can avoid any traces of semen from messing, contaminating your doll’s inner, private parts.

Prostate Massager

Prostate massagers are designed for anal and prostate stimulation/play. Your prostate is considered the male G-Spot. A small, walnut-sized gland inside your rectum. Many men haven’t really tried them. It’s similar to a dildo/vibrator. 

But more focused on stimulating your anal area. But maybe you’re one of those who wanted to check these out. Stimulating your prostate will make you experience more intense orgasms than what you’re used to. 

How to get that job done for you? By getting a sex toy like a prostate massager.

How to Use a Prostate Massager

Since rectal insertion is involved here, you’re going to need to relax first. Take it slow. Use plenty of water-based lube for a smoother access. You can start with a smaller sized massager if you’re a beginner.

Gently insert it into your anus. Aimed towards your belly button. Gently explore by moving the massager gently. Do shallow thrusts or make the device vibrate if that’s an option. These massagers usually come with curved shapes.

So you can easily find that sweet spot. Your prostate. Don’t rush it alright? Gentle movements would usually do the job. It’s a massage. A very intimate one. You can use them during solo play or with your partner for more excitement.

Pocket Pussy

If you are looking for something simple or discreet, getting a pocket pussy is a fantastic choice buddy. It would be your go-to toy to enjoy straightforward, lifelike sensations. A pocket pussy is a soft and flexible sleeve.

Usually made of silicone or TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer), it can mimic the feel of a vagina. Depending on the design, you can also feel oral or anal sensations from it. 

A pocket pussy is small enough to fit in your hand or pocket. Hence the name. What a fantastic, super convenient way to feel good anywhere you go! That sexy pleasure is right in your pocket. Looking for a pocket pussy? Get a cute one here!

How to Use a Pocket Pussy

Start with the usual. Apply a good amount of lube in the sleeve and on your penis for a smoother entry. Slowly insert your penis to it and move it up and down. At your own pace. Fast or slow strokes, deep or shallow, completely up to you! 

Your pocket pussy might have some bumps or ridges inside. Not a thing to worry about. They’re there to give your penis additional stimulation. Enjoy each stroke until you climax. 

You can also ask your sexy partner to give you a helping hand when it comes to stroking. After use, it’s time to thoroughly clean up your pleasure-giving toy. With some mild soap and warm water.

Penis Pump

A penis pump is a clear cylinder where you put your penis in to increase your confidence and stamina. With power from batteries, it will give you suction that draws blood into your penis. To give you a stronger erection.

You can consider it as a toy that shares the same goal with a cock ring. Temporarily restrict blood flow to make your penis harder and stronger for sexy action. This thing is just not a toy for pleasure and enhancement. 

Imagine your penis hulking up for a fun, sexy moment. That’s what a pump does. If you’re having a hard time staying hard, pardon the pun. Penis pump is also your handy tool when it comes to erectile dysfunction.

How to Use a Penis Pump

Place the pump’s cylinder over your penis. Use it to gently create suction. After a few moments, you’ll feel some tight sensations on your genital area. That was your blood flow increasing to make your erection firmer.

Please don’t overdo it. Use the pump carefully to avoid any kind of discomfort or injury. Use that pump for about 10 minutes. When your penis is hard enough, take the cylinder out. 

You can also get some help from a cock ring. After removing the pump’s cylinder to prolong your erection. Then, you can start the sexy action going. Time to masturbate or enjoy intercourse with your delightful hard-on.

Cleaning and Maintenance Tips

• You should clean your sex toys immediately after use. Wash them with warm water. With mild soap as well. You can try using a dedicated toy cleaner and keep harmful stuff at bay.

• Dry them thoroughly. Pat your toys dry with a clean towel and let it absorb excess 

moisture. Air drying is the way to go before you store them to avoid mold or mildew.

• Use cornstarch to keep them smooth and free from sticky stuff. For your silicone/TPE toys, you can use renewing powder.

• Store ‘em properly. To keep your erotic treasures in optimal shape, put them in a cool and dry place after doing your clean-up. Get your cloth bags or moist-free containers/boxes ready. Keep ‘em away from sunlight and extreme temperatures.

Advantages of Having Sex Toys for Men

The biggest advantage you’re gonna have by owning these toys is having the ability to explore your own pleasure at your own pace. Learning what works and feels good. Once you’re aware of them, you’re gonna have a fun time solo or with your partner.

Here’s another advantage. Using toys can spice things up in your sex life. Just like women’s toys, sex toys for men adds an exciting twist to your adult-oriented playtime. Each item you’ve got will break the monotony of your intimate moments.

These naughty playthings, they’re gonna boost your confidence too. Nothing beats a sexy time filled with fun and confidence right? So grab a sex toy you like with the confidence that you’re rocking. While rocking your hard-on. 

So awesome. Lastly, they’re super convenient. Fantastic items to bring if you’re a busy body on a hectic schedule. Using them allows you to relieve stress and meet your sexual needs on the go.

Bottom Line

Let these toys join you in a brand new journey to embrace your own pleasure. Discover what makes you feel good. Without judgement or unnecessary pressure you know. You’re always free to pick something that works for you.

There’s no right or wrong way for you to enjoy these naughty playthings. As long as you’re not compromising your safety, you’re going to be golden. So go ahead, be curious and spoil yourself for a while. Visit the BeYourLover adult store, grab a toy or two and enjoy your new sexual adventures!

Whatever brought you here, you’re in the right place. We’re going to guide you through finding the best sex toy for women, and by the time you’re done reading, you’ll be ready to choose with confidence.

What Is a Sex Toy

You probably already have a general idea, but let’s get real for a moment. A sex toy is any device people use to stimulate themselves or a partner during intimate moments.

But they’re not just “fun extras,” they can be your ultimate tool for discovering what works for you and what doesn’t. Once you know what kind of touch, pressure, and movement you enjoy, your partnered experiences can go from “nice” to mind-blowing.

According to Contemporary OB/GYN, 80% of women in the U.S. have used a vibrator. Yes, you read that right, eight out of ten. It’s because many women face sexual dissatisfaction, low libido, trouble reaching orgasm, or even painful sex. And toys can help. 

7 Different Reasons People Use Sex Toys

The truth is, there’s no “right” reason to use a sex toy; it’s all about what feels good for you. But here are the most common ones: 

1. Compensate for Sexual Dissatisfaction

Let’s be honest, a lot of women aren’t completely happy with their sex lives.

Healthywomen.org reports that 62% of women admit they’re not satisfied. For many, toys are the game-changer. Plenty of people with vulvas say a toy is the only way they reach orgasm, especially during solo play. 

2.  Strengthening Relationships

Even in partnered sex, a sex toy can be a great tool for sexual exploration for partners. It enhances your sexual experience, allowing better communication and more open sexual conversation. 

3. Enhancing Pleasure

The classic reason. Some toys are designed for delicious, private me-time. Others are perfect for turning up the heat with a partner. And yes, sometimes they’re even gifted as a cheeky joke between friends (or as a “just because” surprise for your significant other).

4. Easing Medical Symptoms

Toys can be more than fun. They can be therapeutic. From orgasm disorder to menopause-related dryness, they can help ease certain sexual health concerns and make intimacy enjoyable again. 

5. Identity Expression

For some, especially within the LGBTQ community, toys are a form of self-expression. For example, someone born with a vulva may use a penis-shaped toy as part of affirming their gender identity. 

6. Relaxation

Here’s the science-y side: sex and masturbation release feel-good hormones that melt away stress. Toys can help you tap into those benefits faster (and sometimes more intensely).

7. Exploring Your Body

Think of toys as your personal GPS for pleasure. They can help you map out exactly what you like, so you can communicate it clearly to your partner later.

What Are the Different Types of Sex Toys for Women

These days, people are becoming more open about using sex toys. Because of this, the industry is booming and constantly offering new designs with all sorts of features. No matter how fancy they get, most toys fall into the following categories.

1. Anal Toys

As the name suggests, you already know where this toy goes. It can be a butt plug or anal beads.

If you want to enjoy these toys, you will need lubricant. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce natural lubrication, so an artificial one is a must. Once you have that, you can explore this type of play safely and comfortably.

2. Kegel Balls

If you do kegel exercises, you might already know these. They are rounded objects you insert into the vagina to strengthen the vaginal muscles by keeping the weighted ball in place.

Some Kegel balls can also feel good inside as you move because the smaller balls inside roll and bounce while you exercise. But if you are wondering whether they are required for kegel exercises, the answer is no. They are an optional extra, not a must-have.

3. Dildos

Dildos are among the most popular sex toys. For many, they are the first thing that comes to mind when they hear the words sex toy. A dildo is typically inserted into the vagina, anus, or even the mouth if that is your preference.

Most dildos are penis shaped, but they come in different lengths and sizes. Materials range from silicone and rubber to plastic, glass, and even metal. They can be straight or curved at the tip.

Here are the most common types.

G-Spot Dildo

This type is designed to stimulate the G-spot, so it usually has a curve at the end.

Suction Cup

This dildo has a suction base so you can stick it to a flat surface and enjoy it hands free.

Regular Dildo

This is the basic model. It usually looks like a penis and does not have extra features like vibration. It is manual, so you control the pace and pressure.

Double-Ended Dildo

Often used by couples, this has a dildo on each end. You can imagine how both sides can be used.

Strap-Ons Dildo

A strap-on is a wearable toy. You wear it like underwear, but attached to it is a dildo or other insertable toy that is used to stimulate your partner.

4. Prosthetics

Prosthetics are not mainly created for sexual pleasure, but to resemble a penis. They are often used by people who want to affirm their gender identity.

Some are worn to create a bulge in underwear, while others allow the wearer to pee standing up. And yes, some models also double as sex toys for penetration. 

5. Vibrators

Vibrators are sex toys that stimulate the genitals through vibration. They are one of the most popular types of sex toys, especially among women.

They are commonly used to stimulate the clitoris or the vagina, although they can also be used on male genitalia and other sensitive spots like the nipples.

Vibrators come in many designs. Some are shaped like male genitalia and double as dildos. Others are discreet, like BeYourLover’s Alarm Clock, which could sit on a nightstand without raising any eyebrows.

Here are the most common types of vibrators.

Wearable Vibrator

These are made to be worn inside your panties, perfect if you want some secret stimulation on the go. Most are controlled with a small remote or a mobile app. Carla is a good example of a wearable sex toy.  

G-Spot Vibrator

These toys are designed to target the G-spot, so they usually have a curved shape to hit the right spot more easily.

Rabbit Vibrator

Vibrating rabbits have dual functionality, one part for clitoral stimulation and another for penetration. They are great if you want both at the same time.

Wand Vibrator

Wand vibrators are shaped like, well, a wand. They deliver strong vibrations and are usually designed for clitoral stimulation. 

6. Bullet Vibrator

Vibrating bullets are small, discreet, and easy to use, which makes them perfect for beginners or anyone looking for a first toy. They are typically used for clitoral stimulation.

7. Finger Vibrator

These slip onto one of your fingers, giving you more control over where and how you apply stimulation.

8. Suction Toys

These create a sensation similar to oral suction and can be used on the clitoris or nipples. Earpod Alggie is a cute example, designed to look like a wireless earphone.

9. Nipple Clamps

Yes, there are toys made just for your nipples. They are especially popular in BDSM play, but you do not have to be into kink to try them. Some clamps even vibrate for added pleasure.  

10. Nipple Massager

A nipple massager is less intense than clamps but still very pleasurable. As the name suggests, it massages the nipples and often has vibration features. Kiala is an example of this. 

11. Sex Machines

These are the most advanced of the bunch. They usually have a dildo attached that thrusts into the genitals hands-free. While they are not as common in shops, they are out there for anyone ready to try.

Risks of Using Sex Toys

Sex toys are generally safe as long as you buy them from legitimate sellers. The biggest risk comes from buying cheap, unsafe toys from non-legit sources. Low quality materials can cause skin irritation or even infections.

Another risk is spreading STIs if toys are shared without proper cleaning. And if you use the wrong type of toy, it can slip too far inside the vagina or anus. In that case, you might be heading to the hospital for surgical removal, which is not exactly the sexy adventure you had in mind.

Considerations When Buying Sex Toys

Even when buying from a legit seller, safety is not automatically guaranteed. You want a toy that is body-safe and worth your investment. Yes, a good sex toy is an investment in your wellness, your confidence, and your happiness.

Special Features

Check for special features and compare toys before buying. Sometimes, one toy can have everything you want, which saves you from buying multiple ones. That means you save money and still have all the fun.

Choose the Right Toy

If you are buying for anal play, choose a toy made specifically for that purpose. For example, an anal friendly dildo should have a wider base so it will not get trapped inside. That way, you avoid both embarrassment and hospital visits.

If you are new to sex toys, start with something simple like a bullet vibrator.

Choose the Right Power Source

Toys can be rechargeable, battery-powered, or manual. Manual toys are the cheapest, and they give you full control, but you will not get extra features like vibration or suction.

Battery-operated toys are more affordable than rechargeable ones, but you will need to buy batteries regularly. Rechargeable toys cost more, but they last longer on a single charge and are more convenient.

Choose Toys Made from the Right Materials

Go for materials that are safe for skin, genitals, and the anus. Avoid porous materials, since they can trap germs and are harder to clean, which increases the risk of infection.

Silicone is a great choice. There are also glass toys, but make sure they are made from break-resistant glass.

Noise

Think about who you live with. You probably do not want your grandma or aunt hearing that buzzing during your alone time. Check with the seller how loud the toy is before you buy. Most legit sellers list this information on their websites.

Safety Considerations When Using a Sex Toy

Even if you have the perfect sex toy that feels like it was made just for you, safety is still a must. Pleasure should never come with a side of trouble. Here are a few things to keep in mind so nothing gets in the way of your good time.

Clean the Sex Toy Before and After Use

You do not want germs and bacteria making your toy their home. That is just asking for an infection. Before putting it anywhere near your vagina, make sure it is free from dust and microscopic dirt. The easiest way is to wash it before and after every use.

Use Mild Soap to Clean the Sex Toy

Always check the manufacturer’s cleaning instructions. This makes sure your toy is thoroughly cleaned without harming the material. If there are no instructions, mild soap is your safest bet.

Use a Condom

A condom on your sex toy can protect you from STIs if you share it with a partner. It also makes cleanup a whole lot easier.

Choose the Right Lube

Pick a lubricant that will not damage the toy’s material. This keeps your toy in great shape for longer and prevents tiny surface damage where germs and bacteria could hide.

Where to Buy Sex Toys

The good news is that people are more open-minded about sex toys these days. You can even find them in some drugstores or retail shops. But why go searching everywhere when you can shop right here at BeYourLover? We are all about satisfying your pleasure in the safest, healthiest way possible.

Special Thanks To:

Contemporary OB/GYN

Healthy Women